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There will inevitably be hardships on the road of life. How to deal with them?
Many times, no one can predict anything. Good things and bad things can sometimes be said to point to one person together. At that time, people may be very pleased when something good happens to them. But what if you encounter a bad thing that will even make you suffer for a lifetime? Therefore, bumps and bumps on the road of life are inevitable, depending on how individuals treat them.

This is a very unusual day and a special holiday of Christmas Eve in the west. Therefore, as usual, people gather in the church to celebrate on Sunday parties. After church, a mother begged Macmillan to drive her two teenage daughters to church at night. Because she lives alone with her daughter, she doesn't like driving in rainy and snowy days. So, Macmillan agreed.

That night, they drove to church and two girls sat next to Macmillan.

Driving up a high slope, Macmillan saw an overpass not far ahead, where many cars collided. Because the road was icy and slippery, the wheels couldn't stop and hit the back of a car.

A girl next to Macmillan let out a scream.

"Oh, Donna!" Macmillan turned to see what had happened to the girl sitting by the window. At that time, the car was not equipped with seat belts. So her face hit the windshield, and when she fell back to her seat, the sharp glass fragments left two deep wounds on her left cheek, and the blood was like a spring, which was terrible.

Fortunately, there was a first aid kit in this car, so we used gauze to stop Donna's bleeding. The traffic police who came to investigate said that the accident was inevitable and not Macmillan's responsibility. But Macmillan still feels guilty-a girl as beautiful as flowers and pure as jade will have a scar on her face for life, and it's because of herself.

Donna was rushed to the emergency room of the hospital, and the doctor began to sew up the wound on her face. After a long time, Macmillan was worried about what would happen and asked a nurse why the operation was not over yet. The nurse said that the doctor on duty happened to be a plastic surgeon. He sewed carefully and took a lot of time. But the effect is remarkable.

Macmillan was afraid to visit Donna in the hospital for fear that she would scold herself angrily. Because it was Christmas, the doctors sent the patients home, and some unnecessary operations were postponed. So there are not many patients on Donna Ward's floor. Macmillan asked a nurse how Donna was. The nurse said with a smile that Donna was recovering well. In fact, she is like a ray of bright sunshine. Donna looked happy and asked questions about treatment and nursing. The nurse revealed to Macmillan that there were not many patients, and they had their own time and often made excuses to chat in Donna's ward.

Macmillan told Donna that he was very sad and sorry for what happened. She stopped Macmillan from apologizing, saying that cosmetics could be used to cover the scar. Then she began to describe the work of nurses and their thoughts happily: nurses gathered around the bed and smiled. Donna looks very happy. This is her first time in hospital and everything around her has aroused her great interest.

Later, Donna became the focus of the school. She told the story of the accident and her experience in the hospital over and over again. Donna's mother and sister did not blame Macmillan, but thanked him for taking care of the two sisters that night. As for Donna, there is no disfigurement, and cosmetics really almost cover her scar. This makes Macmillan feel much better, but he still can't restrain the sting in his heart-such a beautiful and lovely girl has scars on her face.

Later, Macmillan moved to another city and lost contact with Donna's family.

/kloc-0 0 years later, the church invited Macmillan to do a series of worship activities. At the end of the evening, he suddenly saw Donna's mother standing in the crowd waiting to say goodbye to him.

Macmillan suddenly shuddered and thought of car accidents, blood and scars.

Donna's mother stood in front of Macmillan with a smile on her face. She almost laughed when she asked him if he knew how Donna was now.

"No, I don't know what happened to Donna."

"Do you remember when Donna was in hospital, she was very interested in nursing?"

"Yes, I am very impressed."

Donna's mother went on to say, "Well, Donna is going to be a nurse. She received training and graduated with honors, got a good job in a hospital, met a young doctor and fell in love and got married. I am happily married and now have two beautiful and lovely children. Donna asked me not to forget to mention the car accident to you. It was the greatest blessing in her life! "

There are often many unexpected things like Donna on the road of life, but it depends on how you face it. The quality of mentality is only the solution to how to treat everything calmly in your heart. If everyone can treat one thing peacefully, then his life will not have so many troubles and worries.

Perhaps, as joseph addison said: "In the journey of life, real blessings often appear in the form of pain, loss and disappointment;" As long as we are patient, we can see a bright future. "

Only experience can lead to experience. On the contrary, if we don't practice and experience, it is impossible to have real experience and feelings only by others' teaching or books. And we can only be a dead bookshelf, and our society will stagnate. How can you see a beautiful rainbow without experiencing wind and rain?

In the face of setbacks, different people will have different performances: some people are indomitable and can stand the blow of setbacks; Some people are depressed, depressed and decadent. The ancients once said that "human adversity is nine times out of ten." Since setbacks and failures are inevitable in life, we should face them squarely.

Heroes have suffered many hardships since ancient times. Looking at those successful people in Chinese and foreign history, almost all of them have experienced setbacks, but they all have indomitable willpower, and their success history cannot be said to be an indomitable struggle history. Using this as vivid material to educate and infect students will make students understand that the learning process is also a process of constantly overcoming difficulties, and we must work hard to develop it.

Therefore, in the face of setbacks, especially teenagers, don't indulge in the shadow of setbacks; In the face of setbacks, don't soak in the mud of pain; In the face of setbacks, you can't lose your way. The setbacks on the road of life should only be a breeze; It's a little rough. This dilutes the pain and reduces the sadness.