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Techniques to prevent husbands from cheating.
Techniques to prevent husbands from cheating.

What skills do you have to prevent your husband from cheating? Fire prevention, theft prevention and prevention of third parties are what every married person needs to learn. A smart woman will nip a man in the bud when he is about to cheat, and prevent him from cheating successfully. So what are the skills to prevent her husband from cheating?

Skills to prevent her husband from cheating 1 Better yourself, face value online, dream online.

As a woman, don't give up at any time, whether it's image or ideal. To be a better self and make your face online is not to completely change yourself through plastic surgery, but to choose a makeup that suits you and make yourself more elegant.

What should I do if I find my husband having an affair? What if the marriage is intervened by a third party? Dream Online is not for anyone, but for those who give up the right to pursue their dreams, have dreams, have their own ideas and ideals, and work hard. It will always be the most dazzling. For men, this charm is irresistible.

Become you in his heart.

What are you in his heart, become the most ideal gesture in his heart, and meet his deepest needs. What is a man's ideal girlfriend? Can meet his needs, identification and worship needs.

For example, when he does what you say, don't be stingy with your praise, abandon his heart and rely on his own ideas. Sometimes you can't solve the difficulty, just rely on him. You are the ideal person for her in his mind like this.

Become his soul mate.

Being the companion of his soul is actually the best result of the complete docking of the unconscious. What should I do if I find my husband having an affair? What if the marriage is intervened by a third party? What are the benefits of being his soul mate? It can reduce the contradiction between you, make the relationship closer and reach an inseparable degree.

So in my daily life, I learned to communicate with him when I saw anything, understand his thoughts, look at the problem from his point of view, cultivate mutual interest, increase each other's topics and increase the same sex, so as to better understand each other. Only by understanding the understanding of the other couple, no one will split the soul mate.

It is useless to warn a third party who intends to join your relationship. If you don't let a third party enter your relations, then you'd better be yourself, safeguard your relations, turn your's feelings into iron plates, and let a third party not enter your relations.

Tips to prevent your husband from cheating II. You must watch your mobile phone and know when you travel.

Many wives who came to me and found out that their husbands were cheating were shocked. They can't believe that their partner will cheat!

Psychologists have studied infidelity for many years and found that people generally think that other people's partners will cheat, accounting for about 42%, but the probability of cheating is only 5%.

In addition, in recent years, many emotional teachers believe that giving each other proper space is conducive to enhancing the feelings between lovers.

But have you ever thought that sometimes you give the other person too much freedom, "appropriate space" leaves room for derailment, and "enough trust" adds courage to derailment.

Show Lo and Grace Chow, where melons continued to be popular some time ago, are a good example. Grace Chow, who didn't watch his mobile phone for nine years, found a green grassland overhead.

Many men have made it clear that they don't like to check their mobile phones, but there is an iron law in marriage-if they don't show their mobile phones, they will be considered cheating!

There is a saying circulating on the Internet: "No woman can walk out of her boyfriend's mobile phone alive."

It's not that there is something fishy about male mobile phones, but when you find something abnormal, you will think of checking your mobile phones. It's too late.

Finding yourself uncomfortable confirms your idea of being betrayed; If you can't find out, it will be even worse, and it will be easy to be suspicious and think too much.

From the beginning, I got into the habit of checking my mobile phone. On the one hand, we can find the fox who wants to seduce her husband and strangle mistress in time. On the other hand, I will let my husband know that cheating is very risky, so I dare not take risks easily.

Couples should leave space for each other, but the "capacity" of this space should be well grasped. Narrow words will destroy feelings, while wide words will be easily interfered. The grasp of this "capacity" is based on your emotional state.

Occupy his free time

Related research shows that the more dependent you are on your partner financially, the easier it is to cheat. In particular, men are three to four times more likely to cheat than women. You can understand that men are easily confused by the world of flowers when they make money. Then how can this man have the face to cheat when he earns less money than his wife?

People's energy is abundant but limited, just like a pot full of water. When necessary, every drop of water in the pot is especially cherished. When it is not needed, it will be used for other purposes or even wasted.

If a man spends all his energy on his career and family, it is difficult for him to be distracted from other things. When a man's contribution to his family is less than 70%, including economic contribution and physical contribution, his remaining energy will be used in other aspects.

