One: tasteful.
When girls reach their twenties, they will begin to learn to manage themselves carefully. Reflected in her appearance and self-restraint. Every girl is special and should have her own unique taste. Many girls may think that taste is linked to fashion or luxury, but it is not. Taste is a person's attitude towards things. Different versions of the same thing will appear before different people. The value of the object itself has nothing to do with the taste, girl.
To some extent, a person's taste and her temperament complement each other. The taste depends on a girl's discovery of new things in her daily life. Taste is her own unique taste, and every girl should have her own taste. A cheap piece of jewelry, as long as you wear your own variety, can also show your own taste. Usually you can read more fashion magazines to improve your appreciation of clothes.
Second, get into the habit of reading.
When girls are in their twenties, they have already begun to get in touch with society slowly. In the process of interacting with others, conversation and cultivation are the best ways to conquer others. I don't trust a girl who doesn't like reading. She will be full of wisdom. When you have nothing to do, go to the bookstore and carefully select some books that can improve yourself and buy them to read at home. Whether it is a masterpiece, financial management or encouragement, there are places worth learning. Books can enrich people's lives and change people's minds. Choosing to read a good book is better than an excellent tutor.
A girl who likes reading must be calm and have a good attitude, because in the sea of books, a girl can absorb nutrients with her mouth open. A girl who likes reading, she must be an elegant and intellectual woman. Studying hard can make people feel calm, and there is a lot of fun hidden in the book. When you meet the books you are interested in, you will find that you are in a happy mood, and every book has great wisdom. The books you have read will be the social capital for girls. I believe no one will like to associate with a superficial girl. Choose the right book, it can teach people a lot of philosophy, and will let you learn to meet the pain or happiness in life with a peaceful mind.
Three: Try to discover the beauty in life.
When girls are in their twenties, they will escape from those gloomy novels, which will only bring us closer and closer to sadness. Life is not a copy of the plot in the novel. Don't always remind yourself of your misfortune. You know, there are still many people in this world who are less lucky than you. As long as you can look up and see the sunshine, you are lucky. Those setbacks in life are just an episode compared with a person's life. If you want to gain a foothold in this society, you must have a peaceful mind. In the life of suffering, we are always choosing and being chosen by others. We should have the spirit of Ah Q, and a painful and happy life is our choice. Why should we indulge in pain?
Some people fall into an unfortunate thought because of emotional or work setbacks, which leads them to become pessimistic people. No matter what you do, you are afraid of losing, or you feel that you will not succeed. What a person pretends to be, she can only live in the prison she has set for herself. Who is qualified to say that she won't succeed? Who can say that he won't succeed? People who want to succeed are optimistic, pessimism is always an obstacle to success, and only positive emotions can make life better. I believe tomorrow will be better than today. As long as you work hard, society will be fair Don't complain about your life, otherwise it will only prove that you haven't really worked hard.
Four: Make friends with thoughtful people.
When girls reach their twenties, they will begin to choose friends with a purpose. Social contacts are very important, and the circle of friends you choose to join will also have a great impact on your life. If your friends are all positive and optimistic people, you will be infected by them. If your friends are pessimists, they only complain about life all day, but they don't work hard. After a long time, you will also be infected. It is very important for people to choose their friends. Sometimes, if you want to know a person, you can also know him from what kind of friend he is. Don't make friends easily, but also pay attention to who you choose to make friends with.
A good friend can make great changes in your life, and he will make you optimistic. Girls in their twenties should make more friends and be selfish. In other words, they should make more helpful friends, and you can learn from them. But if you want to make friends, you should be sincere to them. Don't associate with them in order to take advantage of them. No one is a fool. Others can clearly see how good you are to others. Use your sincerity to make friends with those excellent people with ideas!
Five: Stay away from the bubble idol drama
When girls reach their twenties, they will start to stay away from those fake idol dramas. Prince Charming and Cinderella on TV are both boys or girls in life. They don't really exist, like some plots in TV dramas, which sometimes deeply affect people's ideas. For example, there will be vicious mother-in-law in some TV dramas, or the people who love themselves are actually their brothers and sisters. These plots are just to make people feel emotional. It can't be linked to real life, but it is beyond life. Girls should stop indulging in this false fairy tale atmosphere and watch more programs that can help them when they are free.
