Let's talk online first. Online is nothing more than WeChat chat. If the other person makes you feel that there is no need to talk about it, just say so, and normal people will understand. If the other party's words are too strange, it is suggested to blacken and keep the chat record directly, and then explain the situation to the introducer to prevent the other party from complaining first.
Blind date is just a general understanding, there is no need to get together so strictly. Afu meets people I don't like, and they are all blacked out directly, so they are too lazy to talk nonsense. After all, you didn't give me tuition, so there's no need to teach each other how to behave.
Let's talk about offline meeting. If the other party has words or behaviors that make you uncomfortable during the meeting, you can refer to the following suggestions:
First of all, no matter how wonderful the other person's words and deeds are, it is very important to remain calm and polite. Don't get angry or excited with them, which may aggravate the embarrassment of the situation. Focus on ensuring your own safety and end the meeting as soon as possible. If you feel unsafe or the other person's behavior is obviously inappropriate, leave the blind date place in time, and it is best to make an appointment with a relative or friend to meet in a nearby place.
Ah Fu only chooses public places to meet, and it has to be an open public place, not a balcony. And before going out, I will definitely tell my closest relatives where I am going, and keep in touch at any time. Although there is a middleman in blind date, there is no guarantee that you will meet all good people.
In addition, if the other person's behavior makes him feel uncomfortable, he can directly and appropriately express his feelings and boundaries. Express yourself calmly and rationally, stick to your bottom line, and clearly tell each other that you are dissatisfied with their words and deeds or feel inappropriate. Don't be tactful, don't be shy.
For example, when Afu meets a blind date, he has no sense of proportion and tries to have physical contact when he meets for the first time. Ah Fu refused directly and never saw this person again. Girls are sometimes particularly easy to hide their faces, because they have been disciplined since childhood: be gentle, be polite and be polite. But these qualities should be reserved for those who are equally gentle and polite. For those who are impolite, we must strike hard!
Most importantly, blind date is an opportunity to get to know each other, but it doesn't mean that you should continue to associate. If you feel that you can't have sex with the other person, or have obvious discomfort, you can choose to end this blind date and continue to find a more suitable partner. Remember, your comfort and happiness are crucial.