(Original text transferred from Yamashita Tomohisa Personal Forum, original author: Smile)
I. Strength
"There is no need to deny luck and good luck, but please remember that accumulated virtues carry good luck, and good luck is often cultivated."
Every time I hear someone say that they have a good face, I can't help laughing inappropriately along the way. Does it mean that people think that the Japanese entertainment industry is really so good, and they have a good face for ten years, or that the outstanding children of the J family are all fuel-efficient lights. As long as he blinks, the whole world will immediately fall at his feet? No one believed this fairy tale, but he couldn't help counting it as a reason. If this can find an excuse to make myself comfortable for the absence of my idol or the bumpy road, then I can only say that I am very happy.
I often see that he, who has always been silent, is inexplicably dragged into various topics, trampled and attacked, which is nothing more than some old tricks that can't sing and dance. I find it very interesting. There are only four dancers recognized by the J family to shut all the fans up. The king's drama, whose acting skills have won numerous Oscar awards and ratings, is very popular in J's family. So far, all five fingers can count. As for singing and laughing, it is good that everyone knows what they are doing.
From beginning to end, I suddenly found that the so-called strength, these younger generations can not account for one. There are few people with strength, but why do you rarely hear that others are carried every day, and singing and dancing are not enough?
Just because others don't stand in such a focus position and stare at too many people's eyes;
Just because he has nowhere to talk but singing and dancing.
Compared with his dazzling predecessors, he really has a long way to go in these three fields, but he is by no means inferior to any one among the younger generation.
Kimura Takuya and the fans of Doboto Gangsi said that his acting skills were not good, so I took it.
KOICHI DOMOTO and Imai's fans said that he was not a good dancer, so I took it.
As for others, before you speak, wipe your eyes and see how your idol sings, dances and plays. If you don't approve, go home and practice for ten years before he talks. Otherwise, no wonder people suspect that you are sour grapes.
Also, I don't mind carrying him out as the object of attack and comparison. I am even very happy. If every popular fan of the same age wants to attack like this, then I really have to applaud. He became 1, is it a stumbling block that cannot be ignored when everyone moves forward?
Such an attack will only constantly affirm his position and value, which is really a great pleasure in life.
If you look at him who is not pleasing to the eye and full of grievances, please remember that today, there will be no more talents unless you don't work hard or choose the wrong goal.
In the eyes of P Fan, he has never seen a so-called competitor, and naturally there is no object to compare with. He respects his predecessors, cares about the younger generation and is gentle with his peers. In his eyes, there is no such thing as attack and comparison. P Fan's eyes, like his, always look in front of him. It's not enough to look at him. How can I care about other people's 7788?
For him, the opponent is always himself. As soon as he turned his eyes, all he saw were friends and partners. This is why he is firm in pace, but always gentle, and why he is strict with himself and tolerant of others. Because he never regards anyone as a strong enemy. To go up, you never have to step on others to grab the camera.
You can say that he was really incompetent before he debuted. Obviously, he was forcibly brought into the focus of the camera by the firm, but he could not burst into a matching light. He simply can't bear the heavy responsibility of the so-called new generation of Jr. leaders. He is a lucky guy.
On the other hand, the higher he is praised, the more uncomfortable he is, the more fearful he is, and the less willing he is to take the lead. He would rather restrain his own light and make this stage happy. The so-called lack of ability can't delay the battle. From this point of view, it was out of tenderness that gave every Jr a chance to make a difference and let the few flowers bloom at that time.
Everything is said by people, and which angle you like to think from is just a matter of your own thinking habits. No one is right or wrong. However, whether he is capable or not and how popular he is, TBC, summary, and the results of Group N speak for themselves, so we don't have to waste our breath on self-righteousness.
Tenderness and weakness are a pair of easily confused twins, what's more, in the cruel environment of the J family, it is normal for tenderness to be interpreted as weakness because it is too rare and expensive.
