Care and encouragement are far more important than criticism. "Hu Kai has never left our sight." This is the first sentence that Hu Kai's mother, who has been engaged in preschool education, said to the reporter interviewed. "I think attention and encouragement are much more important to anyone, especially to children. I remember an early childhood education expert said that children cry to attract others' attention. His father and I are very concerned about Hu Kai. We have been involved in everything about Hu Kai since childhood, and we like whatever he likes. Every stage makes him happy and healthy, and we have been dealing with the things we encounter according to the principle of "being friends first, then being father and son, mother and son". Engaged in education for so many years, it should be said that every parent has the same original intention for their children, but there are various ways to educate and treat their children. Many parents' first reaction to their children's mistakes is criticism, which makes them subconsciously feel inferior. Every time I have a parent-teacher meeting, I say I don't agree with this practice. A child's body needs nutrition, and so does his spirit. Encouragement is what they need Encouragement and praise are cheap for adults, but they can make children feel confident and work hard in the direction of encouragement and praise from adults. Until now, I have always felt that our Hu Kai is the best and our Hu Kai is the best. " The mother praised her son with two "most" words, and her satisfaction was beyond words. Talent comes from competition with father. Hu Kai's father is in good health and likes sports very much. At the age of 42, he still won the 100 meter championship in the sports meeting held by his unit. Even young people in their twenties are no match for him. Hu Kai was active and trotted since he was a child, which seems to be more of his father's inheritance. Because the father and son always jump on the bed, the bed at home has been changed several times. At the sports meeting of dad's unit, there is always a "little referee" appearing on the timing table, that is, young Hu Kai. Later, my father's unit organized employees to travel. Because Hu Kai did well in the sports meeting, the bureau leaders specially authorized Hu Kai Jr. to go with him. Hu Kai grew up racing with his father. Because father and son have the same hobby, when Hu Kai was very young, whenever there was a suitable place, he always had to run and have a game. From the beginning, my father asked Hu Kai to keep his distance to the same starting line, and then my father had to watch from behind, which inspired Hu Kai's potential step by step. Holding a small fist to protest against playing football "On the whole, Hu Kai is an obedient boy. He is wise and positive. If you encounter problems, you will always communicate with us and will be guided by various methods. " This is my father's evaluation of Hu Kai. "No matter in the past or now, football is Hu Kai's favorite sport. He likes AC Milan and Van Ba Siteng. Any information about the game is recorded in great detail. He supports China football, and once wrote an article "China Football I Shout for You", which touched me and his mother. Hu Kai was obsessed with football when he was in Grade Two. At that time, many children in his class went to football school. Hu Kai clenched his fist and said to us,' I want to play football, and I want to get a weekly salary like a Premier League player …', which made my mother and I very nervous. On the surface, we let him practice, but behind his back, Hu Kai's football coach told him that football had no way out for him. Through our patient persuasion, Hu Kai finally gave up the idea of playing football and returned to the university. "Among many athletes in China, Hu Kai is undoubtedly a typical representative of knowledge athletes and learning athletes. He is good at using his brain and adjusting his mind during training. Of course, Hu Kai also dare not neglect his studies. Hu Kai said: Usually, training may delay learning, but learning is a long-term thing. As long as you allocate your energy well, there will be no conflict. In the long run, learning and training can promote each other. Tsinghua specially recruited Hu Kai to take part in the high jump competition in the National Games of Senior Three, jumping out of1.88m, breaking the school record of Qingdao No.3 Middle School at that time. It was also at that time that coach Zhang Hengshan discovered Hu Kai. He thinks that Hu Kai is a rough piece of jade, and it will shine brilliantly as long as it is carefully polished. Since then, in Hu Kai's life, in addition to the simulation test paper, there is another runway. Every afternoon, after the second class, Hu Kai went to training, often exhausted, and then rushed back to the classroom to study by himself. Because of his excellent track and field performance, Hu Kai and several other athletes from No.3 Middle School attended the winter camp in Tsinghua University in the winter of senior three. There have also been minor twists and turns in the finals of sports special students in winter camp. At that time, three students in No.3 Middle School were assigned to a group, and three people went to the coach to ask for a group match. Hu Kai was later assigned to the last group. When the starting gun rang, the players in the same group rushed out like an arrow. Hu Kai still stood where he was, but the starter behind him flew away. Hu Kai asked the coach to give him another chance, which was the last chance. He was admitted to Tsinghua with the best results. Unlike most muscular sprinters, this "100-meter flying man" is not only gentle, but also wears a pair of 500-degree myopia glasses on his nose, which he won't take off during the competition. 200 1, Hu Kai, a student from Qingdao No.3 Middle School, scored 572 (582) in the college entrance examination, while the undergraduate line at that time was 554. With the extra points of special sports students, he finally entered Tsinghua University Institute of Economics and Management. Hu Kai, who has never participated in any professional sports team training before, is a "flying man" trained by Tsinghua. When Hu Kai went to Tsinghua to take part in the draft, he only sprinted for three months and even the starter kicked off. Fortunately, he got the chance to run alone and ran 10.70 seconds. Li Qing, the coach in charge of the draft, made a decision on the spot: that's him. By the time he was admitted to Tsinghua, his 100-meter performance had reached the standard of 10.30 second.