I heard an example of filial piety from my father.

That man is about the same age as my father. He is a cadre in a township or county, and his hometown is in the country, far from his work unit. It takes half a day to a day to ride a bike.

This man goes back to his hometown by bike every weekend, rain or shine. Back home, he sat on the kang, lit a cigarette and listened to his old mother's nagging and talking. The old lady is seventy or eighty years old and can't speak clearly. What she cares about is the trivial matters of small farmers, and the dog at home has run out. Yesterday, she picked a basket of cucumbers and sold them, so the chickens at home stopped laying eggs. He just listens and answers twice occasionally.

Compared with this man's work in the city and his experience, these things are meaningless. If you put it on Americans, they will definitely be angry. But that man is not bored at all, even though he doesn't like listening. He just sat on the kang and listened to his mother's nagging for a long time, just to spend time with his mother. Because he knows that his mother misses him and likes to see him often; His mother also knows that her son understands him.

In this way, year after year. Men do their filial piety in the simplest way. As soon as the girls sat on the kang, they began to chat. One speaks and the other listens, simple and leisurely. This is more touching than the filial piety accumulated by any gorgeous words, because it can infiltrate people's hearts quietly.

She has always been a student-Yin (female, 53 years old, retired employee of the Municipal Revolutionary Park).

Yin, 53, has been taking care of her mother-in-law for 30 years. After retirement, I have reached the age to take care of my grandchildren, but in order to take care of the elderly, I still study hard while being a good daughter-in-law and being the oldest and most involved "student". As long as it is related to the life of the elderly, she listens carefully, remembers it carefully, and asks about the psychological state of the elderly and the common sense of life science. The meals of the elderly are often renovated ... because of her considerate care, she exceeds 10.

Chen Fengying, an 8-year-old mother-in-law, is still in good health, and the family of five generations living under one roof is close and harmonious, which has become a much-told story among neighbors.

Three generations in the family praised her-Zhao Manling (female, 43 years old, teacher of Jingshan Road Primary School in yanliang district).

Zhao Manling, who was named "Top Ten Daughters in Shaanxi Province" in 2004, was also named "Top Ten Filial Son" this year. After smiling face, it is the hard work of taking care of a family for three generations. My mother-in-law was ill in bed in her early years. In order to take care of her parents-in-law, she took her parents-in-law to live in the school dormitory and tried to find time to accompany her on weekends. Not only take care of the elderly, but also the three brothers-in-law at home want her to take care of them. Third brother's daughter-in-law is terminally ill, washing and cooking at home and taking care of her children ... This good gardener, who has been rated as an excellent teacher at school and district level for many times, has been praised by three generations at home.

Don't worry about your husband's in-laws-Zhang Xinli (female, 44 years old, villager from Group 4, xinzhai village, Lantianguan Town, Lantian County).

1983, Zhang Xinli married the Yang family in xinzhai village. Family situation is not good. The husband wants to earn more money but dares not go out to work: his father-in-law has cerebral thrombosis and his mother-in-law is blind. "You go, I will take good care of my in-laws." Her husband has been away for half a year or even a year, and she is busy. She fed, washed, bathed, massaged and urinated her father-in-law who was completely paralyzed and unable to take care of himself, until his father-in-law died peacefully. On the day of the funeral, her neighbors and brothers praised her. For her blind mother-in-law, she took good care of her, bought a radio and a Shaanxi opera tape for the elderly and slept with them at night. ...

One Old Man and One Old Man —— Liang Lili (female, 45 years old, staff member of Baqiao Street Office for Ageing, Baqiao District)

Liang Lili's title of dutiful son and daughter is recommended by many old people. She is a good son and daughter of many old people. 90% of the elderly in nursing homes suffer from paralysis, urinary incontinence, sequelae of cerebral thrombosis and other diseases. Huang Zhijie, an 80-year-old man, has been hemiplegic for many years and often has poor defecation. Seeing the pain of the old man, she repeatedly dug shit for the old man. The old man said to her shyly, Daughter, thank you very much. This is something my own children can't do! In the six years of working for the nursing home in Baqiao Street, the old people in the nursing home came and went, and everyone regarded her as their own daughter. Not only that, she also volunteered to support 13 rural five-guarantee households and elderly people who are lonely in society. ...

