First of all, this girl must behave appropriately, handle things calmly and see the world calmly. A girl can be fresh and lovely, and she can speak freely, but it is really not easy for a girl to look expensive. As the saying goes, it takes three generations to train a noble. When I say expensive, I mean that girls are elegant, dignified and decent, and have the elegance and calmness of a good family.
Secondly, this girl must be generous and open-minded, with extraordinary taste, good family education and high personal accomplishment. As the saying goes, it is better to marry a housewife than a slave. Generally speaking, although everyone's female inferiority is from humble origins, they have all been exposed to aristocratic families and influenced by many aspects. She has met celebrities, handled major events, weathered difficulties and escaped the tide. These rich life experiences can't be bought with money sometimes. Most girls in small families are prone to be swayed by considerations of gain and loss and are short-sighted, so they don't look so expensive and generous.
Third, this girl must be considerate, light-handed, knowledgeable and powerful. Girls from good backgrounds generally pay attention to all aspects of learning and self-cultivation, have their own firm goals and pursuits in life, and have a broad mind and outstanding vision. So the upper class in the west refused to marry the lower class. And China said suitable, also is this truth, your girl, who can't bad.