From it, we can read about the people and things that spread among the people in ancient China.
Crazy plastic surgery, a tear of missing a woman is a classic folk story.
Three unhappy marriages
The daughter lives with her.
Qin Wang is a Tujia nationality.
When I was 6 years old, I came to Tieshan District of Huangshi City with my parents.
Her father is an employee of WISCO Chengchao Iron Mine. Qin Wang likes literature and art since he was a child.
At the age of 4, he performed on the stage. 1968 end
Qin Wang, who studied in Enshi Health School, was sent to a remote village in Chengchao Commune, Ezhou City.
Qin Wang is young and beautiful.
Become the target of local youth chasing.
Several young people also fought for her. The production team leader stabilizes the overall situation
Qin Wang received an ultimatum: she must get married as soon as possible. afterwards
The captain chose a family for her.
Take her rations with her luggage.
"Have a good life with others." Qin Wang is very helpless.
I have to resign myself to fate.
Husband doesn't love Qin Wang.
Besides, Qin Wang can't do farm work.
My in-laws don't like her either. 197 1 year
Qin Wang gave birth to her daughter Wang Xiaoyan. The patriarchal husband's family gave her a bad look.
And threatened to give the child away. Qin Wang just had her daughter's full moon.
Brought her daughter back to her parents' house.
Ended this humiliating marriage.
Because the hukou is still in the countryside.
She has neither food nor work in Huangshi.
Had to go back to the countryside.
in the countryside
The life of mother and daughter living alone is very difficult.
Qin Wang's greatest wish is to be able to recruit workers from the city. When my daughter was seven months old,
She met Tyrone (a pseudonym). Tyrone calls himself a national cadre.
I also brought a recruitment form
Said, "All you have to do is marry me.
I can take you back to Yellowstone National Park. "In order to survive, Qin Wang reluctantly agreed.
Qin Wang didn't know until after marriage.
Tyrone is just an auto mechanic.
Unable to transfer her back to the city. But what's done is done
Besides, Tyrone can support her and her daughter.
Qin Wang had to submit to humiliation.
The third year after marriage
Qin Wang gave birth to his son Zhao Jin (a pseudonym). Although life is stable
But the longer it takes,
Qin Wangyue thinks Tyrone is unreasonable. At that time, Qin Wang was the director of public security mediation in the neighborhood committee.
Often go door to door to handle disputes. But she walked into someone's house with her front foot.
Following her husband all the way, he rushed up with his hind feet.
kick the door open
Shame on Qin Wang. Qin Wang reasoned with him.
He even said, "I can't throw fish into the river." What Qin Wang can't stand.
Teilen also often tells others about marital sex. 1979
Qin Wang divorced again.
Considering that my daughter needs a stable home when she grows up.
1983
Qin Wang got married for the third time. The third husband, Li Danian (a pseudonym), likes gambling.
But can do housework.
All the work at home is covered.
A model husband in the eyes of outsiders. I care about my family when I think of my husband.
Qin Wanghui will go all out.
Then she gave birth to her son Li Kang.
however
Li Danian actually has a mistress. After a period of struggle
1987
Qin Wang and her daughter went out neatly again.
Daughter's death
A letter becomes spiritual comfort.
afterwards
Qin Wang was never married again.
Pulling my daughter to live alone.
In order to survive
Qin Wang worked as a porter in Chengchao Iron Mine for two years.
Being a barber again
start a restaurant
Worked as a nurse. She works hard at everything.
She also often participates in various cultural performances.
Even Shang Yan. Through hard work
She and her daughter have their own house.
Life finally smiled at their mother and daughter.
200 1 year
Qin Wang was a nurse when she retired. My daughter has grown up, too Wang Xiaoyan inherited all the advantages of her mother.
Outstanding appearance
Can sing and dance.
From school to work, he has always been the backbone of literature and art. Community performance
Mother and daughter go on stage together.
Sing Yue Opera after Beijing Opera.
Win a full house.
leisure
Recall one's unhappy marriage
Qin Wang felt that she owed her daughter too much over the years. In those difficult years.
