Truly mature people must be like this: they can spare no effort to chase their dreams, but they can also take a step back to protect themselves; they have both heroic epics and reckless lives in their hearts; they admit and clearly understand where they are. The painful and confusing situation, but at the same time not getting entangled in it, and trying every means to get rid of the pain and confusion.

Going all out and fighting to the end represents only half of the truth of life. Everything has two sides. If you move forward, you will retreat when you encounter difficulties. If you gain something, you will lose something. Learn to fight with yourself, but also understand how to reconcile with yourself. If you work hard, you won't be ashamed even if you don't live the way you want.

Life always backfires when you face the gap between ideals and reality, and a life that is far from what you imagined. When the time comes, you have to learn to reconcile with yourself instead of continuing to indulge and struggle, wasting time meaninglessly.

You need to understand: It is impossible for everyone to become a hero that attracts much attention and become an outstanding elite. Most of us come from the ordinary and return to the ordinary. It is not advisable to feel sorry for yourself, let alone blame yourself and despise yourself.

Life is life no matter what kind of life it is. Is it okay to live an unsatisfactory life? Come on, life doesn’t stop for a moment, everything keeps going.

Some things have already happened, no matter how much you think about them, there will be no echo.

Don’t dwell on the past, cherish the present, and face the future. Life is bound to have another dimension.

There is no need to be brave, and there is no need to deliberately suppress the fragility and fear in your heart. While enjoying the joy of being a winner, you must also accept the loneliness of being a loser.

Accept any aspect of yourself, whether it is glorious or lacking; whether it is praiseworthy or not worth mentioning, open your arms, embrace and accept it!

You cannot live a complete life with a one-sided self. Once you learn to reconcile, you will understand life.