If you are gentle with others, it is called weakness. Is it called strength to make enemies everywhere and be aggressive?
If you give others a chance to say that you are incompetent, is it arrogant to erect your own red flag on a corpse?
If silence is used to cover up injuries and strength is used to cover up efforts, it is called bon voyage. Is it necessary to publicize our efforts and sell wounds everywhere to gain sympathy?
It is not only crowding out others that can reflect one's own value, just as self-improvement gained through comparative trampling is very cheap.
At the same time, it is true that few people do it, but it does not mean that too few people do it, so it can be counted as non-existent, and some people can distort it at will.
About efforts.
I have always felt that it is unnecessary to work hard at J's house as their attraction, unless this person can provide nothing but hard work. In the J family, it's ridiculous to say that any child in his early years walked to the present with a pie in his mouth. In that fierce competition, it is their duty to work hard, and it is also their duty to be exhausted, which cannot be announced. Whoever complains or is regarded as suffering by others is called ugliness.
Any child who has never bitten his teeth, never done anything that he didn't want to touch his hands when he was delicate in the past, never broken his teeth and swallowed blood, must smile, never fell down again and again to dry his tears, get up immediately, stop a little or show weakness, and may be eliminated immediately.
As for whether these sufferings are swallowed up or "accidentally" exposed, it is really a matter of pride.
If he goes all the way, most people will ignore his efforts and think that he is unreasonable. They will only think that he is really strong enough for people to applaud him. In order not to let the audience realize that he has serious physical injuries, he will exercise his muscles and improve his physical strength immediately after the heavy stage performance of summary, so as to make himself look relaxed on the stage. In order not to let fans know that he is under too much pressure and has no appetite recently, he will set himself a weight loss plan with a goal of 90 kg and spread it around happily.
What you see is always a KIRAKIRA, a gentle smiling mountain. Even if he is skinny, he is telling cold jokes and playing practical jokes, making you think that he can walk down the mountain today with pie in his mouth without any effort.
It can make everyone ignore his efforts so successfully, which proves that he never needs to work hard to win the love extended by sympathy. After careful exploration, people with heart will only get a steady stream of gifts like "this child is so desperate" and "this person used to be so strong" like treasure hunting.
Or I can understand that he is too strong to show others a little effort.
Is it not easy for a child to struggle to the heights only by changing such a beautiful face? Those who have no capital shine hard, and those who have capital must be given preferential treatment. In today's society, beautiful women have to work several times harder than ugly women to make everyone admit their wisdom and strength. In the J family, which mostly depends on looks, this deformed mentality is even more arrogant. His efforts have to be affirmed, and he has to pay three or five times more than other children to enter the audience's field of vision. Otherwise, all achievements come from God's good looks.
Judging people by their appearance not only refers to the love of beauty, but also applies to the inertia rejection and depreciation of beauty to show the lofty extreme mentality.
Not long after I met him, I was surprised to find that there were such creatures in the world. It was not beautiful at all on the surface, but I stayed too late and didn't realize my beauty at all. Incredible at the same time, it also sank.
He is just the most ordinary boy. Because he is not smart enough, he will be diligent, stupid birds fly first, treat others sincerely, and only know how to advance in the most Gu Zhuo way. When others dig their own bright spots to attract fans' attention, they don't even know how to use the best weapon given by God. He thinks it is shameful for boys to eat by their faces ... such a fool is unique among a group of smart children.
I remember a favorite sentence-"There are many guys who play tricks, but fools like him are rare."
B, he, the person he loves, the person who loves him.
He and them
A friend described it beautifully-P is a person who wants to grab his collar and shout, "Do you still want to mix?" ! "people. The face always looks lazy and listless, and I don't know how to attract the audience with vigor. When all kinds of hydrangeas were thrown at the audience, he walked along refreshed. Many colorful dances can also make him jump out of the fresh breath, and many fancy clothes can also give him a thoroughly clean taste. Not only can't attract the original work itself to the maximum extent, but let its own characteristics cover everything. This is not a good thing, it will make his light too clear and monotonous.
