A college student said with deep feelings after watching the news that Hong Zhanhui took his sister to study: For us, learning Hong Zhanhui is a baptism of the soul and a vivid frustration education lesson. Hong Zhanhui let the lost people find their way, the disappointed people find their hope, and the people in adversity find their strength.
On the road of life, everyone will inevitably encounter setbacks and difficulties. The key is how to treat them. Balzac said: "Suffering is a stepping stone to genius, a treasure for the able and an abyss for the weak." Therefore, setbacks and tribulations are touchstones of faith, will and ability: those who have firm beliefs and dare to accept challenges can firmly grasp the throat of fate, learn wisdom from setbacks and tribulations, and turn stumbling blocks in life into stepping stones; People who are not firm or easy to satisfy may work hard for a while, but often give up halfway and helplessly raise the white flag of surrender; Timid people are often intimidated by setbacks and difficulties. Some give up on themselves, go with the flow, some run away and fail.
However, setbacks and sufferings are not natural wealth and stepping stones. To gain wealth and wisdom from them requires a sense of responsibility, a rock-solid belief and years of persistence. Facing her sister's helpless and expectant eyes, young Hong Zhanhui struggled tenaciously 12 years; In order to take care of her sick old mother, Zhang, a college student, went out to work during the day to earn money to treat her mother, and accompanied her to read night books at night. "Contemporary Paul" Zhang Haidi struggled with the disease for 45 years, bringing people precious spiritual wealth and warm smiles. In the face of difficulties and diseases, they chose independence and strength, and chose responsibility and responsibility. In their view, as long as the backbone is not bent, there is no burden that cannot be carried; As long as the spirit is not broken, there is no problem that cannot be solved.
Compared with optimistic and tenacious Hong Zhanhui, some college students should feel ashamed: their study conditions are much better and their life pressure is much less, but they don't feel more happiness and happiness. On the contrary, I often feel depressed because of trivial things, feel sorry for myself and complain about others. Some people beat and abuse small animals to vent their dissatisfaction after encountering setbacks; Some people do not go to the hospital after catching a cold, but run all the way home to find their parents; Others are still inseparable from their parents' help after graduation for many years, and become worthless "old-timers" ... adversity shows talents, and good luck hides talents. When we bow to suffering and setbacks, we often miss the opportunity to experience ourselves.
Recently, the Ministry of Education issued a circular calling on students to learn from Hong Zhanhui. Hong Zhanhui's moral cultivation and will quality embody the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation and show the brand-new mental outlook of contemporary college students. There are many things he can learn, among which how to face setbacks and hardships should be a compulsory course for young people, especially young students. If tears are also a kind of wealth, then he is a rich man. At the end of 2005, he was discovered and moved China. His name is Hong Zhanhui.
1 1 years ago, a rural family in Henan suffered a major change: his father suddenly suffered from intermittent mental illness, his heartbroken mother left without saying goodbye, and there was a young brother and an abandoned baby found by his father after illness to take care of ... The burden of this family fell on his eldest son Hong Zhanhui, who was only 12 years old at that time. 1 1 One day, while studying, Hong Zhanhui overcame unimaginable difficulties, took care of his father who was often ill and raised his sister. ...
In the face of such a change, he suffered unbearable pain and endured unimaginable burdens. Father, sister, the burden of life is on his gentle shoulders. The only thing we can do is to persist, persist! He wrote in his diary: "I will insist. I think everyone has a responsibility, not only for themselves, for their families and for society." Just walking silently, unwilling to give up. " A responsibility supported him, and a commitment made him mature gradually. Faced with dropping out of school several times, he didn't give up. Instead, he struggled to maintain his sister's life, his father's illness and his studies with his own hands. This seemingly impossible thing was witnessed by him with sweat, blood and tears.
Such a hard life taught him to be self-reliant and self-reliant, so that when others offered him a helping hand, he chose to refuse. "I don't accept donations, because I think self-reliance is the most important thing!" Suffering and painful experiences are not the capital for me to accept all donations. It is the most important thing for a person to change the status quo of his disadvantage through his own struggle. "He said so and did the same. Although I thought about retreating in the most difficult time, I finally decided to strive for self-improvement and prove my value with my own strength.
1995, Hong Zhanhui went to Tingxiang Middle School in Xiadong District of Xihua County to attend junior high school, two or three kilometers away from home. No matter in the morning, noon, afternoon or evening, Hong Zhanhui has to walk back and forth between school and home to take care of the little guy for dinner.
After graduating from high school, Hong Zhanhui rented a house near the school and took Tiny away from home. Early in the morning, he wants the younger one to have breakfast, then tells her not to go out and then goes to school. At noon and in the evening, he had a meal from school and brought it back to his residence to eat with the "little guy".
After heavy studies, working to make money has become Hong Zhanhui's biggest task. Hong Zhanhui sells ballpoint pens, books and English tapes in his spare time on campus. Support the whole family with a small income. In 2003, Hong Zhanhui was admitted to the Department of Economics and Management of Huaihua University.
