Before you got pregnant, someone must have asked you whether you wanted to have a son or a daughter. The ideal answer in your mind is of course a twin of twins, a son and a daughter, which happens to be "good", all at once. Solve the second child problem and grow together.

As soon as you go out, there is a handsome son on the left, a gentle and lovely daughter on the right, accompanied by your considerate and capable husband. You only need to wear cool sunglasses like Beckham, Just be responsible for being beautiful and enjoying the envy of others for being the winner in life!

As a legendary mother of twins, I just want to say that the difference between a seller’s show and a buyer’s show is just one sister, haha. Let me describe my life to you!

1

Delivery

When an ordinary pregnant woman knows about pregnancy and what to do next, as a twin mother, she has already been The doctor told me that she was a high-risk pregnant woman. Half of the twins could not be successfully conceived and delivered, and the vast majority of babies were born prematurely.

After hearing the news, I just lay silently at home for more than seven months. My figure changed from a big S to a big G, and my appearance changed from Xie Na to Jia Ling. Of course, as a mother, these are all It doesn’t matter, the key is that the baby in the belly can be healthy until full term!

However, after eight months, they still couldn't hold it in and wanted to come out. The most terrifying scene in the drama actually happened to me, placenta previa and massive hemorrhage! I looked at the son and daughter in front of me, thinking that my life was over and that the child was about to lose his mother. A tragic and desolate feeling emerged spontaneously. Thank God, I was rescued by a lot of doctors. I can only comfort myself that I survived the catastrophe, and I will be lucky in the future!

2

Breastfeeding

Looking at the doctor’s great back, I feel deep gratitude that cannot be expressed in words.

I finally became a mother, and I have a son and a daughter! The legendary twins who won the jackpot! With my family telling each other about the joy, I started my own breastfeeding journey.

The child was born prematurely for more than a month, and his gastrointestinal function could not function normally at all. As soon as he put down the milk after eating, it would spurt out. The son choked and was hospitalized with pneumonia! In my panic, I realized that I had to pat them in place and hold them to sleep until their intestines and stomachs were fully developed.

After feeding my daughter for half an hour and patting her for half an hour, I just put her on the bed and was about to take a nap. My son woke up and made a fuss about feeding me. After finishing the process for my son, my daughter woke up again and went to sleep? Do I qualify? I am a fighting cow and my son needs me! My daughter needs me!

After holding my frail son for three full months without being able to lie down and sleep until his gastrointestinal development was mature, and eight months of breastfeeding day and night, my cervical spine, The lumbar spine, the once beautiful girl's eyes, all protested to me, children are like knives, and knives make people grow old!

3

Medical treatment

After having two premature children, I also have a lot of hospital cards, from general hospitals to children's hospitals. , from dermatology, surgery, internal medicine to plastic surgery, from colds, fever, diarrhea, hands, feet and mouth to stitches for falls and then to dermatology.

In countless traffic-jammed intersections and crowded hospital halls, and in countless deserted and anxious late-night emergency rooms, I have transformed from an ignorant woman into a top-level doctor. Prescribe medicine!

You think I can do it? Have you never experienced a disease when one child recovered and another child started to collapse? Have you never witnessed two anxious children crying, heartbroken and at a loss? How do you say that? You have never experienced getting married and having children. People are not enough to talk about life!

Some of my best friends complained in front of me that raising a baby was tiring, WHAT? I just smiled contemptuously, raising a baby is not tiring at all, you can see how relaxed I am!

4

Playing Games

Mom, play with me, play with me. This is the most common line my son and daughter say.

As a loving mother, of course it is my duty!

I held my son’s favorite toy gun in my left hand and hid behind the bench and fired two shots. I came back and said to my daughter, what do you think we will wear for Barbie? Bang bang, you got shot! Wear pink! ah! I've been shot! Do you think red looks good? Oh my God, I'm divided! Husband, where are you? What? You have two luxuries, and you are driving the car again?

Come, come over and tell your mother what happened to the injury on your brother’s face? Who pinched my sister's leg? Switch to the arbitration committee every minute and decide endless cases! I read parenting books voraciously, eager to find solutions, and found that some education experts said that it was up to the children to resolve disputes themselves.

Then the son hit his daughter on the head with a toy and she bled! Experts, do you have anything else to say? Who paid for the medical expenses back and forth?

5

It’s half past eleven, and the two children are still extremely excited, because one of them doesn’t want to sleep, which is the other’s alarm clock! And I am searching carefully on the Internet to compare the differences between public and private schools. Should I buy a house in a school district or should I lose weight and improve my personal qualities in advance to interview for a private elementary school?

I have to be brave and diligent in thinking, keep reading deeply, learn English, etc. Now I take care of my life, and I will help with homework and understand the dynamics of my thoughts in the future. After all, in addition to elementary school, middle school, high school, and university, I also have to consider their physical and mental health. ; I still have to exercise well and not miss out on running, walking, and yoga. I will also be a mother-in-law and mother-in-law in the future! Just thinking about it makes me feel sour!

It’s late at night, and I finally have some time to write something. After reading this, do you still want to have twins?

6

I used to be just like you, a graceful girl, ignorant of worldly affairs, and powerless to tie a chicken; I also had no idea of ??the year, with youth as my companion, and my eyes were filled with poetry and the distance. ; He was also arrogant and willful, possessing unbridled self and unrestrained self.

God gave me two pure lives, endless labor and hardship, and double the worry and concern in my life. I fell into this boundless ordinary and trivial life, marking time with annual rings. , let the power deep in my life be released layer by layer, let me understand the true meaning of love through my daily efforts, and let me have the beauty of tolerance and generosity, maturity and responsibility bit by bit!

I have been transformed.

What I ultimately want to say is that so many hard days and nights, so much unknown helplessness and fatigue, so many heart-wrenching anxieties and worries, are all left behind by the child. In the right kiss, everything turned into the wind and blew away.

No wonder some people say that the moment a child is born, it is impossible not to love him.

My children, thank you. Because of you, I am no longer afraid of the passage of time and the emptiness of existence. I have the eternal present, and I have experienced the instinct of life and the peak happiness. I have lived it again. Again.

Thank God for allowing me to experience all this hardship and happiness. Once I go through this life, I hope I don’t let it down in vain.