Some time ago, I went on a business trip to the city where the company cooperated. Because the two companies have cooperated for many years, the other company has always sent people to accompany us.

During the five-day inspection, a young lady of the other company, L, left a deep impression on us and made us admire it.

Compared with the beautiful colleagues D and L who went with us, L is not a beauty, but her temperament from the inside out is more pleasing.

I remember that every time at the dinner table or chatting, my colleague D talked the most, and she kept talking, but everyone seemed to be less and less interested in her topic, and few people participated, so they could only perfunctory because of face.

Compared with D's verbosity, L doesn't talk much, but everything she says is convincing.

Her extensive knowledge, mastery of new information and unique views on topics, coupled with her young face, make people sit up and take notice.

And d talks like? Passive water, rootless wood? , tasteless, unable to get the attention of others.

L's appearance is not outstanding, and there is no too delicate makeup. She just dresses neatly, but she has a temperament, connotation and background that can't be ignored, which makes her more energetic.

Colleague d, in addition to exquisite makeup and dressing, has a lot less knowledge and insight. Sometimes she is irrelevant, and it is uncomfortable to talk to people who have no practical significance.

The real charm of a woman is not external beauty and fashionable dress, but internal cultivation and temperament.

Although this is an era of looking at faces, the number of members of appearance associations is increasing day by day, and the value of faces is indeed important, but a person's connotation and temperament are more important, which is the premise of whether others are willing to make friends with you.

D usually pays special attention to his appearance, and has been working hard and changing on the beautiful road, hoping to achieve perfection.

From the moment I met her, I knew that she was the most willing and daring to work hard on her face among us. She has done eyebrow tattoos, lip augmentation, wide eyes, rhinoplasty and other micro-plastic surgery. Up to now, she has become a real beauty.

She spent all her energy on making herself more beautiful, paying too much attention to appearance and inevitably neglecting to improve her inner temperament.

Many times, but temperament and connotation can not be ignored and can last for a long time. Yan value can be ignored. This is an era of looking at faces. Yes, but this is by no means a world that only looks at faces.

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My cousin and sister-in-law were very angry and worried about Xiao Juan's recent plastic surgery, so they specially called me to persuade her.

My niece Xiao Juan is a third-year student. She loved beauty since she was a child. After going to college, she paid more attention to her image. All her pocket money is spent on cosmetics and clothes.

There is nothing wrong with girls dressing themselves up beautifully, but what parents can't accept is that she recently had the idea of plastic surgery.

She wants to go to the hospital to grind her cheeks and cut bones, and turn her round face into a standard oval face.

She wants to make herself more beautiful through plastic surgery so that she can find a good job when she graduates next year.

It is good for girls to love beauty, but it is a bit too much to become beautiful through surgery.

Besides, a good image can only give a good first impression, but if you want to leave a deep impression and want to get in touch with you, it must be your connotation and temperament.

A woman is recognized and respected not because of her beautiful face and proud figure, but because of her character, self-restraint and inner temperament.

Mo Mu, the most famous ugly girl in ancient times, was the fourth wife of the Yellow Emperor. Looks like a hag, ugly. But she is virtuous, deeply loved by the Yellow Emperor and respected by later generations.

Huainanzi? Compare the beautiful woman Shi and the ugly woman in Xiu Wu Xun:? Shi, who doesn't wait for the beauty of powder, but beautiful? .

Stone is a natural beauty and a spiritual beauty.

There will be later generations. Beautiful, but ugly? . It can be seen that Mo Mu's virtuous behavior was a model for women at that time, and her wisdom was extraordinary.

Qu yuan's nine chapters? Cherish the past: Jealous of the fragrance of goodness, Mo Mu is good and complacent. ?

In addition to his noble character, Mo Mu is also very talented. She invented silk and solved the problem of people being naked and indecent at that time. In order to thank her for this great invention, future generations addressed her as? The first silkworm girl? .

According to legend, the first mirror used by human beings was also made of stone in Mo Mu, which solved the problem that women need to go into the water to dress up.

The Yellow Emperor made great contributions to the discovery of Mo Mu. In the history of the Chinese nation, humans began to use mirrors.

"Lu Chunqiu? In Encounter, it is recorded that the Yellow Emperor and Mo Mu have deep feelings, and under the guise of the words of the Yellow Emperor, they have taught those women who look inferior. Don't forget to sharpen your morality; Can't corrode your inner purity. Who can be hurt by ugliness if you do this! ?

How wonderful! Isn't this the inspirational quote of women who are dissatisfied with their looks?

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Therefore, no matter how you look, girls must improve their connotation and temperament.

A woman with elegant manners, decent speech, elegant temperament and self-cultivation is like standing out from the crowd. Who doesn't sit up and take notice?

The only way to improve temperament is reading. Reading should also be something that women should stick to all their lives. Because reading can make people wise and open-minded, and cultivate their nature and wisdom in Xiu De.

A woman who loves reading is a beautiful scenery wherever she goes. She may not look amazing, but she has an inner temperament:

Elegant and extraordinary speech, beautiful manners without modification, quiet and dignified and elegant; It is dignified sitting and free and easy walking; This is a natural combination of simplicity and implication.

Because the book gave her confidence, cultivated her true, beautiful and pure feelings, and made her gentle and considerate, full of the breath of books.

? Are you full of poems and books? She is plain, walking among a woman with flowers and heavy make-up, but she is also particularly eye-catching. It is temperament, self-cultivation and full of books, which makes her look different.

If a woman doesn't study, she will become ignorant and vulgar. Without knowledge, she will be abandoned by the times.

Even if you look like a fairy, dressed in luxury and fashion, those masks painted with matter are shallow after all, and no matter how beautiful they are, they won't last long.

On the contrary, as long as she likes reading and is full of book temperament, she will still look so elegant and graceful even in simple clothes. For her, clothes are just an ornament and embellishment, which will only make her more beautiful and charming.

British writer Mao Mu once said: There are no ugly women in the world, only some women who don't know how to make themselves look beautiful.

Roman Roland advised women to read more books and read some good books. Knowledge is the only beauty product, and books are women's fashion. Books will make women beautiful forever.

The woman who came out of the book is profound and far-sighted. Therefore, smart women must constantly learn knowledge from books.

Reading not only enriches our life, but also enlightens people.

I remember reading men's highest praise for women in a book.

The man said that he saw a woman on the plane and sat down to read the book in her hand. It seems as if the world doesn't exist.

Although she is no longer young and beautiful, he thinks she is noble and different.

The more books a woman reads, the better her temperament, which can't be piled up by cosmetic carving and foundation. Moreover, the longer she walks, the more elegant and intelligent she is, and the more noble she is in her bones.

Therefore, let reading become a habit and cultivate a unique temperament through reading.