Set a good example for children-Sun Cuiqin (female, 54 years old, a villager in Rocket Village, Tong Yuan Town, Gaoling County)

"My wife gave me my life for more than ten years." Sun Cuiqin's mother-in-law said this. 1989, a 73-year-old mother-in-law suffered from cerebral thrombosis sequelae. The doctor asserted that people of this age would live for two or three years at most. Sun Cuiqin said nothing and wanted to take her mother-in-law back from her illness: three meals a day, the taste at home is entirely her mother-in-law's preference; Afraid of her mother-in-law's bedsore, she changes clothes for the elderly every three days, but rarely goes to her mother-in-law's house in the neighboring village. Under her example, the married granddaughter sent radios and tapes to the elderly, and the grandson who worked outside told him when he bought a color TV: This is for grandma. ...

Sister-in-law's children call her "mother"-Kang Xiumei (female, 48 years old, a villager in Beiban Village, Ganhe Town, Huxian County)

My in-laws are very satisfied with her, and there is nothing wrong with her, and her peers at home also give thumbs up. A few years ago, eldest sister-in-law died in hospital during childbirth, leaving a six-year-old daughter and a starving baby. At this time, Kang Xiumei's daughter was not weaned. Without saying anything, she took the two children to her side and fed her nephew with the milk that should belong to her daughter. A few years later, the eldest brother remarried, but the two children refused to go back. They only recognized Kang Xiumei.

Mother-in-law cured her-Zhang Lingru (female, 57 years old, working in Cangmen Community, Anton, Xi).

18 years ago, Zhang Lingru's mother-in-law suffered from cerebral thrombosis and was admitted to the hospital. Her husband works in other places, a pair of children go to school, and the hospital runs at both ends. After her mother-in-law came home from a stable illness, she cut her hair, washed her hair, washed her feet, bathed and changed clothes, cut her nails and pedicure. 18 years, my mother-in-law who has been unable to walk is not sick, and her neighbors all praise the elderly for getting better and better. Now her 85-year-old mother-in-law can basically take care of herself. But her tired cervical vertebra has problems, her wrist often hurts, and she can't move the bowl. ...

The white-haired son moved his stepmother-Ma (male, 70 years old, retired worker in Huashan community).

Ma is the oldest filial son and daughter selected this time. He is 70 years old and his hair is a little gray. After his father died, he always respected his stepmother. He has three meals and two trips to the water every day. It's windy and rainy, and it's cold and hot. He sent it for four years, and sooner or later he will come to say hello and chat with the old man. 200 1, the horse took the old man home who was getting worse and worse. The old man often has a headache and is in a coma. Occasionally, when I am awake, I can't speak clearly. He pointed to his white-haired son and couldn't stop crying.

Two old people live alone-Wang Guihua (female, 54 years old, retired worker of Kunlun No.1 Branch)

My mother-in-law with a bad temper is paralyzed in bed with cerebral hemorrhage and can't take care of herself. Her mother was paralyzed by a stroke and had difficulty walking. Wang Guihua, who runs on both sides, is exhausted. Just invite the two old people to their home to take care of them together, and chatting with the old in-laws can also relieve boredom. But this made Wang Guihua suffer. Either her mother has a headache or her mother-in-law is incontinent. She has to cook twice, help her mother-in-law wash her hair and bathe, help her mother rub her legs and feet to promote blood circulation, and do indoor activities ... The elderly who are getting better gradually don't even want to go home. "This is our home, so I will stay with you."

Zhang Huanru (male, 45 years old, working in Dongda Health Center, Chang 'an District, Xi)

Zhang Huanru is the only one who needs help when attending the commendation meeting of the top ten filial sons and daughters. "How can such a son be filial to his parents?" Many people will think so when they see him. Indeed, he was paralyzed by polio, and he was ashamed that he could not take care of his parents physically. After his father was paralyzed, he once fell off the kang. He tried his best to help his father on the kang, and the father and son cried bitterly. However, he has a skill. He has been working in the village cooperative medical station since 1974, so he often gives acupuncture and massage to his parents, hoping to alleviate their pain. Old people in the village do not charge medical treatment fees, registration fees, injection fees and medication fees. 1995, more than 300 elderly people jointly sent the "Caring for the Elderly" plaque ...