He also took his mother back to Bianjing, waiting for the family to propose marriage after the national mourning.
But the appearance of one person changed all this, and the marriage ended in vain.
This person is He's menstrual daughter and his cousin Cao Jinxiu.
The Cao family was exiled for sin, and Cao Jinxiu was taken as a concubine in the exile. She was forced to drink safflower by that big lady and lost her fertility. Exiled prisoners will get tattoos on their faces and their looks will be damaged. Beauty has always been a woman's weapon, and children are a woman's reliance. A woman without looks and children has no future.
At the beginning, Ming Lan's grandmother had persuaded Ming Lan.
She said that Cao Jinxiu was no longer a threat and asked Ming Lan if she would accept Cao Jinxiu.
But Ming Lan didn't completely agree. At this moment, Gulai proposed and finally married Gulai.
If Ming Lan agrees to Cao Jinxiu's entry, is there really no threat? I don't think so:
He is too soft-hearted and will be wronged because of Cao Jinxiu in the future. Although he Hong Wen looks gentle and sincere, he is gentle and considerate to Ming Lan.
But as Ming Lan said, the lowest point of character is softness, which is his greatest strength and weakness.
He has been very hard on this cousin. She begged him several times and he lost his charter.
Just now, I promised Minglan that I would only treat my cousin as a female ambassador. When my cousin cried, she began to waver.
From the beginning, Cao Jinxiu explained to him that Blue Mountain was jealous, so she could not marry into the royal family.
If you really come in after this, my cousin will have no worries.
She has no appearance and no fertility, but she has one weapon, and that is the feeling with He.
He has always loved Cao Jinxiu. Knowing Cao Jinxiu's tragic experience will only make him feel more distressed about his cousin.
It is estimated that as long as my cousin pretends to be weak, he will be cheated in Hong Wen.
What Ming Lan Ruo did to his cousin must be understood as bullying in He Hongwen's eyes.
Over time, he will stand on my cousin's side and let Ming Lan be wronged.
If cousin and Ming Lan play a conspiracy directly, Ming Lan may not be able to beat her.
But his Hong Wen's preference for his cousin is something that Ming Lan can't help.
His mother in Hong Wen is also partial to Cao Jinxiu. From the mouth of He's grandmother, He Jia's old lady, we can know that He's mother has always been a person who can't carry it clearly. She knew that the Cao family was miserable, but she still took refuge in the Cao family everywhere.
When he stood up for Cao's menstruation, Cao Jinxiu's mother spilled all over the floor on the spot.
She said that the royal family was heartless, so they climbed up the high branches and gave up their lives.
Mother He, who was lying in the hospital bed at that time, struggled to argue: "I want my niece to come into my house!"
The implication of this sentence is that Minglan and Shengjia don't agree, and their goal is still Ming Lan.
It is conceivable that in the future, if there is any contradiction between Cao Jinxiu and Ming Lan, she will definitely stand on Cao Jinxiu's side.
In ancient times, it was hard for a daughter-in-law not to please her mother-in-law.
His mother, like Hua Lan's mother-in-law, is preoccupied with her eldest daughter-in-law, because her eldest daughter-in-law is her niece.
So no matter what Hua Lan does, her mother-in-law doesn't like her.
Then Ming Lan will be in the same situation in the future. After all, Cao Jinxiu is also He Mu's niece.
On the other hand, he Hong Wen is a filial man. He didn't dare to go against his mother's wishes for fear of accidentally making her angry.
How can you expect him to protect Ming Lan again and again?
Ming Lan once told Juran that Wen Jing's mother is not easy to get along with, and she may not be happy after marriage.
At that time, Ru Lan and Ming Lan said, "What is not bitter in the world?" Also because of this sentence, Ming Lan once moved his mind.
She wants to compromise with reality and marry him.
But after all, Ming Lan is reluctant. She once said alone that under the moon, "it seems that after all, I can't live."
Ming Lan's heart still wants to live for herself, and she wants to resist.
And Gu's confession to him is exactly what she has been looking forward to.
She needs someone who understands her and is willing to stand in front of her.
So I married Gu, on the one hand, because the situation forced me, and more importantly, Gu moved her, and she was willing.
Facts have proved that she chose the right husband.
Marrying gu, although there are many troubles, is calculated all day. But Gu Yeting stood by her side from beginning to end, trusting her unconditionally and protecting her.