Be careful with the honey trap of job hunting. Compared with ordinary women, professional women are nothing special, but some people will take risks in order to succeed, and it is not uncommon to sell their sexuality. It's more dangerous to find a job like this. Let's take a look at the honey trap of careful job hunting. Let's take a look!
It is difficult for college students to apply for jobs cautiously, and it is even more difficult for female college students to apply for jobs. It is even more difficult for female college students with imperfect images to find jobs. In order to stand out in the job search and leave a good impression on the recruiter, "honey trap" is one of the commonly used methods for female college students to apply for a job.
Exercise a well-balanced and healthy figure, take a beautiful professional image photo, and put on a professional dress. These old tricks can often be innovated, and new tricks such as doing some partial plastic surgery and keeping a happy and relaxed attitude are also emerging one after another. ...
As a female college student, do you want plastic surgery? Will the desired effect be achieved after plastic surgery? Are your expectations too high? Affected by cosmetic surgery in South Korea, the number of college students undergoing cosmetic surgery has risen sharply. A survey on female college students' plastic surgery shows that female college students have become the second largest group in the plastic surgery army, accounting for 34.4%, of which 60% are plastic surgery to enhance the competitiveness of job hunting, which is particularly prominent among female college students.
Among the plastic surgery students surveyed, 92.4% are dissatisfied with their appearance, resulting in psychological problems such as anxiety, inferiority, irritability, depression and world-weariness. In fact, many of these college students are "born with beauty", and they just have plastic surgery for perfection. Many female college students rely too much on cosmetic surgery, which often leads to psychological imbalance after cosmetic surgery. Once the operation fails to achieve the expected "beautiful" effect, it will be difficult to identify with it, and even have cognitive obstacles to itself.
"Too high expectations for plastic surgery can easily lead to abnormal psychological deviation before and after plastic surgery." Xu Xiangming, director of the plastic surgery department of the hospital, has come into contact with many such college students. He said that many college students came to her with posters of movie stars, asking for eyes, nose, chin and even figure like stars. "This is actually a very abnormal psychological state. Cosmetic surgery should be carried out on the basis of a person's original appearance, rather than blindly demanding to be exactly the same as a star. "
Therefore, Director Xu suggested that before going to the hospital for plastic surgery, female college students should first have a correct and profound understanding of their plastic surgery motivation and the expected effect of plastic surgery. They can consult plastic surgery experts to determine the appropriate surgical plan and expected effect, so that they can seek beauty normally, enhance their self-confidence and meet the competition and challenges.
Be careful when looking for a job. It is difficult for college students to find jobs, and it is also difficult for female college students to find jobs. It is more difficult for female college students with imperfect images to find jobs. In order to stand out among many job seekers and leave a good impression on the recruiter, "honey trap" is one of the methods commonly used by female college students in job hunting.
The reason why we use the "honey trap" still stems from the importance of the first impression. "You'll never get a second chance to make a first impression." The interviewer will quickly judge others according to the first few seconds or minutes after meeting them. This first impression has a strong influence on people, that is, the "first cause effect".
In the recruitment interview, the examiner's first impression of the job seeker will affect his decision, and in daily interpersonal communication, what people call "love at first sight" and "love at first sight" are also the power of "first cause effect".
The first job interview is about to begin. Miss Chen is both excited and nervous. At this time, she is most worried about clothes, and the style, color and collocation of clothes worry her. There are not a few graduates who face the same confusion as Miss Chen. How to choose the clothes for the interview is the most concerned topic for these job seekers.
Taking a beautiful' professional image photo' and wearing a set of professional clothes can often bring forth the new; Exercise a balanced and healthy body and maintain a happy and relaxed mental state. These new tricks are emerging one after another. So what kind of "honey trap" should be used to be accurate, stable and wonderful?
The following professionals will help you:
First, the impression of "honey trap": photos should be both good-looking and like yourself.
Taking a fresh and beautiful photo is the first thing for female college students to do before applying for a job. In the past, female college students wanted to take a work photo as beautiful as possible. Now, female college students want this photo to be "beautiful, but like themselves."
