Author: insight into Anna Besso

Some people say that the stars in the entertainment circle can be roughly divided into two types, one is Chen style, and the other is small meat style.

Recently, one of Chen's new plays has been searched again. Unlike any other drama, there is no tear or war in the comment area, and Chen's acting skills are all praise.

"As long as he plays, it is the guarantee of quality."

Chen has been in business for 33 years, and only made more than 30 TV series and 19 movies, which is not as good as the work of a traffic star for three years.

But every piece of work, he carefully selected and polished repeatedly.

Puyi, a young emperor with ups and downs in the last emperor, Fang Hung-chien, a cynic in Besieged City, Kangxi, who laughed and scolded in Kangxi Dynasty, and the one who sang praises to the emperor in Shoubi Nanshan.

With solid acting skills, Chen has dedicated one classic role after another to the audience, played other people's lives well in the play and pursued his own life outside the play.

He avoids the noise, stays away from the current, does not flatter the world, does not please, and lives more and more advanced in his own world.

"Everyone is charming, only you are."

Chen, who once said that he was helpless in the world, summed up several points in his life, which is worth reading carefully.

0 1

"People who go up the mountain should not look down on people who go down the mountain.

Because he has seen the scenery;

People on the mountain should not look down on people below.

Because they will climb up, it must be themselves. "

This is Chen's advice to young college students when he participated in the variety show "Grade One", and it is also a principle that he has been practicing for many years.

Chen is the chairman of the Chinese Film Association, and is known as a "national treasure actor". He has won many praises, but he has always had a clear understanding of his position.

He once laughed at himself as a player to attack the chaos in the entertainment circle:

"Players are an opportunistic profession. When a person is nothing, he lowers his eyebrows and asks for help everywhere; Once it is red, I don't know the sky and the earth. "

In the impetuous and vain entertainment circle, people often lose themselves in temptation, and such people abound in life?

At their peak, they were arrogant and supercilious, but they never thought that glory always alternated with loneliness. No matter how beautiful things are, they may fall to the bottom in the next second.

Nothing is static, and the rise and fall of honor and disgrace all happen in a short time.

People who are easy to expand and have some achievements are arrogant. In the final analysis, their experience is too thin and shallow.

Mr. Jiang Yang said:

"No matter what level of life you embark on, some people look up to you, others look down on you, look up to inferiority, and bow their heads and be complacent. Only by looking directly can you see your true self. "

People need to find their own position at any time, treat others as people above themselves and treat themselves as people below themselves.

The complacency in the boom is far less than the sobriety in the peak.

02

"I have always been psychologically prepared for outside comments.

It seems very cold, just add a dress,

It's too hot, so if you take off one more thing,

After all these years, I have adapted. "

As an actor, it is inevitable to be judged, but Chen doesn't mind, because "you can't make everyone accept you, and there will always be people who hate you."

When people live to a certain age, they will understand that 90% of what happens in the world has nothing to do with us, and life is their own, not for others to see.

A qualified adult should have the ability to accept questions.

In a recent interview, Zhao was asked by a reporter: "What do you think of the negative comments on you on the Internet?"

Zhao said firmly, "I have been out for more than ten years. Do you think I will quit if I persist in this problem? " ? If it's unacceptable, don't do it. "

How much doubt a person can bear, how much ability to rebound. Many people can succeed, often because of their inner certainty.

They are firm in their footsteps, neither influenced by external voices nor kidnapped by other people's standards.

I have heard a saying: "In this bowl of chicken soup of life, you always skim off the surface oil and see what is in your bowl."

If you care too much about other people's opinions, you will only lose your mind.

Only by learning to shield the external noise and cultivating a calm heart can we hold the sword without fear of the wind and rain in the world.

03

"Life is mostly blank,

If you can't stand the blank, you must fill it.

Pack it yourself. "

In an interview, Chen talked about his outlook on life:

"In this vanity fair, I got a lot and lost a lot. The profession of actors will distort the character of many people, hypocrisy, vanity and unscrupulous means. "

Realizing this, he chose to retire from the successful standard life, abandon impetuousness, refuse to socialize and immerse himself in the world of books and art.

