However, after entering adolescence, some children began to secretly learn makeup behind their parents' backs, and went home without makeup on weekends, pushing the love of beauty to the extreme wave. My friend said that during the period after the epidemic recovered, I always found my adolescent daughter secretly using her cosmetics at home. The cosmetic cover that was tightly covered when I went out to work in the morning was found loose when I used it the next morning; Obviously, I just shaved my eyebrow pencil for less than two days before I found that the core was broken. Faced with this situation, she asked her daughter if she had touched her cosmetics, but her daughter denied it.
Later, I learned from other relatives that after her daughter quietly put on makeup at home, she also took a selfie and sent a circle of friends, just shielding her parents. And there are heavy makeup and light makeup, even smoky makeup. Make friends particularly angry. After entering adolescence, many girls become more fond of beauty and even obsessed with the technology of makeup. On the one hand, it is to attract the attention of the opposite sex, on the other hand, it is to get the praise of the same sex, and on the other hand, it is to make up for its own shortcomings.
When the child simply uses a little lipstick and cream to conceal the blemishes for the first time, the child will obviously feel that his skin is not only white, but also the temperament of the whole person seems to have improved a lot. Then, the more someone praises this change, the more he praises the satisfaction brought by makeup. As parents, we all know that long-term makeup is not good for adolescent children, but how should we communicate with our children? Aunt Xi suggested that everyone can tell their children the following points-
(1) premature use of cosmetics containing chemical substances will lead to skin aging.
I have a junior high school classmate who has been wearing all kinds of makeup since grade one. Even though school leaders and teachers repeatedly stopped her, she still went against the trend. Yes, there are obvious differences between her before and after makeup. After makeup, she is more confident and more sought after by boys. But because her parents didn't take money to buy her better quality cosmetics, she just picked out a little from her living expenses and pocket money and bought some inferior products. So these cheap and inferior cosmetics soon made her face aging, not only with acne, but also with bigger pores. If she didn't wear makeup, she wouldn't go out at all, because the skin Su Yan saw was too badly hurt. Adolescent children have delicate skin and are still in the stage of physical development. If they use cosmetics too early, especially low-priced and inferior cosmetics, they will push their skin to aging earlier.
(2) Pay attention to diet and eat more fruits.
Adolescent children have greasy skin and are prone to acne because of their physical development. You know, acne is not a necessary stage for all adolescent children, but some children still suffer from it. We should face up to this problem, and don't think that acne grows on our faces and makes us invisible. Only by putting on makeup can you hide your shame. It is better to eat less spicy food and more fruits and vegetables rich in vitamins, such as fruits, red dates and longan, than to cover up the defects with inferior cosmetics. In addition, drinking more water can also ensure the nutrition of the skin.
(3) Even if it is a moisturizing product, you should choose a regular product.
Although adolescent girls don't admire their makeup, it is very necessary to use moisturizing products. Especially in winter and summer, the skin is particularly prone to dryness and even peeling. As a mother, we should help our children choose suitable moisturizing products and help our daughters pay attention to skin moisturizing.
Different children have different skin types and may have different sensitivities to different products. Some children feel good after using a brand of moisturizing products, but some children may be allergic after using them. Be sure to pay attention to the allergic situation, stop using it as soon as it is found, and it is recommended to see a doctor immediately to avoid further damage to the skin. Tell your daughter that it is human nature to love beauty, but don't wear makeup for a long time during adolescence.