Yale researchers call this phenomenon butterfly change, and people who are advanced animals will also have this phenomenon, but it is not a natural physiological variation, but a psychological gender cognition and physiological inconsistency.
Nowadays, more and more transgender people are beginning to go public, and they also walk from behind the scenes to the stage, no longer hiding and shy, and they are getting more and more exciting in live high.
Liu Ting, who is such a butterfly, changed from a college student who went to school with her mother behind her back 15 years ago to a Tingting girl. Her mental journey 15 years, her ups and downs 15 years, made her a wonderful life like a butterfly.
Liu Ting (Liu Ting) was born in 1986. When she was born, she brought joy to her family. Her children are beautiful and lovely, and her parents love her in every way. Although life is a little hard, the family always gives her delicious food and easy to use, and even buys her piano practice. She is also very sensible since she was a child and often helps her parents. It seems that she will spend a happy childhood and adolescence like an ordinary child.
A horse has a journey of a thousand miles, and it can't be done without riding it; People are ambitious, but they can't be self-sufficient unless they are lucky. Accidents will happen. Liu Ting experienced this painful transformation in his childhood.
When Liu Ting 13 years old, his mother got uremia, and his quiet life was suddenly broken. The family spent all their savings, and my father borrowed a lot of foreign debts to actively treat his mother. Two years later, his father couldn't stand it anymore, left his sick wife and young son, and never appeared again.
The burden of family suddenly fell on this ignorant teenager. However, she was sensible and strong since she was a child. She knew that her father would never come back. Looking at her mother lying in bed, she said to her mother, mom, let me take care of you.
After school, when other children were playing or playing games, she silently picked up her schoolbag and went to the grocery store to do hourly work. Although the salary is meager, after all, I earned money and helped my mother cook and wash clothes after I came back. Hard-working and sensible, she also touched her neighbors and helped this unfortunate family together.
First, I went to school behind my mother's back, moved China, and interpreted an ordinary story of filial piety.
In 2005, Liu Ting was admitted to Zhejiang Agriculture and Forestry University with excellent results. When he got the notice, Liu Ting was in tears. For five years, he stayed up late studying while taking care of his mother. The hardships are unimaginable. When he is happy, a realistic difficulty is in front of him: what if his mother studies? If you take care of your mother, how do you study?
Yes, taking her mother to college rekindled a bold and helpless idea. She decided to take care of her mother while going to college.
In the autumn of 2005, on an unusual day, Liu Ting came to Zhejiang A&F University with her old mother and luggage on her back, and applied to live off campus. Liu Ting's situation was soon known by the school and classmates, and everyone helped each other. Soon, the media also reported that the story of Liu Ting carrying her mother to school spread all over the country. The society extended a helping hand to her and her family and helped her to have a kidney transplant.
This year is a year of fate change for this family, and it is a year when spring comes. Happiness is waving to them, and her story is reprinted by the internet and news media. She was named the most filial person in China, and in 2007 she was named the national moral model.
Second, although the secret in the heart is a man's body, it is a girl's heart.
The male rabbit's feet are confused, and the female rabbit's eyes are blurred. When the two rabbits walk together, I can tell whether I am a male or a female. Liu Ting has always had an unspeakable secret in her heart: she always wanted to be a girl. When she was very young, she was different from other boys. She doesn't like car toys, but she likes girls' things.
Later, when she grew up, she found that she hated her man's body more and more. After curing her mother's uremia, she told her mother that I want to be a girl. Mother was frightened and took her to the hospital at once. After many tests in the hospital, it is proved that she is indeed a congenital heterosexual patient. Only through surgery can this long-standing problem be solved. After careful psychological and physiological examination, Southern Medical University and Yonsei University of Korea undertook the plastic surgery.
After many operations and painful suffering, Liu Ting's operation was finally completed and the operation was very successful. Liu Ting's beautiful long hair, delicate face and slim figure show the vitality of a beautiful girl. She said happily: this moment is the real me. For several years, I have been under moral pressure and dare not tell my secrets in front of the whole country.
Thirdly, Liu Ting after the Butterfly Change is full of youth, showing her way of life. After suffering, don't forget your attitude of actively helping others.
Liu Ting's life became optimistic and her personality became more cheerful after she changed sex. She took an active part in social welfare activities and participated in the Miss United Nations beauty contest. In that competition, Liu Ting was handsome and charming, and conquered the audience and the judges in one fell swoop, and finally won the "Most Beautiful Butterfly Award". Liu Ting was the first person to take part in the beauty pageant as a transsexual woman and win the prize.
Liu Ting once said: To be herself, she received a lot of professional training and published a book "My Beauty" at her own expense. In the book, she called on the society to give transgender people more tolerance, not to discriminate against transgender people, and let them live a better life.
Today, Liu Ting not only helps these transgender people to relieve their mental shackles, but also devotes himself to charity. She said, "A drop of water should be rewarded with a gushing spring", and Liu Ting has been actively rewarding the strangers who helped her.
Life has ups and downs, ups and downs. Changing yourself is self-help, influencing others is saving lives. We don't have to be rich or expensive, but we can't always live in the shadow of others. There is a saying: Go your own way and let others talk! There are no roads in the world. The more people walk, the more roads there are.
To live a wonderful life, you must have confidence and endurance, just like running a race. Only those who don't give up, those who don't give up, can finally reach the finish line and get flowers and honors. When confronted with difficulties, they are alarmist and sigh, and finally they can only yield to the fate of Liu Ting. An ordinary person will lead an extraordinary life, and we will cheer for her now and in the future!