Marriage depends on two people working together and paying together. Everyone knows the truth, but the people who can really fulfill their responsibilities and obligations are not 100%.
Some people regard marriage as a tool to squeeze each other and a springboard to achieve a leap in the quality of life. Some people treat marriage as a joke, don't take the other half seriously, and run amok outside all day.
After reading many other people's stories, many women don't want to get married now, because the mobile phone is fun enough and the wallet is rich enough, so they don't have to wait on a man's family and deal with miscellaneous chores, and at the same time they are worried that he will betray his marriage and himself.
In marriage, some women no longer need men. What did they go through? What people who have been there say is very true.
The picture comes from the internet.
Linda, men are unreliable. You have to rely on yourself.
I had a good relationship with him when I was in love. Maybe he didn't put it into practice at that time, and I ignored his shortcomings.
Having children after marriage and staying at home for more than three years, how tired it is to take care of them. He never feels sorry for me. I'll cook when I get home. When the taste was wrong, he threw a bowl and lost his temper, saying it was useless to marry me.
He will calm down and apologize to me afterwards. For the sake of my children, I was unable to divorce, so I chose to forgive.
But I have no place in his heart more and more. He gave me 1000 yuan of living expenses every month, and I managed to make ends meet, using up all my private money before marriage.
Once, I really had no money, so I asked him for some living expenses. He suddenly lost his temper and said that I only spent money all day and threw a hundred dollars on the ground. His eyes were full of disgust.
The picture comes from the internet.
I still remember that look vividly. When the children can go to kindergarten, I will find a cashier's job to pick them up every day. The point is that I don't have to look at a man's face to earn money and spend money, and I don't have to humble myself.
He takes money too seriously, all the money he earns is his, and he often asks me how much I earn. I don't like his behavior. When I say he wants a divorce, I'll bring it up so that everyone can get together and leave. If you don't leave, you have to take money out to raise your children.
Maybe he saw my determination and now gives me two thousand yuan a month for living expenses, and nothing else has changed. I've seen the truth clearly, so I can't count on him, I'm on my own. If I can't go on, I'll make do for now.
Summary: Women still need men, but men have failed to fulfill their responsibilities and hurt women's hearts, so women can find another world by themselves and live a wonderful life.