12 spent it like this, suffering again and again, but he was grateful for these hardships, which cultivated a unique young man. In this "money first" society, he is an "alternative", but now the society needs such an alternative. Perhaps there are many such people, and the society polluted by the smell of copper may be.
A netizen said: "Let those college students who are addicted to online games and love games all day see what life is, what life is, what life is hard, and what life is hard ..."
I just want to say: Look at 12 years in Hong Zhanhui, this is a truly meaningful life. He touched you and me, and everyone with a conscience in China. Perhaps, in "the world is bustling, all for profit; In the bustling market society, it really takes a little courage to assume your due responsibilities, fulfill your legal obligations and be an "ordinary person". However, if you think about it carefully, isn't an "ordinary person" who consciously fulfills his obligations and dares to take responsibility a standard "citizen" image? Shouldn't we learn from Hong Zhanhui and become qualified modern citizens?
Learn from Hong Zhanhui and be a self-reliant, self-reliant and self-respecting modern citizen; Learn from Hong Zhanhui and be a modern citizen who dares to take responsibility and consciously perform his duties. When everyone can live like Hong Zhanhui, we can become "ordinary people" in civil society.
However, the vibration caused by Hong Zhanhui is not transferred by human will, and a shock wave of the mind is spreading everywhere, moving and inspiring more people. This shows that in our era of increasingly diversified values, no matter how many people wear the crown of capable people and strong people, those warriors who strive for self-improvement in adversity still have lofty spiritual charm, are still heroes in most people's minds, and can still inspire people, baptize and sublimate their spirit.
For adversity and bad luck, contemporary youth should not hurt themselves, but learn to say to themselves, just as the sages taught us: it's nothing. Keep fighting, and life will always be better. If the vast number of young friends, like Hong Zhanhui, dare to take responsibility, never give up, self-esteem and overcome difficulties, our country's development and progress will be faster and faster, and socialist modernization will be realized ahead of schedule.
A person, falling into a dark dry well, is it painful to wait or try to save himself when foreign aid cannot arrive in time? In the face of irresistible fate and difficulties, is it self-pity or self-improvement? We found the answer in Hong Zhanhui.
Interviewee: Xiaomi 079- Assistant Level 3-Level 4 15:40
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1. Learn from Hong Zhanhui's experience.
Hong Zhanhui, you are a contemporary hero.
The story of Hong Zhanhui, a college student, caused a strong shock among countless readers and netizens. Some people will find this incredible. Because Hong Zhanhui is not a upstart sought after by people nowadays, a scientific and technological elite admired by people, or a big star surrounded by people under the lamp, he is just an ordinary college student, a young man who has experienced hardships in life, and there are more than one similar person in China?
However, the vibration caused by Hong Zhanhui is not transferred by human will, and a shock wave of the mind is spreading everywhere, moving and inspiring more people. This shows that in our era of increasingly diversified values, no matter how many people wear the crown of capable people and strong people, those warriors who strive for self-improvement in adversity still have lofty spiritual charm, are still heroes in most people's minds, and can still inspire people, baptize and sublimate their spirit.
Hong Zhanhui once again publicly stated through Xinhuanet that he would not accept any donations, and no one could engage in fund-raising activities in his name. He believes that suffering and painful experiences are not the capital he accepts donations, but the most important thing is that a person can change his disadvantage through his own struggle. Hong Zhanhui's pursuit fully demonstrates the lofty life pursuit of contemporary youth in China, and is a good example for those who feel inferior, hurt themselves and complain about others because of adversity and bad luck.
The diversification of life value is not a simple winner is king. Positive values always complement each other, and * * * is the same as enriching socialist life values. In an era when the whole country is working hard to build a well-off society in an all-round way, it is certainly admirable for the wealth elites to ride the sea of business and create wealth; The intellectual elite bravely climbed the peak and won glory for the country in the field of science and technology. Their strong science and technology should be respected. The same is true of literary and sports stars that the masses like. However, all this does not mean that those who are poor and in adversity for various reasons are insignificant and bleak. In the face of adversity, people who don't despair, don't give up, don't feel inferior, but fight against the bleak fate and then change their destiny are also admirable people who step into the spiritual hall and are useful to society. Their spirit of struggle is also the sublimation of our national spirit.
Hong Zhanhui's deeds are of great learning value to young people. At present, although China has made great achievements in reform and opening up, and people's living standards have improved significantly, we are still a developing country, and some people are still in temporary poverty. At present, the CPC Central Committee is taking measures to improve and improve people's lives. But this needs a process, and it cannot be done overnight. Some people still have to survive in poverty and adversity. In the face of these realities that people are unwilling to accept, it is actually a different life to choose passive escape or to fight. Hong Zhanhui's deeds tell us that it is useless to choose to escape; Struggle, life has hope, and life has value.
