Beauty is indeed a kind of capital, but for me, being a little more beautiful than before is a gift from the world.
2. I used to take selfies occasionally, and I was keen to make myself as ugly as possible. I don't often take selfies now. If I make all kinds of embarrassed faces,
3。 In junior high school, I was told that "your face is your advantage", even though you got the first place in the exam. I was blocked by bad guys at the school gate in high school. It's better in college. Some people are trying to please others, but it is necessary to distinguish whether they really like it or just want to sleep with you. ...
Let's not talk about jealousy among girls. No matter how well you do it, colleagues will think that you have brushed the favor of the male boss. Male colleagues also think so, or engage in all kinds of ambiguity. Usually, they even booed and said, "If you tell us, you won't help." Actually, there really isn't.
People do help with things when they go out, and tea shops always give away an extra ball when they buy ice cream ... but I don't want to take advantage of such a small one, so I will definitely give money. The result is more losses ... _ (:з) ∠) _
There are advantages in job hunting, but the pressure is also greater. Others have more expectations. Moreover, as the daughter of the poor in a small county, she has been given more ideas of "finding an excellent marriage partner" by her family, and many men with good economic conditions are blind dates. If you refused before, you will be scolded by your family and said that you are so stupid. If you don't find a good one while you are young and beautiful, there will be no place to cry in the future. Fortunately, after many times of communication, it has been much better.
Besides, there are always some inexplicable words to say to you, such as "beautiful girls have preferential treatment", "it's good to be beautiful", "Why don't you find a rich man to marry" and "I have a high tolerance for beautiful girls" ... and I claim to fall in love at first sight after seeing a photo ... This kind of thing will make me find it more difficult to find someone.
Like the worry of rich men, beautiful women are actually thinking, if I am ugly, do you still like me? In other words, more people see all kinds of skin colors, and people are disappointed with human nature, so it is even harder to get happiness.
I don't want to get some benefits by appearance, and I don't want to be denied or accepted because of appearance.
I really hope that in the future you may be attracted by the outside, but you will fall in love with me more because of the inside. We talk about everything, have a heart-to-heart relationship and taste the taste of life, instead of being empty and speechless in front of a face that will be wrinkled sooner or later.
In the latter case, I wish we had never met, but only wished each other wonderful.
4. First of all, I think the core of the problem lies in the difference between recognition rate and attention rate.
A girl with long eyes and thighs will definitely stand out in the crowd, and it is those broad definitions of beauty that make her gain recognition and attention.
The jealousy, rejection, admiration and other emotions you talked about upstairs are all caused by recognition and attention. Others first look at you through your appearance, and after a given impression, all kinds of fair or unfair treatment will appear.
Let's talk about my daily life. Because the nature of work itself will receive high-frequency and wide-ranging attention, I will contact a wide range of people. After work, due to various factors such as height, the attention rate is also high, so I often encounter abnormal Assi. I don't quite understand how they targeted me at my age. Д? W, the process is very worrying, so I won't say much. If there is no one to accompany me now, I will basically not choose public transportation.
People are naturally excluded by some girls, such as a friend of a good friend of mine. She and I are strangers and never say a word, but whenever she meets me, she rolls her eyes.
Boys will be friendly, but they will not pursue you, or they will pursue you seriously.
This sentence may be a bit difficult to understand. Men who meet for the first time will tentatively ask: Where is your boyfriend? Usually, when I answer that I don't have a boyfriend, I get two responses, 1. How can there be no boyfriend? Don't lie to me. Ha ha ha ha 2. You must be excellent. Other boys are under pressure to chase you.
Because it is generally believed that I can't have a boyfriend, I am not considered. Actually, I'm very nice. Don't go. σ (△||||).
Then there is the kind of boy who starts the crazy chat mode. After only two days of knowing each other, he says, hey, you are my girlfriend. If you are rejected, you will attribute the reason to me, such as lofty and hard to pursue. I really want to ask, how easy is it for others you know?
Then I often meet all kinds of strange people and strike up strange words. Don't think this is something worthy of showing off and disguising, which is very troublesome for the parties. A friend of mine said after going out with me several times, I finally understand why those beautiful women look so arrogant, because if they look easy to contact, it's actually terrible for them.
