Boys want a serious relationship, but in fact, some people are easily hurt in their feelings, which will also affect their lives and easily lead to a person's fear of falling in love again. The following is how boys behave when they want to have a serious relationship.

If a boy wants a serious relationship, he will introduce you to people around him. If you have been with a boy for a long time and you know nothing about his life circle and friends circle, then he certainly doesn't want to have a serious relationship with you. If he likes someone, he wants everyone to know that he is with him. If he is in a circle of friends or social media,

If a boy wants a serious relationship, he will bring you into his life and hope to take you to meet his parents. After you two have been in love for several years, if this boy hasn't let you meet his parents' wishes, then he should not seriously want to have sex with you, or even just regard it as a kind of enjoyment.

3. There is also the performance of a boy who wants to have a serious relationship, that is, to seriously discuss the future of your relationship with you. In his planned future, there is your seat and your future. This is a sign of serious communication.

What is the performance that boys don't like you?

1. If a boy doesn't like you, it means he doesn't care about you. If he doesn't care about you, he won't care about your daily life. If every word a boy says to you is perfunctory, then he probably doesn't like you and has no feelings for you.

2. If a boy suddenly starts to get angry with you frequently and take it out on you, then he definitely doesn't like you, because liking someone will care about the other person's thoughts and won't want to show his ugly side. If he is angry with you in front of you, then he certainly doesn't care about you or what you think of him, that is, he doesn't like you.

Boys want a serious relationship. When talking to women, I dare not face them directly, but often take a gentle glance.

Man is a strange animal. When talking to the woman he despises, he behaves naturally and generously, like a brother. When talking to the woman he likes, he acts a little embarrassed. It's not that active women lack courage, but that they are unconsciously shy. By the way, there is another complication, that is, speaking hesitatingly. He doesn't stutter, but he doesn't know how to express it to be embarrassed.

Tell a woman a story about her childhood, especially an emotional story.

Everyone's childhood stories are extremely important, which can affect a person's life and even determine a person's character. A man may not know this, but he tells a story of his childhood to a woman just to let her know him comprehensively. At the same time, it evokes a woman's desire to tell childhood stories, so as to achieve the goal of fully understanding her. The story of childhood is finished, and he will tell the following stories. Especially emotional stories.

When you make a request to him, he will try his best to help.

Men believe that working for the woman they love deeply can show their sense of existence. To this end, a woman should never carry it alone when she is in trouble, but should make a request to the man she loves in time. After a woman makes a request, there will be two results: 1) It is definitely not true love for the other person to prevaricate with busyness; 2) The other party either readily agrees or tries his best, which is a sign of love. Or women think that "trying their best" is a man's reluctance, but it is actually a man's caution.

Men in love like girls to take the initiative.

In today's society, many girls think that the initiative in love is in the hands of boys. Men don't like girls being too active, too active, or making people feel that this woman is too casual and doesn't know how to cherish it, which will make boys lose face.

Actually, it's not like this. Men prefer girls to take the initiative when they are in love. As we all know, in communication, no one will say "I love you" first, because we don't know whether the result after this sentence is good or bad, but one thing is certain, that is, when the feelings of both sides unfold, men and women are actually the same, and their hearts are full of tenderness.

Silence when a man in love quarrels does not mean that he does not repent.

Men are magical creatures. They don't like fighting. In the face of women's sudden gunfire, they can fight back and scold back. However, from the girl's point of view, this indifferent attitude towards love is an unrepentant performance, which will also make women more annoyed, but the more noisy and fierce.

In fact, men at this time are equally angry. Not quarreling with you is actually accommodating you, and it is also better to calm yourself down. Men's delicacy is always quiet, but their ideas are actually very simple, but they are always ashamed to express when facing the person they like. This kind of silent love, they actually hope that you can understand him more when you are in love.

Men in love are afraid of being urged to get married by their families.

Men's love, I don't know when it started, separated love from marriage. In their eyes, they don't have to get married when they are in love, and they will only consider getting married when there is a suitable time, place and existence. If he urges marriage before he is ready, men will be timid and don't want it, especially in the face of his girlfriend who indirectly urges marriage, they will feel very broken.

