This play was written by my uncle's screenwriter Parker Yinghai. Just started broadcasting, Douban scored as high as 8.9 points. Just after reading the beginning, I have to think that Park is really a master of emotional control. I'm sure everyone who has seen the first episode has this feeling-I'm afraid this is not a camera installed in contemporary society! Mourning is completely in line with the current life situation.
Why do you say that? Let's talk about the plot first: many times we feel the pain of bereavement, not because we can't live any longer, we don't need to lose our loved ones, we have cancer and so on. However, it is because of the ubiquitous small setbacks in life, such as the inferiority caused by lovelorn love, the hatred of marriage by older women, the encounter with people in love, the obstacles in interpersonal communication and so on. These seemingly insignificant emotions and difficulties are vividly portrayed in the plot, which makes people seem to see them.
Take Mei Zhen, one of the protagonists, as an example. She lives in the country and it takes an hour and a half to commute. When eating with colleagues, others are in full swing, but she can only listen with a smile. In order to hide her embarrassment, she silently stuffed something into her mouth, and her colleagues greeted her, and she could only reply briefly. If you can avoid seeing your colleagues after work, you will never take the initiative to say hello. Bowing to say hello is really inevitable.
Because I couldn't refuse the warm invitation of my colleagues, I went to a bowling party, but I couldn't get into the lively atmosphere at all. I am sitting in the same place uncomfortably alone, but no one cares whether she is happy or not. After all, she is an "atmosphere group", and the quality of playing has nothing to do with the excitement.
It's not that she didn't try to be warm and sunny, but when she found that after she answered the question carefully, the other party didn't care what she said, and she had to shrink into her shell to protect herself. Is this introverted social phobia similar to that you don't like socializing, because the work of social phobia is not developing smoothly, and getting along with colleagues is more like being separated. In order to avoid embarrassment, you can only use the excuse that you live far away from dinner and group activities-of course, you may live far away from big cities, and attending dinner means taking a taxi home, which perfectly fits the mentality of many office workers.
So have you ever asked yourself, "Is this the only way in my life?"? Why are those people so happy? " Maybe people's suffering is different, so what does this story want to tell us? In the synopsis, Chang, Mei Zhen and a mysterious foreigner who want to escape from the silent life tell the story of their escape from the "present" and their pursuit of liberation.
Mourning is the negative word of positive energy, but the family dinner table with no one to talk about and the unhappy barbecue dinner are the occasions we often meet. Then we might as well be imperfect in our formal life, allow ourselves to indulge in sadness, let the soul belong to ourselves for a short time and start over. After all, being positive is a state of life, but mourning is also an attitude towards life.
Maybe because you and I are both mortals, we can find * * * in my escape diary ~ I hope everyone can get rid of the poor life and find the meaning of their own life.