I am in a city on business. Walking on the road after dinner, I found that many people would look back at me. So we did an experiment that was not completely reliable. We stood by the roadside for five minutes to see how many people would look back at me. Haha, the conclusion is that about a dozen people passed by, and everyone turned back except a couple who passed by. (*/ω\*)
People often question the need for plastic surgery. Often compared with all aspects and occasions. Many people will ask directly and rudely: Are your eyes open? Where are the double eyelids made? Did you pad your nose? And it will basically be recognized as a plastic face by onlookers.
The probability that IQ and thought are underestimated is 99%. If things are done well, they will be said to rely on their faces, and if they are not done well, they will be said to be beautiful and brainless. You will think that you must not study or study, and only know that buy buy buys clothes for himself. For example, many people will say, hey, is the model still in Zhihu? I also want to tell you that I have a junior college diploma and have won a national scholarship every year. I have never failed any courses in the first prize and the excellent prize in the department competition. I can read books and practice calligraphy instead of watching Korean dramas. The probability of being underestimated is 100%. I have resistance to going out to work for forty or fifty pounds. I can do housework, but I can't. I can take apart the computer and install the system. I can cook.
There are many other things, such as my best friend forcing me not to be her maid of honor by death, threatening me to be her maid of honor and not having a wedding reception.
On the positive side, people will often invite you to dinner. Hey, hey ... and then you'll get presents. If you ask for directions, passers-by are basically very enthusiastic. Thank them very much. If you are on a business trip, there is a certain probability that someone will meet you at the airport and so on.
Think so much for the time being, and then add it when you think about it.
I don't know what is natural beauty. Let's talk about the feeling of being ugly.
I used to be an ugly girl, extremely insecure and afraid of being looked at directly. Even now, I am not used to being praised by unfamiliar people and saying that I am beautiful, but I still dare not look directly at myself and habitually lower myself.
1. There is a feeling of being treated gently by the world. Because there is no natural beauty, you will gain more friendship and everything will be smooth.
Beauty is indeed a kind of capital, but for me, being a little more beautiful than before is a gift from the world.
2. I used to take selfies occasionally, and I was keen to make myself as ugly as possible. I don't often take selfies now, but if I take selfies often, I will get all kinds of embarrassed expressions, because I'm not afraid of others saying that ugly people are troublesome, and I don't care much about whether a photo is beautiful. Because my face is white and big, I always stand out in general group photos. ...
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Because TAT was recognized by acquaintances, I'd better delete the picture.
Most people who like me are girls, I hope everyone is well ~
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Beautiful women make people kneel down and ask questions at the same time: Is there any plastic surgery or stealing pictures? Beautiful women explain and update their answers over and over again.
Then, because the photos that broke the news quickly became popular, some people who didn't like it broke the news that the black history led to the love of various female large female users.
In the comment area, it attracted all kinds of regrets, disappointments, satire and abuse ... Male users who knelt down felt cheated, while jealous female users felt retaliated.
Some aristocratic male users who have come out to show that "the girls who are concerned are all dry goods, and they are good-looking and have no connotation and disdain to pay attention to the poor men who are concerned about beauty" are also secretly paying attention to this issue and right-clicking to save photos. While inviting all kinds of goddesses, I also complained that there were too few photos.
It is estimated that there will soon be a question of "how to evaluate the women whose photos are exposed in Zhihu". All kinds of indignant men will come to vomit and expose personal attacks, and then list a few links of beautiful women who have been photographed for everyone to see, pretending to be noble and prude.
This is a very beautiful experience that I have seen from the perspective of a bystander in Zhihu at present. It's really beautiful. There are many things that are wrong.
7. It is estimated that over time. Nose, eyes and mouth are not strange, and more people will say that the chin, mouth, buttocks and chest are all fake. This society is deeply malicious. Just hide decisively. My best friend said that someone made their mouth look like yours, which was really disgusting. Laughing to death. Let's watch and play. Happy New Year!
My best friend posted this page early in the morning, and while the leader is in a meeting, I will reply.
