Ancient men could have "three wives and four concubines". Will it be smooth to forget the new year's love? No, Du Mu, a poet in the Tang Dynasty, visited Huzhou with friends during the Daiwa period in Tang Wenzong. He took a fancy to a girl who was about eleven or twelve. Du Mu agreed with the girl's mother that he would come to marry her daughter ten years later.
As a result, due to his official career, Du Mu did not happily marry the girl until 14, and the girl had been married for three years and gave birth to two sons, so Du Mu wrote a poem with seven quatrains.
This is a tragedy of forgetting the past year. Besides, it is impolite for a man to marry over 64. Even if a man wants to marry a woman a few rounds younger than himself, a woman can only be a concubine, and her status is far inferior to that of a wife. Su Shi, a poet in the Northern Song Dynasty, once sent a concubine.
Although the hit TV series "You know, it should be green and fat" talked about several "fickle lovers" who loved concubines and killed their wives, in ancient times, this situation was rare and could not be encountered by every family. From the aspects of etiquette, promulgated laws and regulations, family honor and disgrace, it is inappropriate to "confuse wives and concubines".
There are no wives now, but even if it is monogamous, what about the object of the affair? "Little three is superior" has also happened. People often say that "marriage is sacred", but marriage is not so simple. Whether it is "marital infidelity" or "age-disparate love" is hotly debated.
There is a 40-year-old aunt in Shenzhen who insists on marrying her 25-year-old son despite her opposition. It is understood that this woman and her girlfriend have a friendship of 17 years. After falling in love with her son, the woman did not hide it, fearing that this relationship would be exposed. Instead, she called her girlfriend her mother-in-law.
Judging from the woman's own explosive photos, she is actually well maintained. Uninformed people simply can't see that the age difference between her and her boyfriend is 15 years old, but some people have got to know this woman carefully and found that she is the manager of a plastic surgery hospital, so some netizens think that a woman's love with her best friend's son is just hype.
However, the woman directly exposed the wedding photos and marriage certificates, and the woman married her best friend's son for the second time, and had children before. This reminds people of the love story between Lin Jingen in Taiwan Province Province and Li Kuncheng, who is 40 years older than her. Li Kuncheng is also a good friend of Lin Jingen's father. She once became a son-in-law.
But later, the woman's best friend accepted their love and agreed to get married. /kloc-The age gap of 0/5 years old is not too big or too small. Now they are also happily married. According to the latest development of the woman, she seems to be a grandmother, while her husband became a grandfather at a young age, which seems quite fun.
Some people say that "people will meet about 29.2 million people in their lifetime, but the probability of two people falling in love is 0.000049!" So you fell in love with someone much older than you. Are you brave together or just give up?