Therefore, please give boys more time and space. Love is a process in which two people get to know each other. True love can't be obtained by urging marriage. Please be patient.

Think yours is the best.

At ordinary times, he will laugh at your lack of chest and ass and point to foreign mm: "Look at others, they are just good-looking people." . When you feel depressed because of his words and think that women are trying to please themselves, you have the idea of plastic surgery. You seriously tell him that many people go for breast augmentation and you want to go. He will be very angry and say, Don't be silly, it's so good now.

Pay attention to your every move.

When talking to you, he will look at your eyes and lips intently. When we go out to eat together, he doesn't look at the beautiful girls coming in and out carefully. Sometimes, his eyes will look into the distance, which is just sorting out his thoughts.

Don't hang up first at any time

No matter how busy a man is, he will get tired of your phone call. Many men will impatiently perfunctory a few words and then urge to hang up the phone, regardless of your feelings, not to mention the disagreement between the two sides.

A boy wants to have a serious relationship with you, so he always calls you when he is free, because he misses you and he can't control himself; Even if I listened to your voice and nothing happened, he felt very happy in his heart;

So you will find that no matter what he does, he will call you; No matter where he is, you will receive his inexplicable phone call; There is nothing to say, but he just called you. This is that I have you in my heart. As long as I miss you, I will naturally dial your phone. Maybe sometimes, you get upset.

Fulfill all the promises given to you

A boy wants to associate with you seriously, so everything he says is by no means rhetoric, and he will try his best to fulfill his promise to you; As long as he promises you something, he will certainly do it; Because in his heart, you are the most important person; Therefore, if he can't do what he promised to do for you, he will feel particularly sorry for you and feel that he has failed your trust;

So even if he sucks with all his strength, he will realize what he said to you; But the person who doesn't really want to associate with you, he promises a lot, but does very little.

He will buy you whatever you like.

A boy wants to have a serious relationship with you If you go shopping with him, he will definitely buy you something you like. If something is too expensive for you, you can't bear to buy it; Then maybe the next day, he will buy it for you and give you a surprise;

Because in his heart, he cares about you and loves you very much; So whatever happiness and happiness you have, he keeps it in mind; As long as it makes you happy, he will definitely do it; As long as it makes you happy, he will try his best to satisfy your wishes.

There is a saying that men who are willing to spend money for you don't really love you, but men who are unwilling to spend money for you really don't love you. If you want to determine a man's sincerity, it can still be used as a basis, although it can't be judged entirely by whether he is willing to spend money for you.

Some men just pay lip service to all kinds of hype, but in practical actions and contacts, when it comes to spending money, he will become extremely stingy and selfish. If a man doesn't want to spend money for you, then you should be vigilant and don't pay the truth by mistake.

Second, what are the performances of boys who believe that girls are daughters-in-law?

1, it is generous to spend money for you.

A boy wants to have a serious relationship with you, so the most obvious performance is to spend money for you and be generous; You will find that he is with you, no matter how expensive things are, as long as you want them, he will definitely give generously; Because he associates with you with the mentality of spending his life with you; So no matter what you want, he will not be stingy;

In his mind, you are everything, you are the only one; So spending money for you, he doesn't care at all, spending money for you, he thinks it doesn't matter at all; This is a sincere expression, and this is an expression of true feelings.

I will accompany you when I have time.

A boy wants to have a serious relationship with you, so he will accompany you as long as he has time; You will find that as long as he is not working, he will come to you instead of doing other things; He will be with you every day and will not feel uneasy; He will accompany you every day and never feel tired; Sometimes, even at work, I will come to you secretly;

Because with you, his heart will be particularly happy and extremely happy; As long as he sees you, even if he doesn't say a word, his heart is very comforting.

3. Change yourself for you.

A boy wants to have a serious relationship with you As long as you tell him that he has a problem, he has a problem, and he will definitely change his bad habits for you. He is willing to do anything for you; As long as you are happy, whatever you ask him to do, he feels happy, happy and happy in his heart;

In his heart, you are the most important person, in his world, you are everything, everything; So as long as you don't want him to do anything, he won't do it; As long as you think he is lacking, he will definitely make himself better.

