Today’s technology updates too fast. In the past, I used to play on WeChat and watch videos, and my life was relatively simple. Now comes Douyin. The more you use Douyin, the more interesting it becomes. Once you get your phone, you won’t want to put it down.

This is really painful for the child. The mother keeps using TikTok and can hardly stop. When the child makes a fuss, the mother gives the child her cell phone.

It is children’s nature to love to play, and it has become a habit for children to look at their mobile phones every day.

There is a saying that is so true. If you want to kill a child, give him a mobile phone.

Children’s eyesight has deteriorated after looking at mobile phones for too long. There are an increasing number of children who have started wearing glasses in kindergarten, but parents do not take it seriously.

The child is addicted to the mobile phone and stops making noises. The child is happy and the parents are even happier. Therefore, the mother sits here and browses TikTok while the child plays with the mobile phone there.

When children only eat and do not exercise, they start to gain weight. There are more and more fat people around them. The more they don't move, the less they want to move, which becomes a vicious cycle. Nowadays, many children start to cry tired after doing a little exercise. During military training in junior high schools and high schools, some children fainted and fell to the ground after standing for a long time. This was all caused by lack of exercise.

The child was playing and started to play games. The child’s grades were originally very fast, but because he was thinking about playing games, his grades began to decline. Only then did the parents realize that they had made a serious mistake, but they had to change it. It's too late for the child's bad habits. The child is possessed and feels like he's withdrawing from a drug.

Therefore, when a child makes a fuss, it is a bad sign for the mother to give the child a mobile phone. It is best to control yourself in front of children and not use TikTok. Mothers can take their children to read books, play games, and exercise. The outside world is wonderful, and traveling with your children can increase your knowledge.

Be yourself. In front of your children, mothers must put down their mobile phones and refrain from using Douyin. They should not give their mobile phones to their children when they are in trouble. This will do no good at all.

This is not a good question. I want everyone who asks the question to know that it is bad. I think the deeper meaning is how it changes.

First question. Mothers often use TikTok without caring about their children. what to do?

Under the current epidemic situation, kindergartens are not open. The burden of taking care of the children falls entirely on the parents. Especially young mothers. Being in front of children all day long disrupts the original rhythm of life. I usually like to check out Douyin to see what’s new. There is nothing wrong with that. But the child keeps crying. The most convenient way is to hand the phone to the child. It is simple and effective. But this is very harmful to the physical and mental growth of children. I'm afraid to calm down and think about it. Danger to eyes, addiction to mobile phones. Have parents considered it? If you think about it, you wouldn’t hand your phone over to a child easily. It’s like a kid not eating snacks.

The second question is what should adults do when their children cry?

Everyone who has raised children knows this. Children cry for a reason. Either he was hungry, sleepy, or peed. These problems are eliminated. The child just needs to be accompanied. There is a word called playmate. It's best played between children. Several neighbor children were playing together. If conditions do not allow it, of course the adults will have to go into battle in person. I suggest you buy a talking robot toy. Can tell stories, sing, and dance. So can parents. Play with the kids and make some toys. Better to record it with a video camera. My child is in the second grade of junior high this year. Recall the process of children growing up. Still a little regretful. There are too few companions. And now these young parents, please cherish the beautiful moments growing up with your children! Otherwise you will regret it.

Friends whose children have grown up, please have time to make some videos of your children’s growth process. Watching the children's old videos, a sour feeling came to my heart unconsciously.

No, if it lasts for a long time, it will cause damage to the children's eyes, and secondly, they will easily become addicted to games, especially games. Therefore, parents are their children's first teachers, so be careful.

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It is definitely not good and is particularly harmful to children’s physical and mental health.

It is best not to do this. When parents have time, they can play with her or focus her attention on other things, such as teaching children to draw, sing children's songs, write numbers, etc. Telling stories, etc., in this case the children will learn a lot of knowledge

Doing so can only harm the children. Now the short video platform is really letting a hundred flowers blossom and a hundred schools of thought contend. This is a good phenomenon. We have opened our horizons through the short video platform and learned a lot of knowledge. The ancients said: Reading thousands of books is not as good as traveling thousands of miles, and traveling thousands of miles is not as good as reading countless people. Now the short video platform provides the ability to travel thousands of miles and read countless people. However, if there is good, there will also be bad. In order to attract traffic and attract attention, some bloggers produce short videos that violate social ethics, while some videos are devoid of any nutrition and are just for a laugh. The human brain likes relaxed and pleasant sensory stimulation. If you watch too many such videos, your thinking and thinking will decline, and you will become resistant to your own learning and work. Adults have trouble controlling themselves, let alone children. What children today lack is not information, but the attentive company of their parents. As long as parents put down their mobile phones for two hours and spend attentively reading, exercising, or chatting with their children, their children will definitely feel happier.

