However, there are also some situations around us where we work long hours and get along with colleagues for many years. So some people will kidnap you by selling their familiarity and morality, just like borrowing a car.
Xiao Liu of the property department bought a new car last year, which is a new SUV. When my colleague A Qiang learned about it, he immediately followed Little Liu Qu to see the new car in the parking lot. Two people around the car, A Qiang is also a car lover, but he is not well off, so he can only drive a second-hand Li Xia instead of walking. I was envious when I learned that Liu's new car had landed.
During the lunch break, A Qiang clamored for Liu Qu Jr. to take a test drive and go for a drive to see how the car works. Xiao Liu drove A Qiang around the main road, during which A Qiang suggested him to have a test drive.
After tasting the sweetness of driving a new car, A Qiang fell in love with Xiao Liu's new car, and with psychological jealousy, A Qiang had a bad idea.
On one occasion, the leader arranged for A Qiang to meet a customer at the airport. However, due to the small scale of the company and the lack of public transportation facilities, the company can only drive employees' cars, and the company subsidizes employees' fuel costs every month.
A Qiang thought it was not normal for him to drive a used car to pick up customers, so he asked Xiao Liu to lend him a new car to pick up customers. Xiao Liu thought it was business. Without much thought, he gave the key to A Qiang directly.
Originally, things passed like this, but the next day, Xiao Liu's mobile phone received a text message, which was a message of illegal deduction, reminding her that she was speeding on a highway section yesterday and was arrested for illegal parking on Airport Road. Liu angrily asked to clean up the mess, but the result was confidently said: this is the company's business, let the company reimburse it.
However, the feedback from the company is that it is good for employees to have fuel subsidies at ordinary times, and the company will not be responsible for violations caused by business reasons.
Seeing that A Qiang and the company are shirking their responsibilities, there is no way out. Xiao Liu has to bear the bitter fruit of being fined and deducted.
In fact, it is inevitable that there will be things involving your own private interests in the workplace. For example, the leader lets you drive a private car to do business, the department borrows your laptop to do PPT, and colleagues borrow your car.
Borrow it, it is forced; If you don't borrow it, it's easy to give people a handle and be in a dilemma.
On one occasion, I was loaned to the bank by my colleagues to do business. As a result, a hole was cut on the left side of the front. I don't even admit that she did it when my colleague killed me, because it is also smearing me everywhere and slandering me, and finally not even saying hello.
Because of this, an old employee once mentioned something to me, saying: colleagues should grasp a good degree, some things can't be done, some good people can't be cured, and the losses are their own. If you borrow a car from a colleague, you can refuse it in these three ways, which is decent and not offensive.
1, the first move is a strong fortune, you must not show your eyes, and you must not be too high-profile at work. Especially when buying a new car, you should also keep a low profile. If your colleagues know that you have bought a new car and want to test drive, rub it or borrow it, you can take the initiative, as follows:
If your colleagues are eyeing your car, you can show your helplessness, such as "No matter how good the car is, I have no right to care about my wife's name" and "My wife loves cars more than me, and she has to look around the car several times every night when she comes home, and I will be responsible for the damage"
In short, you are also very helpless. This car is not yours. When someone asks you to borrow it, you can also have an excuse to refuse.
Don't borrow the car on the grounds of insurance. When a colleague asks you to borrow a car, you can use insurance as an excuse. Show him that when buying auto insurance, the insurance company requires the owner to reimburse only by driving, otherwise he will not pay for the accident.
You can explain this truth to your colleagues, and then joke that if you borrow my car, you have to bear the responsibility, or let's sign an agreement, and then the rights and responsibilities will be clear, so it will be easy for everyone.
Although I am joking, as adults, everyone knows the meaning of these words. If anyone is so cheeky and wants to borrow your car, write an agreement.
3, car maintenance reasons If a colleague asks you to borrow a car, you can say that the car has just been taken for maintenance and will come back in a few days. Recently, the braking system of cars is not very flexible. If you want to replace a brake part, you can also deliberately explain that your car has many problems and takes a long time to repair.
I'll give you a ride. Colleagues ask you to borrow your car, and you can explain that your car has special performance. If you are not familiar with the car, you will not be able to control it and be prone to accidents. Some cars are equipped with hidden locks, which are difficult for unfamiliar people to know. I might as well let you give him a ride. After all, my car is my most familiar and easy to drive.