4. Ask everything about you

A boy wants to have a serious relationship with you, so he will ask you everything, including your family, your family, your past and your present, and he wants to know clearly; In his mind, he wants to know everything about you, not to find fault with you, but to know you better, so as to treat you better;

This is a person who really loves you, so he will care about everything about you; And a person who doesn't care about you has nothing to do with you; Naturally, I can stay with you for one day, just one day. If you can't be together, it's a slap in the face.

Third, the development performance of normal boyfriend and girlfriend

If we observe carefully, we will find that when one person is listening to another person carefully, his eyes will look at him from time to time. In love, too, when the boy you love is serious, he will always look into your eyes and make eye contact with you. You can also feel his sincerity to you through his eyes.

On the contrary, if this boy is indifferent to your love, he will often be absent-minded. Even when you are alone, he will be absent-minded, or chat with other girls on his mobile phone while listening to you.

If you establish this relationship with a boy, he will be willing to spend time with you, that is, spend more time with you two. He won't spend too much time in games or anywhere else. When you need him to accompany you, he is always willing to spend time with you, even if he just runs the road with you or sits on the grass and chats with the stars, he will be very happy and will not be impatient.

For example, in hot summer, if you like to eat double skin milk, he will go to the tea shop to buy you double skin milk to drink. If you want to eat mutton hotpot in winter, he will take you to eat it in cold weather. I remember when I was in college, there was a couple in our class who were like this. Girls like protein very much and don't like egg yolk, so boys often buy eggs in the morning, take out the egg yolk and give protein to girls.

In the whole communication process, I also hope that I can get smoother and smoother. I also hope that I can bring myself a very good overall idea in this communication process. Everyone has connections and different attitudes. I feel different after dating. I also hope that everyone can get better and better in this process. I hope that in this process, it will be more and more smooth, and I can have a very good opinion and a very good communication process.

Boys want a serious relationship. 3. Willing to take the time to listen to you.

For boys who pursue a girl with a game mentality, they usually want to achieve their goal-to conquer this girl.

They are more inclined to talk about their own affairs, or use the gift offensive to "fix" the girl as soon as possible.

Therefore, you may learn something from him, but you will find that your feelings are often ignored.

He may give you an expensive gift, but he doesn't know what color you really like;

He may indeed be an excellent person, but he turns a blind eye to your merits;

He often puts forward some clear requirements without considering your inner feelings.

A boy who wants to have a serious relationship with you usually knows how to "delay satisfaction" He will be more willing to spend time communicating with you, listening to your inner thoughts and encouraging you to express them, so as to get to know the real you better, instead of trying to "capture" you like hunting.

Trying to protect you.

Protecting the people you love is the instinct of every boy.

In the primitive family relationship, it is precisely because of this complementary ability that men and women have intimate needs.

For boys who just want to "play", they usually don't want to protect girls, but want to use them to meet their physiological needs and vanity.

They won't take the trouble to protect your feelings. When others speak ill of you, they won't stand up for you, because face is more important to them.

If a boy really likes you, he will have a strong sense of identity with you, so he will want to protect you and avoid being hurt.

Willing to compromise

As mentioned above, some boys pursue girls with the idea of conquering each other, treating her as a "monster" that needs to be conquered, rather than a person who needs to pay and care.

Therefore, they will face this girl with a challenging attitude, and will not consider her opinions, but try their best to change her, so that she can assimilate with herself and identify with herself unconditionally.

There is a very important ingredient in love, which comes from respect.

A person who knows how to respect you is bound to make concessions and compromises on some things, because he knows in his heart that everyone may be right, but their positions and angles are different, and they need to be adjusted to keep pace with each other.

keep one's word/promise

Commitment is a way for many boys to gain the trust of girls.

But if a person doesn't care about you, it means that he won't fulfill his promise seriously.

Being late, breaking an appointment or even unwilling to openly admit the pursuit of you are all manifestations of lack of commitment.

Maybe he will give a lot of reasons that can be rationalized, but if he can't recognize and honor his promise, then a truly trusting relationship can't be established.

A happy relationship can never be achieved through primitive attraction.

Love needs to be managed, so one also needs to learn some knowledge and ability about love.

In the face of feelings, choice is often the most important.

In the process of approaching a person slowly, we must first make sure that the other person is also a person who is really willing to pay.