If you want to understand society, you can't pass those bubble idol dramas. They are poisonous. When some people are deeply poisoned, it will directly affect their outlook on life and values, such as getting rich overnight or being penniless overnight. They may exist in life, but they are not as simple and direct as shown in TV series, and love and affection are not as decisive and cruel as shown in movies. Idol dramas will affect people's ability to judge society, so please stay away from bubble idol dramas. I believe that an excellent girl should not spend a lot of time indulging in idol dramas.
Six: learn to be patient and tolerant.
When girls reach their twenties, they will gradually learn to be patient and tolerant. Society is not a wayward place, and the temper of those big ladies will gradually converge, because sometimes you may lose your self-esteem because of your care and become an accused uneducated woman. Giving those unfriendly people a kind smile can not only make them feel ashamed, but also leave a good impression of generosity and understanding. Patience is not cowardice, nor does it hurt self-esteem, but tolerance. Please let go of your bad temper of righteous words and give way at an appropriate time, which will not only show your self-restraint, but also make you a popular girl.
There will be many unfair things in life, and there will be many people you can't accept. We can't try to change others. Instead of criticizing others' behavior loudly and angrily, it is better to give others a smile with an understanding attitude. No one will hurt a kind person. Arguing with others at the top of your lungs will not win the so-called self-esteem, but will make you lose it.
Seven: Cultivate a healthy attitude and pay attention to your body.
When girls reach their twenties, they must learn to adjust their mentality and protect their bodies. Health is the most important thing, I believe everyone knows, but when it is really done, it is not a simple matter. Girls in their twenties should start to pay attention to their diet. It is recommended to read more books on diet. No girl should ignore her health for one reason or another. No matter how beautiful tomorrow is, you always greet it with a morbid attitude, and you won't feel its beauty.
Eight: Let beauty be your capital.
When a girl is in her twenties, she will start to let your beauty play a role and give your beauty enough voice at the right time. Not every girl has a beautiful appearance. Make your beautiful appearance your capital and use it when necessary. It can open many difficulties in your life. Although some people sometimes say that a beautiful girl is a vase, a vase is a work of art if it is put in the right place. A girl's youth and beauty are only a few short years, so make good use of your beauty.
But girls can't be complacent just because they are beautiful. Only a beautiful appearance and inner wisdom are excellent women. Please make rational use of their beauty, and don't let yourself sink because of their short-lived beauty.
Nine: You can live well without any man.
Girls in their twenties should treat their emotions rationally. Many girls live a miserable and negative life because of a man. No one can grasp the emotional things. Why should she be caught by a man? A man who doesn't appreciate you is not qualified for you to pity him. Every girl is beautiful. She is waiting for a man who knows her to appear. When a man leaves, he can only say that the man who understands you hasn't appeared yet. A man is not a girl's whole life. Instead of letting yourself fall into a hopeless love, it is better to turn around smartly, enrich yourself and devote yourself to work and study. The man who leaves you one day will find that you are the same.
Once I thought I couldn't live without him, but later I asked myself a hundred times: Can't I live without him? One hundred and twenty times, the answer is: I will live well. Girls should never trample on themselves, and don't think that you can get men's love if you are satisfied with perfection. Love is beautiful, girls are beautiful, and no man can blaspheme! Leaving a man who doesn't appreciate you is the most gorgeous turn. Although I am unwilling, the painful torture makes me have no energy to run your work or study.
Ten: Have the motivation to manage money and learn to invest and operate.
When girls reach their twenties, they will begin to learn how to manage money. Don't think that she can't become a rich man, just spend money lavishly, and don't think that there will be endless money tomorrow, but spend today's money in the wrong place. There are many books on financial management on the market now, all of which are good. Girls can have a look when they are free. To develop good financial habits, you can read more books on investment management that can make money, which are intangible wealth. Girls, no matter how much money you earn now, you should plan for your tomorrow. A clever woman should know how to spend money. How to spend money is actually an art.