"There is no fish in clear water, and there is no friend when people look at it." Because the temperament is too weak, the followers are famous and have much support, but they rarely die unsatisfied. People who were initially attracted by his beauty caught a glimpse of the dazzling light elsewhere and easily drifted away, because water halo was never so eye-catching as fire. Such a gentle and innocent child is really not dazzling enough, but don't forget that the strongest thing in the world is not fire, nor gold, but water that looks weak and invisible; After all kinds of drinks, the most thirsty thing is white water.
There is always only water in the knife, so no matter what kind of difficult environment, the child will not be crushed, and no amount of pressure can distort his nature and never change himself for the sake of being superior. Look at him standing at the gate, trembling and dazzling. He came over with a smile.
As clear as ever, as gentle as ever, even worse for an idiot. ...
It's just that the weight of growth has been faintly revealed between gestures.
It seems to be swaying and happy-go-lucky, but there is a deep persistence behind it-persistence in beauty, persistence in dreams, and persistence in yourself.
Keep a drooling diary every day and tell fans that the world is lovely, which makes us feel suffocated by his words. Every time I see him like this, I giggle for a while, and then there is the boring pain that I can't express for a long time. Facing his beaming face, he easily burst into tears, but he doesn't know why.
From 1 1 to 20 years old, I have been rolling around in the entertainment circle for nine years and haven't learned how to seduce people. Even the glad eye is squeezed like an eye cramp. This kind of thing is more like a helpless joke to outsiders.
Fortunately, he is only sober and stupid in getting along with people.
The survival law of the J family is no greater than that of nature. When most people adapt to the cruel competition mechanism and get ahead, the child who always doesn't play according to J's family unexpectedly gains everything that seems impossible at J's family at the same time-the love of his predecessors, the focus of the camera, the intimate friends and the infinite trust in his teammates-because he follows the most fundamental rule of getting along with others-heart for heart.
I will say "I can't do the news without an idiot like me" in front of my teammates-_ _-I will say that Kim is a treasure, I will act like a child for papa, I will see toma jumping up and yelling on TV, I will feel extremely sorry for catching ryo fans at the handshake meeting, and I will return the gifts that fans sent home. ...
This fool is stupid enough to risk being hurt and misunderstood to be gentle with others. This A Dai is so stupid that he doesn't know how to give others a chance, and he will probably lose his future.
However, it is gratifying that people are kind, do not bully the weak, pay gentleness, get the purest friendship, give others opportunities, and get full love and trust. There are plenty of lovely and warm children in J family, who know how to appreciate and repay his gentleness and thoughtfulness.
Petty is to pay first, be considerate first, and risk being hurt first.
Those who refuse to take risks and trust don't have to look at other people's hard-earned friends and partners. One by one is also a villain, responsible for what he has done. The path he chose is not regret, but the most basic excuse.
I once read a story and was deeply impressed. Keep it in mind. A girl who was taken care of by her fiance got a gold card as a Christmas present at the bank, allowing her to shop at will. On the surface, she developed for no reason. If it is not a blessing, what is it? However, it is not difficult to understand why she got the gold card by looking at her handling of this gold card.
With the gold card in hand, she can do anything she wants, but she only uses it to buy some gifts for her fiance's parents and his children from his first marriage. When a friend asked her what gift she bought for herself, she inexplicably opened her eyes and said, "Didn't I already have that gold card?"
Finally, the narrator said: "The reason why this girl can get such a generous gift is because she will not take advantage casually and will not take material enjoyment as the major premise." Only in this way can she gain the trust and concern of the other party.
If this person immediately buys out the street without restraint once the gold card is in hand, she will definitely not get such support.
Therefore, people who covet small profits will never get rich returns. People who are eager to see others get more than themselves will only feel lucky and will not reflect on their actions. "
I think he is favored by his looks. You know, when dad invites them to have dinner with Jr., only this child will tell dad to come to my house for dinner next time.