This is very bad. Here I want to criticize this mother. Since she has become a mother, she should take on this responsibility. This not only reflects the mother's irresponsibility, but also It will cause the baby to develop very bad habits. 1. Mom, don’t think about your mobile phone all day long. Although mobile phones are fun, most people ignore the beauty around them because of mobile phones and games. 2. If the baby is noisy, do not let the baby play with mobile phones. It is not a good thing for the baby to be exposed to mobile phones when the baby is noisy. When the baby is noisy, parents can play with the baby for a while. It is very good to play with toys such as building blocks and puzzles together. This type of toys can increase your baby's fun and develop your baby's intelligence. Maybe the next spaceship will come from your baby (just kidding here)

Not good, not good for your baby's strength

Why does mom check her phone and scroll through Douyin every day?

How many times a day do you brush? How many hours do you brush each time?

How old is the child? Why the noise? If you show him your phone, will he stop arguing?

We can try to expand this question:

Q1: The only source of income for a single mother is to watch Douyin on her mobile phone. While she was working, her child made a noise. The mother can only find a way to make the child quiet for a while, and the way is to show him the mobile phone. After work is over, this single mother still needs to cook three meals a day for her child, tutor her in homework, accompany him in outdoor activities for at least two hours a day, and provide the financial support needed for her child's growth on her own.

In this question, the questioner asked, is it okay for mothers to show their children their mobile phones when they are busy?

The answer is: absolutely no problem!

Q2: In a dual-income family, in order to ensure that the children have a better childhood, the mother sacrificed her career plan and turned to some part-time jobs at home with a higher degree of freedom and a lower income. Due to the pressure of life, my mother had to take on more work to ensure the quality of life at home. During the day, she has to take care of the housework, do odd jobs, and deal with the various needs of her children. After her husband came back from work, my mother hoped that her husband could help her a little and give her a breather. But when she was looking at her phone and scrolling through Douyin, her husband started playing Honor of Kings, and her children also wanted to play, so she sighed and handed the phone to her children. In exchange for a moment of peace!

At this time, my husband asked a question. My mother checks her phone and scrolls through Douyin every day. When her child makes a noise, she shows him her phone. Is this okay?

The answer is: not very good, but maybe she did her best. No matter how fleshy a nanny is, she can't carry so many pig teammates.

Q3: With a bride price of 300,000 yuan, I finally got a daughter-in-law. I don’t have much affection, and I had a child after the marriage. My daughter-in-law doesn't do housework, she's too lazy to do anything, and she just likes to watch her phone and scroll through Douyin. If her child is noisy, she will show him her phone. Anyway, as long as she is not disturbed, there is absolutely no bottom line in parenting.

If someone asks: Is this good?

The answer is: Very bad! Giving birth to a child should be something both people are prepared for. We are opposed to having children for the sake of continuing the family line. It is not only money that bears on the quality of a child’s life, but also the behavioral habits of both parents. Even if the father works very hard to raise the child, if the mother is always lazy, watching mobile phones and scrolling through Douyin, which is not a productive image, it will have a lot of negative impact on the formation of the child's world view and life outlook. Not only does looking at mobile phones harm your eyesight and brain, but it also has a longer-term impact on personality and character.

In this case, it is recommended that the couple have a good talk. They should not simply define the mother's behavior as "good" or "bad", but should talk about it in the interests of the entire family. Talk about plans for the future and family.

This is definitely not good! There must be a reason for the child to cry. On the one hand, the body may not be feeling well, on the other hand, the wishes may not be fulfilled, and on the other hand, the parents may wish to accompany them. If you don't care about anything at this time and just throw a mobile phone to solve the problem, this means that parents are irresponsible to their children and it is detrimental to their growth. It may develop dependence on mobile phones in children. If it becomes an "addiction", it will be difficult to quit.