Play the piano and draw when you have nothing to do. When I am older, I will start to copy the Tao Te Ching by hand, or draw places from memory.

He loves sewing purses for his wife and pinching candy for his children, and has brewed a different kind of tranquility and happiness in the silent years.

Zhou Zuoren once wrote in Tea in Beijing:

"In addition to what we need every day, there must be some useless games and fun to make life interesting."

A beautiful life needs to be left blank and the world of mortals is noisy. We need to give our hearts a home.

Do some useless things and free your heart from a full schedule, and there will be extra places to store happiness.

Arrange flowers, play chess, meet a spring rain, taste wine, play the piano, and sit quietly under the pear tree.

The interest of life lies not in grand narratives, but in "useless" details.

Those trivial things, those leisure time, will slowly sink into our hearts in the years, comfort you in the bleak time, and light up our trivial daily life.

04

"People sometimes have to lose weight for inflated ideas."

When Chen was young, like most of us, he had all kinds of dreams. His three dreams are: to be a doctor, to be a diplomat and to be a lawyer.

However, as I grew older, I suddenly realized that "it is not easy to do a good job in acting in this life."

When we were young, we always wanted everything, and we didn't know until we grew up. The less we want to lose it, the less we will get it.

Jia Pingwa wrote in Freedom. Walking alone ":

"People who can live, or people who live successfully, actually know two words: willing.

I can't bear it. The small house is too small and the big house is too big. "

The process of "losing weight" for your own thoughts is also a process of learning to "give up".

Having fertile land and luxurious houses at home may not make people worry; Eating delicious food every day can hardly guarantee the health of ordinary people.

Life is like a journey, even if you get it in a thousand ways, you must learn to give up in the end.

Give up your delusion and you will get precious "peace of mind"

There is a movie line that says, "When you clench your fist and there is nothing in your hand, let go of your finger and you can have the whole world."

Life is not bitter, but suffering from too much desire; Life is not tiring, but it is too demanding.

Everything in the world is mine, but it's not mine after all. Don't be greedy.

05

"Young people want to change the world, and I have never opposed it.

I seldom tell young people what to do,

I don't interfere with them-including my children. "

Most parents in life want their children to be dragons and their daughters to be phoenixes.

They should be among the best in grades, admitted to famous universities, find good jobs, fall in love smoothly, get married and have children. ...

Too many of us want to customize a stable and successful life for our children.

However, Chen said, "For my daughter, I want her to be healthy first, happy second, and successful third.". As for whether fate can bear such great greatness, let it be left to fate. "

Don't force everything, conform to children's nature and the laws of the world, which is the most transparent educational concept after Chen sees through the essence of life.

Everything has its own destiny, and every child has his own trajectory.

In the name of love, we hurriedly drag them forward with heavy burdens, but forget that children have their own rhythm and life they want.

Lei Jun once said a sentence in "Romance", which sounds quite touching:

"We set various goals for our children, just to turn his life into what we want, not what the children want.

Parents can be their children's life mentors and accompanying friends, but don't play the role of their god of life, and give them free space and stage. "

Being a parent, escorting children when necessary, and putting wings on their children when appropriate, is a lifelong vision for children.

06

Chen said: "People know this problem, but they may not be able to solve it. Knowing the problem is also a pleasure. "

Life is a long process of self-shaping, with beautiful scenery and painful awakening along the way.

Born as a man, it is inevitable that there are many puzzles. Chen, a "senior", used his life course and understanding of life to clear the dust and light the heart lamp for the younger generation.

He said: "We have nothing to do with this world, but we can't change it. We can only try to make the world helpless here and try not to be affected by external things. "

"The world is calm and clear, and everyone is drunk and awake."

In this noisy era, when you feel impetuous and confused, you might as well calm down and read these five sentences of Chen and learn to make life simple and pure.

May we all stick to our hearts. Qian Fan has gone through many vicissitudes, but there is still love in his heart and light in his eyes.

* * * and friends.