I think he was admitted to the university and made his debut. Do you know that he used to hate studying? When I first entered high school, my grades were a mess. Later, I forced myself to study hard and my grades soared?
I think he is lucky to have so many good friends. Do you know that at the press conference organized by the group, he gave more encouragement to the hands he just met, and every time he passed Masu, he patted him on the shoulder and gave him strength?
There is nothing in the world for no reason. A really smart person can only be bitter before sweet if he puts kung fu first. Of course, some people are willing to swallow their own bitter fruit.
The brewing efforts are all in the dark, but the consequences are presented in the sun, so the situation becomes that some people are meaningless all the way, which makes people angry; Some people are banned step by step, and it looks pitiful.
You said he was nothing. Fans can't take away the sweet fruit he planted. Similarly, if you say ten thousand more words, no one can help people who don't want to help themselves.
Everything depends on him. Children never complain, optimistic, hardworking and kind. His future is full of confidence.
Let's talk about ourselves, dear P fans.
In fact, I am glad that I have such a good appearance, which has blocked many explorations of him and kept most people's eyes on his face. The treasure inside is really amazing. "The more beautiful things are, the more expensive they are, the harder it is to find." (Author Li) If it is the beauty that everyone can easily see, the value will be greatly reduced.
His dedication needs hard thinking to realize, his thoughtfulness needs careful aftertaste to see, and his patience, kindness and courage need hard work to get. The process of receiving is very difficult, but once you open this door, you will find strange and unexpected beauty.
Is it difficult? Of course, it's hard. From the day I liked him, I found it difficult. He is often depressed by others' misunderstandings and attacks on him, and it is difficult to find a partner.
Wave after wave of people passing by him, coming and going, have become accustomed to it, and it is difficult to feel pain again. Seeing a similar scene, I can only sigh at most.
No wonder many people say that P Fan is scattered, and everyone is independent and enjoys it. There is no way. It is better to love him to death than to mix with a bunch of people and watch others hurt him wantonly in the name of so-called love.
Because it is too difficult to find a partner, P Fan is too wary to believe the person who says he loves him easily.
Because he is too gentle, it leads to a strange phenomenon. People who climb the wall from his side rarely feel guilty. I always feel that such a heartthrob has been praised by too many people, and it is nothing to lack one. On the contrary, other children are really short of people.
If only that lonely child is really a heartthrob, but unfortunately he is a sex maniac.
"I was wrong, don't explain, people who love me should naturally understand; I am kind to people, whether I don't mention it or not, those who love me will automatically repay me; When I was injured, I said nothing, and the person who loved me would never leave; Everything I do is not publicity, and people who love me will understand it clearly. "
This is what I once wrote to him. In fact, this gentleness and indulgence to others is too cruel, which can be attributed to his willfulness of emotional subconscious. Never seduce you, never ask for anything, never complain and excuse. I would rather die than insist on the self-conscious feelings offered by others in absolute freedom.
Therefore, people who come to see him should bear loneliness, resist gossip, get used to taking pains, learn to grow up alone and be strong enough. We should refine our feelings and offer him the purest and most determined love.
C, praised? He and his teammates
They were praised?
It's strange to hear that he and Group N are both supported by the firm, not twice. Why doesn't the firm support others, only him and those children?
Needless to say, J's vision is high. It is self-evident that many seemingly featureless children have been polished with gorgeous light, while the obscure children in the group have won rare high-level support from the J family.
J.E.' s strict income restriction is also well known. So far, only three albums have been released. Praise is because the person who is praised is of high quality and has the potential to be praised. If it is a few sinuses, the J family, which is famous for making money, won't even pull out a hair for them, let alone spend so much effort to do it for them.
It is precisely because of the investment made today that these children will return more than they expected in the near future. The company has no doubt about this.
You don't have to expect fans to see their development prospects in three years. As long as you review and experience their track this year, you can clearly understand why the firm is willing to spend so much effort on them.