It is her daughter who has been with her.
Gave her a lot of comfort. And daughters depend on others.
I have suffered too much with her.
I've suffered too much from two stepfathers. Think about these.
Qin Wang felt particularly close to her daughter.
In 2002
Daughter is married
Pregnant in the second year
Qin Wang was happy from ear to ear.
I cook a lot of dishes at home from time to time.
Bring it to your daughter in a thermos.
June 20(th), 2004
Wang Xiaoyan was pushed into the delivery room. Qin Wang brought the sewn baby bedding and clothes.
The whole family waited outside the door in anticipation.
Excited and nervous.
But Wang Xiaoyan has been in the delivery room for a long time.
Never came out.
Qin Wang's heart was pounding.
Tears flowed down unconsciously. She secretly wiped away her tears.
But it's not temporary
Tears can't help flowing down again. ......
finally
The door of the delivery room opened.
The sullen doctor came out. The doctor brought a shocking news: Wang Xiaoyan suffered from massive bleeding during childbirth.
Passed away. I saw my daughter covered with white sheets.
Qin Wang suddenly fainted.
After my daughter left,
Qin Wang enlarged the photo of her daughter to life size.
Hang (sth) on the wall.
Don't eat or drink
Crying at photos all day. Relatives and friends advised her to get out of the haze.
But it's no use.
To take care of my mother
Li Kang, the youngest son, moved in with his mother. There is still no smile on Qin Wang's face.
The day after her daughter died six months ago.
Qin Wang found a diary while sorting out her daughter's belongings.
There are several pages inside.
It turned out to be a letter my daughter wrote to her when she was alive:
"mom.
I love you deeply.
I'm afraid you sympathize with me.
Pretend to be happy.
Our mother and daughter are so dependent on each other. at dead of night
I prayed helplessly.
Pray that my mother will always be with me ... mom.
I've been meaning to tell you these words for a long time.
The words came to my mouth, but I swallowed them. I really want to cry to you.
I'm afraid you will feel sorry for me. Mom, you have to be strong.
No matter what happens in the future
I hope my mother will always be beautiful.
Looking for the past youth on the stage ... "
I haven't finished reading this letter.
Qin Wang was in tears. My daughter suffered a lot from childhood.
But my daughter doesn't hate her.
I also hope that she will be "beautiful forever"
Looking for the past youth on the stage. "She suddenly thought of.
The daughter looked at her in the sky.
Immersed in sadness all day.
My daughter will be heartbroken. Think about this.
Qin Wang suddenly realized: Xiaoyan
Mom, from today on, she will not only live well.
Live beautifully.
No one thought of it.
Next, Qin Wang will go from one extreme to the other.
Comfort my daughter.
Crazy plastic surgery goes to extremes
My daughter was a community literature activist.
Qin Wang found the community director.
He said, "If there are any activities in the community in the future, please let me know.
Daughter's absence
I'll make it up to her. "On the stage where my daughter used to perform,
Play the role my daughter used to play.
She seems to be young again.
Qin Wang is becoming more and more restless. In 2009
Her autobiographical novel "Diary of Survival" was published on the Internet.
The click-through rate soared. Spring of 20 10
I read in the newspaper that a medical beauty institution in Wuhan held a beauty contest.
The winner will become the image spokesperson of the organization.
Enjoy 300,000 yuan of free cosmetic treatment. Qin Wang also actively signed up for the competition.
All the contestants are young and beautiful girls.
Qin Wang is the only person who is nearly half a century old.
But Qin Wang is full of confidence. After round after round of fierce competition
Qin Wang stood out from more than 1000 contestants.
Enter the top 30. She posted photos and experiences of the game on the Internet.
Immediately attracted applause.
Netizens called her "inspirational mother-in-law"
Some fans even made a special trip to Huangshi to see her. finally
Qin Wang signed an agreement with this cosmetics company.
Become an image spokesperson.
May 20 10
Qin Wang had her first cosmetic surgery in Wuhan.
The operation is bilateral correction of high cheekbones.
