I am the speaker Yu's speech 1. When someone stands on such a stage, many of our classmates will envy him. I think so, too. Maybe I can speak better than him. But no matter whether the classmate standing on the stage faces failure or eventually succeeds, he has already stood on this stage. And you, just a bystander, the core element here is not whether you can speak, but whether you dare to stand on this stage. How many things have we not done in our life because we dare not?
There was once a boy who had never been in love in college for four years and had never participated in the cadre election of the student union class. Who is this boy? He is me.
Didn't I want to fall in love when I was in college? Then why not? Because I looked down on myself from the beginning. I'm thinking, if I go after a girl, the girl may say, you pig, how dare you chase me? It is the toad who wants to eat swan meat. If this happens, what can I do but hang myself, dig a hole and jump? So this fear prevents all the emotional beauty that should have happened in college.
In fact, now that I think about it, what a ridiculous thing it is. How do you know there are no girls who like pigs? Even if you are rejected by girls, so what? Will the world change because of this? We call a self-righteous person arrogant, but an inferior person must be worse than an arrogant person. Because arrogant people may be able to seize opportunities that don't belong to them in life, but people with inferiority will always lose opportunities that belong to them. Because of inferiority, you will be afraid, you are afraid of failure, you are afraid of other people's eyes, and you will feel that people around you are looking at you with sarcastic and insulting eyes, so you dare not do it. So you belittle yourself with an element that shouldn't have belittled yourself, making you lose your courage, and all the doors in this world are closed.
When I resigned from Peking University, as a teacher who was about to become a professor at Peking University, I was immediately replaced by a person wearing a Pojun coat and carrying a paste bucket to Peking University to post small advertisements. At first, my heart was filled with fear. I thought these were my' students', and sure enough, the students came. Hello, Mr. Yu, you posted an advertisement here. I said, yes, I went out from Peking University to hold training courses and put up advertisements myself. The student said, don't worry, teacher Yu, I'll post it for you. I suddenly found that the student didn't look at me with demeaning eyes. The students just said, Mr. Yu, I'll post it for you, and also said, I'm not just posting it for you, I'm still watching here and I won't let others cover it. I gradually understand that in this world, you can only grow up if you overcome your fears and don't care about other people's eyes. It is with this growing courage that I have my own career, my own life and my own future.
In retrospect, I think a friend of mine, Ma Yun, who is very popular all over the world recently, is much greater than me. Ma Yun and I have many similarities, but of course we are not similar in appearance. As we all know, there is still a gap in this appearance. He looks more distinctive.
We both passed the college entrance examination for three years. I was admitted to the undergraduate course of Peking University, and he was admitted to the junior college of Hangzhou Normal University. Everyone immediately found that in this sense, I should be better than him anyway. But a person's Excellence is not because you were admitted to Peking University, not because you were admitted to Harvard, nor because you are good-looking. A person's truly excellent quality comes from a strong desire to become better and a fiery passion for life. These two things are on Ma Yun.
If Ma Yun was successful, successful, Ma Chenggong and successful at that time, we were all from ordinary families. Today, you have a hundred times more resources and information than we did at that time, and you have no reason not to succeed.
When we have the courage to take the first step, we must first overcome our inner fears, because in this world, only you can hear your progress.
So I hope students can seriously think about: what kind of fear I have now, what kind of fear I have now, am I too concerned about other people's eyes, and is it because of these things that my quality of life has been affected? Because of these things, I dare not take the first step in my life and let my life never go far. If so, please bravely say no to your fears and other people's eyes! Because I am myself.
I am the speaker of the speech. Dear friends and classmates,
Good evening, everyone!
In fact, standing on such a stage, many of our classmates will envy me and think that if I speak, I may speak better than him. But he has stood on the stage whether he failed or finally succeeded, and you are still a bystander. The core element here is not because you can speak, not because you have the ability to speak, but because you are afraid to stand on this stage.
How many things do we do in our life because we dare not do them? There was once a boy who had been in college for four years, never talked about love, and never participated in the election of student union and class cadres. Who is this boy? He is me. Didn't I want to fall in love when I was in college? Then why not? I looked down on myself at first. I was thinking, I'm going to chase a girl, and the girl will say, you pig, don't you dare chase me. It is a lazy toad who wants to eat swan meat. If this happens, what can I do except hang myself, dig a hole and jump in? So this fear blocked all the good things that should have happened in college. In fact, now that I think about it, what a ridiculous thing it is. How do you know that there are no girls who don't like pigs? Even if you are rejected by girls, so what? Will the world change because of such a thing?
We will say that a person who thinks too highly of himself is arrogant, but an inferior person must be worse than an arrogant person, because an arrogant person may be able to seize the opportunity that does not belong to him in this life, but an inferior person will always lose the opportunity that should belong to him. Because of inferiority, you are afraid, you are afraid of failure, you are afraid of other people's eyes, and you will feel that people around you are looking at you with sarcastic and insulting eyes, so you dare not do it. So when you degrade yourself with an element that shouldn't degrade yourself, you lose courage and all the doors in this world are closed.
When I resigned from Peking University, as a teacher who was about to become a professor at Peking University, I immediately changed into wearing a Pojun coat and putting up advertisements at Peking University with a paste bucket. At first, I was full of fear. I think these are my students! Sure enough, the students came over. Miss Yu, do you put up advertisements here? I said yes. Go out from Peking University to open a training class and post your own advertisements. The student said, Teacher Yu, don't worry. I'll put up an advertisement for you. Suddenly found that the student didn't look at you with demeaning eyes. The student said, Teacher Yu, I'll post it for you. I'm not just posting it for you, I'm still here watching and not letting anyone cover it.
I gradually realized that in this world, only by overcoming your own fears and the eyes of others can you grow. It is with this growing courage that I have my own career, my own life and my own future. In retrospect, I think a friend of mine, Ma Yun, who is very popular all over the world recently, is much greater than me. Ma Yun and I have many similarities, but of course we are not similar in appearance. As we all know, there is still a gap in this appearance. He looks more distinctive. We both passed the college entrance examination for three years. I was admitted to the undergraduate course of Peking University, and he was admitted to the junior college of Hangzhou Normal University. Everyone immediately found out that, in this sense, I should be better than him anyway, but a person's Excellence is not because you have been admitted to Peking University, not because you have been admitted to Harvard, or because you look better. A person's truly excellent quality comes from a strong desire to become better and a fiery passion for life.
These two things are on Ma Yun. If at that time, Ma Yun was successful, successful, Ma Chenggong and successful, we all came from ordinary families. Today, you have a hundred times more resources and information than we did then. You have no reason not to succeed. When we should have the courage to take the first step, we should first serve our inner fears, because in this world, only you can hear your own progress.
So I hope students can seriously think about what kind of fear I have now, what kind of fear I have now, and whether I care too much about other people's eyes. Has my quality of life been affected because of these things? Because of all this, I dare not take the first step in my life, so that my life will never go far. If so, please be brave enough to say "no, because I am myself" to your fear and other people's eyes. No, because I am myself. Thank you!