I don't know why, remembering an interview I saw a few years ago, Gao Yuanyuan said in the interview, "I have never been a proud person, and the confidence you see now has been established."
If you don't know her, you will think this girl is really lucky.
In the face of Zhang Guomin's first love, Gao Yuanyuan's beauty is the kind that oriental men can't refuse, pure, gentle and not aggressive.
17 years old, went shopping with her classmates in Wangfujing and was found by an advertising company. My brother accompanied her to shoot the first advertisement, and then the advertisement for ice cream was broadcast on CCTV.
The most sensational thing was the advertisement of Qingkou Buccal Tablets shot later, which was displayed in the subway bus at that time. The girl in the advertisement has bright eyes, fresh and playful, so Gao Yuanyuan was stamped and certified as a "articulate girl". The freshness of the girl next door also makes her image gradually recognizable.
Gao Yuanyuan's return to work after childbirth was amazing, but she said, "I have never been a proud person."
Of course, the success of commercial advertisements directly sent Gao Yuanyuan into the entertainment circle.
Since then, her life seems to be smooth sailing, and she seems to have beauty, luck and career success that ordinary people can't reach ... It seems that a beautiful girl with natural beauty should enjoy this privilege.
However, it is such a proud spring breeze person, and the story behind her is not so smooth.
No one can get happiness easily, and behind the glamour is the unimaginable efforts of ordinary people.
Gao Yuanyuan said frankly in Me, 39 that he really wanted to be a good actor.
"I am often dissatisfied with myself. I may have felt that I didn't have a chance before, because I didn't meet those dynamic and contradictory roles, so I didn't perform well enough. But when I was really given that role, my driving ability was actually limited. "
She talked about filming and searching, and there was a scene called card in more than 30 scenes, and several scenes were called card by the director just after a few words. She was depressed at that time, and then gradually accepted that she was a mediocre person.
In fact, each of us has to go through such a process of transformation. Prove that we have no talent, no talent, and are denied. Then we insist, then we insist. Finally, we find that fewer and fewer people deny you, and more and more people recognize you.
I know how difficult this choice is. Therefore, behind that calmness and calmness is actually the weight of fate. Mother has a profound influence on her personality, values and philosophy of life; Just like a river that changes the landscape of mountains and rivers, it quietly shapes her day after day.
Mother died a week after Gao Yuanyuan's wedding.
More than three years later, Gao Yuanyuan wrote a reminiscence article, saying, "I used to think that if I became a mother one day, I would be like my mother. She has always been a shy and timid person ... I don't want to be as shy as my mother, but I am still like her. "
For a long time, Gao Yuanyuan would take a book with him, The Tower of Tokyo.
That book is full of details of the author's memories of her mother, which can remind her of her own mother. The author of Tokyo Tower said, "I realized from an early age that I must take good care of my mother in the future." Gao Yuanyuan, too, from her twenties, her biggest fear was that she didn't know when her mother would leave her.
This year, Gao Yuanyuan was 40 years old. After giving birth to a daughter, maybe her life has moved towards a broader situation, and maybe she is still thinking about her mother.
So, I think, there has never been an easy life, and everyone is like this. Instead of enviing other people's lives, it is better to live your own life, be patient and enjoy the gift of life quietly and calmly.