The antonym of positive energy is negative energy. Li Shanglong, a writer, said, "Negative energy is whipping others' bad feelings and scolding social injustice; Positive energy tells you after the lecture that even if it is bitter, I can still change something through hard work. "Although negative energy has its significance, it is generally believed that the disadvantages outweigh the advantages. It will make people's thoughts and emotions enter a plane spiral movement, and the vicious circle will make the life pattern narrower and narrower.
Positive energy has been advocated, but why is negative energy still visible? This involves two levels of "material pursuit" and "self-awareness", and further involves philosophical issues of "material civilization" and "spiritual civilization". The most essential reason for the imbalance between the two is that individuals don't know enough about themselves and the world, and the most direct influence is that they are confused and miserable because they want too much and can't see hope. Writer Zhao Xing said that "not all talents are satisfied because of lack of talents", so please enrich yourself first and face more unknowns frankly.
I can't slow down my thinking and become a person who works day and night to make money. Because I have been in a state of material busyness and spiritual bondage for a long time, even if the material conditions have improved, it is difficult to get rid of the habit of utilitarian heart. Don't want to talk or prefer to talk in cliches, pay more attention to what you care about, strive for results by comparing everything, and become selfish. Can't feel life quietly, tend to be more intuitive and simple, and gradually ignore beautiful things.
Failure to see hope will produce negative energy, which will further aggravate the desire for hope and enter a vicious circle. One-sided pursuit of material conditions will affect people's consciousness through the imbalance and disharmony between material foundation and superstructure, especially ideological superstructure. Pursuit is good, but excessive eagerness will ignore the stability of sports, and the empty, impetuous and suspicious temperament will take root. Such as thinking, participation and so on. , will consume the inherent time and energy.
Habit affects behavior, behavior affects psychology, psychology affects thinking, and thinking affects habit-if you can't jump out of this plane spiral motion, it will inevitably lead to friction and collision and lose coordination because of minor mistakes. Upward movement is the solution to the problem. Show how charming the beaches in Thailand are on social platforms, how wide the bird's eye view is in front of the French windows of luxury hotels, and how proud the figure is in the gym of friends circle. These are just one aspect of the pursuit of a better life. There is no point in repeating them all the time, but it makes you more and more narcissistic. Deep narcissism is a pathological manifestation of numbness and indifference.
Glenn Gabbard talked about narcissistic personality disorder: "We live in a narcissistic culture. We thrive blindly in superficial images, but we tend to ignore the essence of things and other deep electronic media. We believe that material consumption is the road to happiness. Our fear of aging and death has enabled plastic surgery to flourish. " Indeed, we always yearn for the glamorous world of celebrities, but most of them adopt a plane pattern and lack a three-dimensional angle.
People's spiritual level should be rich, instead of blindly following the trend to consume valuable energy in life, otherwise they will lose their true self. Your life state can also be what articles you read, what problems you discussed, who you helped, what methods you learned, what tasks you completed, and what works you completed. There are also philosophical thoughts, history and culture, literature and art, religious beliefs ... pleasant spiritual exchanges and advanced thinking experiences that money can't buy.
Man is the only animal that can accept hints: avoid the narrow road of monotonous narcissism and associate with excellent people with positive energy. Enrich yourself and refuse internal friction. Feel the rich and happy mentality of others, and their righteousness will stimulate your positive energy and guide you to see the hope of life. When you associate with people with negative energy, you often feel weak and helpless, pessimistic and decadent, negative and mediocre, which affects your work mood and consumes your good luck in life.
People will inevitably have ups and downs, it is normal to produce negative energy, and it is inevitable to meet people with negative energy. While the iron is hot, you need to be hard, and you should know how to balance negative energy. If you have enough positive energy, it is ok to meet them persistently; However, if you are not strong enough, you can protect yourself by staying away from it. Don't infect each other's funerals and erode your confidence in life. If you threaten your own safety and health, you will lose more than you gain. Plants are positive and insects are phototactic. How can we not expect positive energy?