1 but whenever a girl sends a photo, someone usually replies "beautiful; Good figure; Wow, the skin is really good; Dear, you are beautiful again "and so on. Later, I found a rule that many different people (men and women) praised you and generally looked good; But if only one or two people (men) like it, usually one or two people line up at the po owner as a spare tire; However, all the people who are praised by a group of people of the same sex are good sisters.
2, study, work, but need to show, colleagues will find you.
3, generally in the display and other links, more confident and more expressive.
4, get more attention, do a lot of things, more people are willing to help, it is easy to make new friends in a group, but it is more difficult to get intimate friends than ordinary people. Beautiful girls need to be more intimate and warm to be liked by the audience of ordinary girls.
5, because of your appearance, you have to work hard in the rest, you will be recognized by others, and it is easy to be regarded as a vase; But if you are excellent in all aspects, you should think about how to get along with others.
However, I think every girl has a youthful beauty as long as she dresses neatly and appropriately, even if she likes to laugh or frown.
When I met T, I was asked to be P, and when I was attacked, I said that I would stay with me. The reason turned out to be "I am more masculine than his wife"; It can be said that beautiful women encounter many choices and more incredible things.
There should be a lot of things in school, but after work, if girls want to have a good career, they need to know the way of the world, know the professional ability, know how to endure hardships and know how to learn; After all, driven by interests, not many people are willing to let you get more because you look good. If you want to succeed, you must work harder, but the advantage is that as long as you make a lot of efforts, it is easier to stand out.
There are also advantages. The consequence of tattooing eyeliner is that you can always be plain when you are lazy, you can make up when you are not lazy, and you are in a particularly good mood when you wear clothes.
If a beautiful girl works hard enough and has a good personality, she can easily become the core of a circle.
The head portrait was taken during the Chinese New Year, with eyebrows and eyeliner. Well, btw, thank you for looking like Xinjiang's mother. Good eyesight and good nose. But I have no choice but to inherit my dad's big mouth and big face. After all, I am a father, and I can't be too disgusted with his genes. But the good thing is that you will never suspect that you picked it up. hahaha
By the way, my male ticket, including my dad, often called me ugly when I started getting my teeth fixed.
It is said that you must have a po map. Theoretically, I still like to get dressed and put on makeup on weekends and go on holiday with my family and friends. After all, a week's work is too hard.
8. Don't envy, it may be a kind of sadness to look good.
When other students are struggling for the lack of opportunities, the good-looking students may have another "broad road" to walk without fighting;
When a good-looking classmate can't resist the temptation of this world, it is when she begins to fail. There are too many temptations in this world. Money, cars and watches are just the most tacky things. More often, you don't know whether the opportunity given by others values your ability or face, and you don't know whether your achievements come from hard work or your body. I don't know if a time bomb has been planted in the seemingly bright future.
Being good-looking means that you can achieve the same effect with less effort, and it also means that there is jealousy in the eyes of the same sex and ambiguity in the eyes of the opposite sex. It means more possible traps and more irresistible temptations.
Therefore, a good-looking person needs a stronger heart and a more solid determination.
9. 1, the facial features are really good, and girls with soft atmosphere are the best women. Women also like beautiful and non-threatening women.
2. The boy who fought with you in junior high school began to write love letters in senior high school.
3. Don't be afraid to take more luggage when traveling. Someone always carries it for you.
4. The world is true, good and beautiful. Just be a white rabbit.
5. One day, I will feel the deep malice at the other end. Because truth, goodness and beauty are limited, I gave them to you, and naturally someone wanted to rob them.
6, no matter how low and decadent, there are people to accompany.
I can't repay the money I borrowed from a boy. People don't want you to pay back the money.
We must continue to work hard. Because 18 years old is good-looking and useful, 28 years old has temperament, 38 years old has aura, and 48 years old has wisdom. Otherwise, in the second half of my life, what I feel most is that beauty is dying.
9, it is said that time is a knife to kill pigs, and it looks good when you are young.
10 Even in Zhihu, there will be people who will not hesitate to pay attention to you just because of your avatar or photos.
1 1, looks like a youth meal. The good-looking comment period is getting shorter and shorter, that is, 16 to 25 years old. If we continue, there will be nothing else, and the charm brought by good looks will drop sharply.