Everything happens for a reason. It's not just the immediate effect, so the reason doesn't exist.
Not only do you not have to be depressed because some people say that he and group N are praised, but you can also be extremely proud.
The autumn wind swept away the fallen leaves and took their places. Some drifted into the gutter and some fell into the flower garden. There's no need to blush with shame about this destiny takes a hand thing. What about our A Dai and the news? They were born into a noble family, and there is nothing we can do about it. Being praised is an innate good condition, and whether you can grasp it well is your own skill.
There is no possibility that "they can't achieve their present achievements if they are not praised", but they are supported and cared for by the firm, so that they can walk steadily every step. Coupled with your own efforts, you have made amazing changes in one year. One's own potential is the internal cause, and firm support is the external cause. The combination of the two has created today's news.
When the team was first formed, Group N was a rough diamond, and it was easy to die without the support of the firm. There is no denying that babies need a little help from adults when they are toddlers. After the initial running-in, the inner light gradually sharpened, and the external support fell to a secondary position. One day, when they grow up, they will use their own strength to prove that the long-term vision of the firm has brought rich returns.
His friend.
Newcastle's children don't know much, only through him can they know a little about this team.
When I first started out, I didn't complain about this group twice, and I looked forward to its dissolution all day. At that time, I didn't know what he said was "I want to go to the top with news", and I was dubious when I watched him say "I hope to know my teammates better". Until I read the summary, I was in tears, because I had no trust in him, no respect for Group N, the miracle I created for him, and their amazing growth in this short time.
Then I reviewed what he said in the past year and was surprised to find that every promise has come true. When I finished the station, I said that I wanted to go to college to study business. I will know more about my teammates if I talk for a year. So when he said he would go to the top with news, I wrote this sentence down, waiting for them to confirm it when Tokyo Dome was surrounded by thousands of cheers a few years later.
Every child in the news is so strong and low-key Hill entered Meiji Gate one year earlier, and the more he took care of his studies and career, the more he turned to Shige. As for Brother Shi, the name of Gao Fei spread far and wide, each with its own world. A while ago, a friend said that Group N was an intellectual group, and laughing at the same time was more pride.
While working hard for their dreams, they never give up their independent world. Be fully prepared but keep a low profile before the opportunity comes. They are children who can stand loneliness and will not betray themselves in order to get away. So once the opportunity comes, the strength is different.
If there was no news, I wouldn't know that this child could be so beautiful;
If there is no news, you won't know that Xiaoshan has such a hosting ability;
Without news, I wouldn't know that Masu's solo voice is so beautiful and euphemistic;
Without news, I wouldn't know that brother Shi's mind was so good;
If there were no news, I wouldn't know that the lovely ghost horse Kusano is such a person who still casually completes the performance after being injured;
If there is no news, I will not know that Ryo will not frown when he really shoulders the heavy responsibility;
If there were no news, you wouldn't know that Yuji turned out to be a considerate and lovely fool.
If there were no news, Tegoshi, who is very popular today, I wouldn't even know his name.
After writing this long list of ifs, my eyes are red again, which is so confusing. From the initial reluctance and resentment to today's gratitude for the existence of this group, scenes of him and everything they have paid for it flashed through my mind. When I first joined the team, I was skinny to my cheekbones. I sat alone in the Shinkansen, exhausted, and said that no matter what I did, I would stand at the top. ...
I don't know how many years later, when Newcastle stood at the top, would people who knew them at that time say that he was lucky to join such a good team and have such excellent teammates? I hope not. If you really say so, it will make everyone who saw 2003 laugh.
Why does this child who can't sing and dance always stand in the focus of the stage?
Why can this silly child have so many people who really care about him?
Why does this seemingly listless person make teammates with different personalities willingly embrace him as the core?
He is lucky, but he has accumulated good deeds and blessed himself. All jealous people have plenty of leisure time, so it is better to think about how to seek more happiness for themselves.