Is to smooth out the prominent cheekbones.
Transform the entire facial structure. Before operation
Qin Wang asked the doctor to "turn her into Angie Chiu".
When Qin Wang woke up from anesthesia,
Despite the dull pain in the face
Still can't help but be happy.
I called Li Kang. Li Kang was taken aback.
Go to the hospital immediately. I saw my mother with a bandage on her face.
His heart aches. Qin Wang reluctantly smiled: "Your sister wants me to be young and happy.
I will keep the beauty for her. "
exceed one's expectation
In the following year,
Qin Wang has done more than a dozen plastic surgery, such as rhinoplasty, bimaxillary angle correction, double eyelid cutting and eyebrow cutting. once
Qin Wang will undergo plastic surgery under general anesthesia again.
Li Kang stepped forward to stop: "Mom!
It is too great of a risk
You can't go on like this. "Qin Wang was angry.
"Let me be young is your sister's wish.
No cosmetic surgery
I have no meaning to live. "She was even forced to die.
Li Kang had to let go of his mother in tears.
The operation is over.
Li Kang didn't feel relaxed.
Because the next operation is still waiting for my mother. 20 1 1 July
Li Kang had no choice but to turn to the media.
I want to help my mother get out of the quagmire of plastic surgery.
This media invited Wang Erdong, a psychologist from Suzhou University. Under the mobilization of Wang Erdong
Qin Wang finally revealed her heart: in fact, she never got over the grief of her daughter's death.
Besides missing her daughter,
Regret and guilt.
In those difficult years.
No matter how fierce Qin married.
The daughters had to humbly call the man Dad. What makes Qin Wang feel guilty is that
Whenever the husband is angry.
She hit her daughter first.
Until I hit my daughter in the corner. Because she was worried that it would be frivolous for her stepfather to hit the child.
She protects her daughter in this special way.
Have again
Because the last two marriages were equally unfortunate.
Qin Wang once hated his daughter. She felt
If there is no daughter,
She can totally find a good man.
It was her daughter who dragged her down ... but after her daughter died.
Qin Wang suddenly realized that she was unfair to her daughter.
And this kind of apology can never be conveyed to her daughter. The letter left by her daughter became her spiritual sustenance.
Extreme thoughts and guilt about my daughter.
Let her seek psychological comfort in plastic surgery again and again. She regards plastic surgery as a way to commemorate her daughter.
After listening to Qin Wang's story.
Wang Erdong said, "You live with your daughter.
Daughter is very sensible.
You are willing to tell her anything.
In fact, you can only feel your daughter's love. Such an important person has left.
So you've always wanted to find the love in your heart. "Qin Wang nodded.
Wang Erdong believes that
Behind Qin Wang's crazy plastic surgery
In fact, it is a desire for love. In the eyes of Qin Wang.
Daughter is the only one who can soothe the soul. When my daughter died suddenly
When some emotional needs cannot be met
Qin Wang will become vulnerable.
At a loss. Frustration and regret have been entangled in her heart.
In Qin Wang's view, it is insurmountable,
Give my daughter a blessing.
This is another compensation for my daughter. in other words
Being Angie Chiu through plastic surgery may not be her real attraction.
daughter
What she wants to be.
According to Qin Wang's psychological symptoms.
Wang Erdong told her to close her eyes.
Talk to your daughter in your heart. soon
He found a female assistant to dress up as Wang Xiaoyan.
Let "mother and daughter" talk in the form of sitcom
Let Qin Wang pour out her tangled feelings to her "daughter". After several psychotherapy sessions,
Qin Wang's mood calmed down.
This means no more plastic surgery. It was a relief to see my mother relaxed.
Li Kang shed tears of excitement.
20 12 on the eve of may day
Qin Wang told reporters in an interview.
She has basically returned to her normal life now. at present
She spends most of her energy on writing and performing online.
Communicate with people of different ages
Life is full of flavor. Li Kang also made a decision: give up his job.
Always stay with your mother.
Be a mother's agent
Take care of mom.
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