For adversity and bad luck, contemporary youth should not hurt themselves, but learn to say to themselves, just as the sages taught us: it's nothing. Keep fighting, and life will always get better. If the vast number of young friends, like Hong Zhanhui, dare to take responsibility, never give up, self-esteem and overcome difficulties, our country's development and progress will be faster and faster, and socialist modernization will be realized ahead of schedule.
2. Facing Hong Zhanhui, what should we do?
Focus Interview 65438+February 65438+March reported the story of Hong Zhanhui, a college student in huaihua university, Hunan. His experience really touched many people. A child who is only 13 years old has a pair of tender shoulders. While other children are still playing coquetry in front of their parents, he has already shouldered the burden of taking care of his family, taking care of his sick father and little sister while working part-time. It's 12 years now, and he has been insisting. So, what should we do in the face of Hong Zhanhui? Facing Hong Zhanhui, we should cherish the true feelings of the world. Since the age of 65,438+03, Hong Zhanhui has shouldered the burden of the family alone and raised his unrelated sister for 65,438+00 years. The affection between their brother and sister can't help but be touching. However, in real life, many parents are unwilling to raise their children. Faced with difficulties in life, they did not hesitate to abandon their own flesh and blood; There are also many children who are unwilling to support their parents. In order to pursue the so-called "happiness" of their small family, brothers and sisters shirk each other, are unwilling to be filial to their parents and do not hesitate to abandon their biological parents. Some even leave their parents without food and clothing, living on the streets, and parents have to take their children to court. This is true for their loved ones, not to mention people who are not related by blood. In the face of Hong Zhanhui, we should know how to cherish the true feelings of the world and pay the true feelings for all those who should pay the true feelings.
Facing Hong Zhanhui, we should learn to be self-reliant. Facing the difficulties of family, Hong Zhanhui, a boy of 12 years old, was not intimidated, but bravely shouldered the burden of family. Experienced numerous difficulties and hardships, honed his optimistic and strong character. He not only admitted to the university himself, but also raised his "chosen" sister and sent her to school. Although life is very difficult, Hong Zhanhui has never applied for special hardship allowance, and has repeatedly refused donations from good people. In his view, "self-reliance is the most important thing for a person." However, in real life, many people face the difficulties of life, fully expect others' help, take others' help for granted, and accept it with a clear conscience. Competition, there have also been "neets" and "rich people". Recently, we have seen many strange suitors who, in order to take a shortcut, do not hesitate to sell themselves, recruit rich men and women as marriage partners and commit suicide. In fact, no matter what happens, you can walk out of a road of self-reliance through your own efforts. In this way, life should be more fulfilling.
Facing Hong Zhanhui, we should learn to be true and optimistic. It can be said that even adults will feel stressed in the face of such a heavy burden. It is hard to imagine how much suffering Hong Zhanhui has experienced in the past 12 years. Perhaps only he knows that his experience has made many people cry uncontrollably. However, Hong Zhanhui doesn't feel how miserable and pitiful he is. Although he experienced so much pain, he cried himself, but for most of his life. In real life, many people, facing the difficulties of life, don't try to change. Instead, I feel sorry for others, lose confidence in life, lose the courage to change difficulties, and even choose to escape. In fact, if you face everything in life with a true and optimistic attitude and find the beautiful things in life with your heart, you will feel that life is so beautiful.
Facing Hong Zhanhui, we should cherish the opportunity of learning. In the eyes of others, Hong Zhanhui is facing difficulties in family life, and it is very difficult to survive, let alone finish his studies. However, it was under such conditions that Hong Zhanhui overcame all difficulties and persevered tenaciously. He walked all the way from junior high school to high school to university. However, in real life, in the face of all the favorable conditions created by parents, some children do not cherish it very much, but take it for granted that they enjoy everything given by their parents and do not cherish the hard-won learning opportunities. Sometimes they even think that learning is for their parents, and they are reluctant and passive to learn, while others covet relaxation and enjoyment and give up learning opportunities easily. I didn't know I had learned too little until I used it, and it was too late to regret it. If I miss the opportunity to study, it will be difficult to make up for the study class.
Facing Hong Zhanhui, we should learn to be strong. In the past 12 years, the road Hong Zhanhui has traveled is extremely difficult. But he didn't escape, but chose to face it bravely, persevered with tenacious perseverance, and was able to face life optimistically, which is a very rare quality. Look at the real life, how many people choose to escape in the face of difficulties, and how many people go astray because they can't stand the test of difficulties, and even pay their precious lives. Will we still find it difficult to face Hong Zhanhui? If you are stronger, I believe many people will live more easily than Hong Zhanhui.
Of course, we don't mean that everyone needs to deliberately endure hardships and lead a hard life, but that when encountering difficulties, we should face them bravely and work hard to achieve them through our own efforts. It's not that you can't accept anyone's help, but learn to be self-reliant, don't rely entirely on others, and pin your hopes on others. Everything that Hong Zhanhui has experienced tells us that although the road of life is bumpy, it can be overcome as long as you dare to face it. If you are optimistic about everything you encounter in life, life is beautiful. Hong Zhanhui has given us a quality and spirit, which depends on how we do it.