After giving birth, Sister Yun recovered slowly and stayed in the hospital for half a month. During this period, my mother-in-law served in front, and my husband rarely came to the hospital. Sister Yun didn't think much. After all, there is a child at home who needs to be taken care of at school, and her husband has work to do. Cloud outstanding hospital, her husband just call a person to drive to pick up Yun Jie, but didn't come in person, which makes Yun Jie feel a little lost.
When Sister Yun gave birth to her first child, her husband was busy taking care of her. What's more, in order to appease Sister Yun's mood, she resolutely gave up the opportunity of promotion and asked for leave. At that time, Sister Yun scolded her husband for not knowing his weight, but she was very moved. Although in the following years, she took care of the children alone and her husband rarely helped, Sister Yun didn't feel wronged.
During this confinement, the husband moved to the study to sleep on the grounds that he was too busy at work. During the confinement, Sister Yun and her mother-in-law were very busy. Looking at her mother-in-law's hard work, Sister Yun couldn't help yelling at her husband, "Can't you take two days off and let your mother have a rest?" As soon as the words were finished, the husband said angrily, "That's my mother. I haven't felt distressed yet. What do you feel distressed about? And I am so busy at work now that I have no time to ask for leave. "
Sister Yun tried to argue with her husband, but her mother-in-law stopped her.
After confinement, Sister Yun found that she was too fat and fatter than before. Sister Yun also began to consciously control her diet and increase her exercise, but no matter how hard she tried, Sister Yun always hovered around 150 kg and gained 30 kg. Whenever she looks in the mirror, she feels very sad. However, what makes Sister Yun sad is the spurning from her husband.
That day, Sister Yun and her husband had a quarrel over a trivial matter. Her husband even pointed to Sister Yun and said, "Look at you now, your waist is as thick as a bucket, and your skin is not only wrinkle-free, but also very loose, just like an old sow. You said that you are so fat, I am embarrassed to take you out, and I will have nightmares when I look at you at night. " Her husband's words are getting worse and worse. In the face of her husband's spit, Yunjie didn't know how to fight back, and she shed tears of injustice.
After reading Sister Yun's story, Uncle Qiang suddenly remembered Highland in Ruyi's Imperial Love in the Palace. Perhaps in the eyes of many people, Highland is very kind and loyal, and he will also feel the high IQ and clever means of Highland's blackening. However, the sadness in the highlands made Uncle Qiang feel more.
From the perspective of marriage, her marriage can be described as tragedy, from beginning to end. She married a man she didn't like, and later got a little love from her husband, but she was once again left out and disliked by her husband because of the stretch marks left on her belly after giving birth to the child.
Writing here, Uncle Qiang wants to tell his married male compatriots that women are more afraid of their husbands' incomprehension and rejection than physical problems such as stretch marks, obesity, blackening and spots. As a mature man, he should not abandon his wife because he is old and fat, but should cherish and cherish this great silly woman.
I wonder if you are a mature man reading this article at the moment?