Playing games, drinking and going to the gym are more common. These seemingly harmless hobbies are actually the medium of derailment.

To prevent derailment, of course, it is necessary to nip in the bud and suppress all possible signs.

You can't stop your husband from going out to play, but you can go with him, which is one of the ways to occupy his time; In addition, it can be agreed to travel together at least twice a year, which can not only enhance feelings, but also effectively reduce the number of times he travels alone.

Pay attention to the husband's money flow.

Many cheating women have a common method, which is to check the transfer records, as well as shopping lists and credit card records. Now that I think of this method of checking derailment, it can also be used as a means to prevent derailment.

In the marriages I know, the cheating rate of couples with the same bookkeeping method is as low as 6%. Originally, bookkeeping was just a common habit, but after a long time, the hostess found that bookkeeping could tell where her husband's money was spent.

I usually check my husband's money flow when I am free, because the transfer record is the same as the chat record. Although it is possible to cheat, it is very troublesome and can reduce the risk of men cheating to a certain extent.

In fact, mastering the family's economic strength is a very effective way to prevent derailment, as everyone knows.

There are only 0 and countless infidelities. It is difficult for a man who has cheated to cheat for the second time. Therefore, while we are recovering, we must also prevent derailment again.

Many women have been cheated by their husbands, and their trust in their husbands has dropped very low. The decrease of trust will even push out the marriage that is difficult to repair, so these three methods are also auxiliary methods to enhance trust. If used well, it is equivalent to building another barrier in marriage and adding another layer of protection to your's marriage.

Skills to prevent husband from cheating 3 1. Give a man enough face to make him have no desire.

As we all know, men want dignity and face. In marriage, if a woman nags him or forces him to do what you think, no matter what happens, it will damage a man's self-esteem. As a result, he can only drift away from a "playboy".

In fact, men are not as complicated as women think. Many times, as long as a woman gives him face, most men will be afraid of this woman. When a man is full of joy and wants to go out, the woman kindly reminds him: Be careful and remember to go home! The implication is that I don't know, but I don't want any trouble. Creating an atmosphere of "he is the master" will make him heartless.

2, use gentleness to influence and let the conscience of playboy men discover.

For a married man to cheat, many times, he must be looking for a woman with a different personality from his wife. They are deceiving each other, often subconsciously looking for someone different from their wife. The picture is fresh and the heart beats. You don't need to doubt that men are like this. What he wants is the adjustment and supplement outside marriage.

Therefore, as a woman, we should weigh ourselves, try to satisfy men's preferences, and make some compromises ourselves. It is best to influence him with his thoughtfulness and gentleness, remind him with his generosity, and let his conscience discover and turn around.

3, be his confidante, so that the color heart of a playboy man does not overflow.

Some people say that men are heroes, but they actually mean that men have been pursuing love and excitement all their lives. Whether his married life is happy or not, a man will always look for that confidante. Therefore, the "playboy" in men's nature always wants to move.

To tell the truth, this is the lingering "beauty complex" in a man's heart, and it is the good woman who knows himself that a man has been looking for all his life. Therefore, from a woman's point of view, a wife should change her role, pay attention to changing and upgrading herself, be his beauty, be his confidant, and let him change for your change, so as to keep his color heart from flooding.

4. Learn to reflect on yourself:

To put it bluntly, there are as many women as there are men in society. In fact, it is a love game for a woman to deal with a playboy man after marriage! Whoever can control the rules of the game of love will become the winner of love. After a man cheated, the first thing a woman should think about is not how to drag him back, but why he cheated.

Find problems from yourself, find problems in time, solve problems, prescribe the right medicine, make yourself more perfect, and make men change because of your perfection. At that time, men can find their own way home without your help.

5, learn to be considerate and let playboy men hide their hearts.

Men cheat, sometimes just like addicts, it's not so easy to quit. When a man realizes that he is hesitant about his mistakes and wants to "give up drugs", he will still be influenced by beauty. At this time, women should be considerate, communicate with him deeply, help him get rid of interference with elegant posture, and let him hide his heart.

Never rashly choose to make a scene, choose to cheat with revenge and find your so-called happiness. In fact, sometimes a man's playboy is also a sign of inferiority. As long as a woman gives him a little guidance to hide his playboy, he can get rid of it completely.