Lele, who graduated from a well-known university in Shanghai, recalled her photo-taking experience in the third year of high school and was still filled with emotion. At that time, Lele walked into an obscure "magic photo studio" in an alley in Shanghai with a little trepidation, but was told that because there were many students to take work photos, they needed to make an appointment in advance.
When Lele stood in front of the camera wearing the professional clothes provided by the photo studio, she didn't realize that she would get an unprecedented beautiful photo in this humble hut. "Really beautiful, exquisite makeup, soft light, and that kind of professional feeling." More importantly, Lele feels that the upcoming job search experience seems to be previewed here in advance.
If the photo is beautiful, it is very different from my real image, but it will leave a bad impression of fraud to the recruiting unit.
Nowadays, female college students have stricter requirements for job photos than Lele did then. Liu Li of Shanghai Jiaotong University said: "I want to take photos of my feelings, not the unrealistic beauty of star photos." She believes that beautiful photos alone are not enough to make herself stand out in a pile of resumes. The key lies in excellent grades and rich practical experience.
Second, the beauty of the "honey trap": people rely on clothes and horses rely on saddles.
Never underestimate the dress when interviewing. Psychologists believe that first impressions are related to appearance, body language and speech. Psychologists also remind that once the first impression is formed, it is difficult to change, and the cultivation on weekdays will help you grasp this only "first time".
For the interview, almost every female college student who graduated this year has to buy a suit that fits her. Although it is convenient to buy ready-made, as a student without income, we should still consider the cost and pay more attention to the style. In order to find suitable professional clothes, some female college students do not hesitate to "squander" a weekend or two from the tight job search schedule and move to major shopping malls and specialty stores.
Zhao Hong, a graduate student, has his own set of "secrets". She has always had the habit of rummaging through fashion magazines. Over time, she found her favorite suit style on it, and after choosing the fabric, she found an old tailor who knew her.
"The customized suit fits better than the bought one, and it feels more professional to wear." In order to ensure the quality of the suit, Zhao Hong specially went to the cloth city to select the best material. The total cost of a suit is much less than that of a famous brand suit.
Another advantage of finding a tailor to customize is that it can be changed. When Zhao Hong made this suit, he altered it three times. The first time, the lining was changed into good material, the second time, the hem of the shirt was widened, and the third time, careful Zhao Hong added a hidden button between the second and third buttons of the shirt, which she said was to avoid being exposed during the interview. This change won the praise of her sisters, who praised her for her thoughtfulness.
Third, the "honey trap" wakes up: refreshed and refreshed.
Losing weight should be a topic for all ages, but this year's graduates have a new definition of losing weight. Some units require students to fill in their height and weight on the online application form. Because of this, many girls who are worried about their weight are even more scared.
Although Chen Ping, a fresh graduate of Tongji University, is plump, she hasn't reached the point where she needs to lose weight. But from the next semester of her senior year, she insisted on going to the gym to do aerobics for an hour every day.
Not entirely to lose weight, I hope I can get enough exercise and look rosy and good. Chen Ping believes that in the interview, the examiner will also pay attention to the physical quality and mental state of job seekers.
I remember that on the day of the interview, Shanghai was in the red low-temperature warning weather. Many students were wearing thin suits, shrinking with cold and turning pale, while Chen Ping looked energetic and determined. Because of long-term exercise, she kept in shape and looked more radiant in professional clothes, which won the favor of the interviewer.
As expected, she successfully found a job, and two of the four major accounting firms gave her an Offer.
Girls' minds are always dense and smart. In order to keep herself in a good mood during the interview, Lu Xiao, a female college student, buys a bunch of flowers at the window before each interview. She thinks flowers can make her feel comfortable and bring good luck in finding a job.
This hobby became popular among classmates unconsciously. Now many girls will buy some daisies, carnations or roses according to their own preferences. After all, it is necessary to find a way to relax yourself in such a tense period.