A topic often mentioned recently is appearance anxiety. From simple medical beauty to all kinds of cosmetic surgery, it is more and more welcomed and accepted by people. This kind of medical beauty and surgery people are getting younger and younger.

Why does this phenomenon exist? Why do people have appearance anxiety?

On the one hand, everyone loves beauty. Everyone wants to be better, which is normal. I used to look better, maybe I wore more suitable and beautiful clothes, makeup and so on. But now people have a more convenient way. In this way, a person can even be "anyone" you want to be. From eyes to nose to mouth, even to all parts of the body. This method is naturally attractive, not to mention there are many successful precedents.

However, are there any cases of failure? Yes, and a lot. Only when the attraction of success is far greater than the fear of failure will people choose to do it.

On the other hand, it is also more important to pay dividends after success. Besides being more confident, I can also have more opportunities to enter another circle. Maybe it's an online celebrity circle, maybe it's an entertainment circle, or something else. In the era of "beauty is justice", beautiful appearance is like a passport and a stepping stone. We have seen too many such precedents, including those that broke the news overnight and those that are still active on the big screen.

However, what is the price of such beauty?

If there is a beautiful appearance, then even if it is popular, it is only a moment. There were too many people who became popular in Tik Tok overnight, but the follow-up exposure appeared, and so did those who were banned. Even stars have become mockers of the whole network because they have no self-restraint or speak too consciously.

As you get older, your appearance will naturally get older. In order to stay young, or to stay beautiful, you can only continue the operation. From Korean actor Li Duohai to lemon in China. In order to maintain the appearance after operation, the former has been operating until he seems to be a different person. The latter's own appearance is very distinctive and beautiful, but it may be to maintain this beauty, or it may be to become better, so that it creates a very stiff face and the gas field is no longer.

Li Bai once wrote: "Treat people with color, and you will get several times the reward." . This sentence was originally used to describe Queen Chen, but now it can still be seen that "color is the best for people". Because of this, appearance is extremely important. But we are ourselves first, and then we are ourselves in the eyes of others. There are a thousand Hamlets in the eyes of a thousand people, and different people have different us in their eyes. If you constantly change yourself because of a word from others, will your heart accept you? Such an inability to accept yourself may eventually bring disaster.

From appearance to soul, each of us is a unique individual. If you can accept your own existence, have your own hobbies, abilities and virtues, wouldn't it be happier to live like this? Don't worry about other people's eyes, and don't worry about getting old. Be a person who has his own small world even when he is old. Just like Grandma Moses, it can shine even when it is 100 years old.