Mary's husband is a very rich man. She once told me about her husband. She said: My husband sometimes prefers to spend a lot of money on something, but he cares about spending a little money. I didn't understand it then. Later, I thought about it and found out that her husband was rich because he knew how to spend money and spent it on practical things. No matter how expensive it is, he doesn't blink. There are some extra money in life that can be saved. Some rich people will also show meanness in life, which is their habit all the time, otherwise, they will not become rich.
Eleven: Love and marriage can be owned together.
Girls in their twenties will face the pressure of marriage. Some people will say that love and marriage are two different things. A woman and a man can live together when they get married, which is not necessarily what she really loves. The man a woman marries can provide a warm and comfortable home for herself, but it is not necessarily what she really loves. Faced with these remarks, it seems that many people get married for the sake of marriage, and under the pressure of family and society, they get married for the sake of marriage. Some people get married for a purpose, perhaps to give themselves a place to stay, perhaps to help their future careers, or perhaps to get something from each other.
Ask those sweet newlyweds and you will know that sometimes love and marriage can be owned together. Marriage is the grave of love. It can only be said that neither side knows how to manage love. I believe that before two people decide to get married, they must have feelings for each other, but the day after marriage makes love dull. This is only because after marriage, both men and women put aside the romance in love and devoted themselves to their work. Those unmarried girls should never get married for some purpose. Getting married is a very simple thing. Don't make it so complicated. I believe that every girl longs for love. When a girl meets the person she loves deeply, she will find that if she wants to be with him, whether she is rich or poor, whether she is alive or dead may not matter. Girls should not get married for the sake of marriage, nor should they get married for a certain life.
Twelve: Who says that women are not as good as men?
When a girl reaches her twenties, she must firmly believe that it is not only men who can achieve something, whether in life or in the workplace. Nowadays, women's thoughts are fashionable, and successful women have appeared in all walks of life. As long as a woman works hard, she can also shuttle through a man's world. Women have a lot of capital, and they have a slight advantage in the workplace. In some industries, women will play their unique advantages to fight for it. They are all beautiful, capable and tough, and can make men submit. Women should not always think about developing in the kitchen, only capable women can be appreciated by men. Now the role of housewife is out of fashion, and there are still many wonderful worlds waiting for women to pursue.
Women don't want to be attached to a man. In this society, no one must care about anyone for no reason. A woman has no idea of how to attach herself to a man. In this personality environment, men also like women with personality and ability. Who says women are inferior to men? Work hard, as long as you have your own sky, are you afraid that there are no white clouds under this sky? As long as you are a talented woman, are you afraid that excellent men will not appreciate you?
Thirteen: Find a husband who can help you realize your dream.
When a girl is in her twenties, she must have a clear dream and then fight for it. When you set a dream, don't change it, just like when you find a man who can help you realize your dream, you must try to make him your husband. Women should not think that some dreams can be realized by themselves, or that some excellent women want to realize their dreams through their own efforts, but this dream can be well realized if there is a man behind them, especially a man who can provide financial support.
It seems that there are few girls who have dreams about life now. Some girls just want to have a simple job and a simple love and live a happy life with a man. And really good men, they also want their wives to be ambitious women, so if women have dreams, men will fully support them. A woman can let her dreams follow her and marry a man. As long as he is willing to help you realize your dream, it shows that he is a man who appreciates you.
Fourteen: Let youth be presumptuous and smile brightly.
When a girl is in her twenties, she is in her prime and has a lot of youth to let go. Girls can be stubborn at the right time and proud at the right time, so that those beautiful corners of the mouth will be slightly affected. Girls in their twenties are the most beautiful. They can laugh at will or cry stubbornly. Girls in their twenties should not be afraid of losing. Youth has just begun. We have the capital to lose, and we can start pursuing again. Girls in their twenties should be true to themselves, and the most beautiful years should be reserved for bright smiles, so that love can be presented incisively and vividly, and they should dare to love, hate and pursue.
When girls are in their twenties, they are the most beautiful flowers in full bloom. A girl's one-season flowering period must be remembered only for herself, and never let her own flowering period be unnecessarily destroyed by others. A girl in her twenties is a cup of green tea, and beauty must be left to those who know how to taste. Don't let those who have no taste trample on your pure breath. Girls in their twenties are blue sky. It can be sad or spacious, but remember, it must have a pursuit.