Most of us women live in the shadow of men, and it seems difficult to get rid of them. Some people think that they can't live without men, and then they can never be a woman with personality. In such a competitive society, women really need to work hard if they want to live a wonderful life. You can't change your temperament, but you can be a woman with personality. I will talk about my superficial understanding from seven aspects: first, have a good personality. Keep the bright spots in your personality, get rid of the stains in your personality, and become an annoying woman. Just as gardeners often prune flowers and trees, people are fickle and need to constantly reflect on themselves and correct themselves. A good personality makes it easy for you to get close to people and establish good interpersonal relationships, so that you no longer feel lonely and helpless. Second, we women should learn to dress up beautifully, so that we men will always feel that you are the only one for him. Dress as appropriately as possible and wear less exotic clothes, which will look neither fish nor fowl. If your figure is not slim enough, wear less casual clothes such as sportswear, which will make your figure even more shapeless. When wearing clothes, you should learn to learn from each other's strengths, show the advantages of your body, and hide your shortcomings. Clothing colors should also be matched according to their skin color and body shape. Third, no matter how beautiful you are, you should learn to cook well and hold your man's stomach well. People often say: "To grasp a man's heart, we must first grasp his stomach." In this way, he won't go out to eat often, and at the same time, we won't have a rival crisis easily. She is the first female leader in the British Conservative Party's "Men's World" and the first female prime minister in British history. She has set a record of being re-elected for three times, with a term of 1 1 year. She was born a commoner, without the protection of a prominent family and the support of a rich woman. With constant efforts and tenacious struggle, she finally climbed the ladder of success step by step in the whirlpool and torrent of political struggle, and reached the peak of power in Britain, a country with a heavy family background and tradition. She is Mrs Thatcher. She is so successful because she has always insisted on her own opinions and will not give up her ideas because of interference from others. Fifth, we should pay attention to our own life foundation. Money can support ourselves and our families. We don't have to look at men's faces to eat every day. If we can't even support ourselves, how can we talk about personality? Sixth, we should pay attention to improving our knowledge and enriching our connotations and hobbies. With a high level of knowledge and accomplishment, you will no longer feel pale and powerless; With rich connotations and hobbies, life will not be monotonous. Diligent reading, sports, listening to music, gardening, cooking and so on in daily life can make you beautiful for a long time. Pay attention to cultivate noble sentiments and don't care about other people's eyes. For example, when you are old, you suddenly want to write a romance novel; Aerobics; There's nothing wrong with learning embroidery or something. Learn if you want. Seventh, everything in the world has two sides, just like two sides of a copper coin, so does life. There are successes and failures. Don't be afraid of failure! Failure is only the result of one thing, but not your life! Failure doesn't mean you have to give up, but you have to work harder! Don't sell yourself short, believe that you are unique. In a word, a woman's unique personality often has great charm. Please believe that every woman who comes into this world is a gift from heaven and a unique treasure, so she should come into this world to help others and honor others. May all women in the world stick to their true colors and give full play to their true colors, so that people around them are shocked by her true colors.