Matters needing attention for male blind date: With the increase of age, more and more people are required to join the blind date team, but it is not a simple matter to find a suitable person for blind date. Here are some precautions for men's blind date.

Notes on men's blind date 1 Notes 1: Dress neatly and generously, which suits you.

Boys can pay attention to their closets before dating. Generally speaking, like girls, I don't recommend wearing new clothes. Usually clothes should be neat and generous, which suits you best. Don't wear clothes that are too big or too small or very new.

Note 2: clean face, neat hair and no beard.

Besides clothes, we should also pay attention to the neatness of the face. Generally speaking, don't grow a beard and then cut your hair neatly. If your eyesight is not very good, you must wear glasses, which is better than squinting.

Note 3: Take the initiative to meet girls and choose a suitable blind date location.

Before a blind date, one party always takes the initiative to contact the other. As a boy, you must take the initiative to get to know girls ~ you can consult places where girls like to go or places with convenient transportation, and be considerate ~

Note 4: Pay attention to the details when dating.

Girls usually notice the details, so boys must be careful. Even if you are not careful, you should pay attention to the details and do every detail well. For example, washing dishes before eating, asking girls what they like when ordering, and so on.

Note 5: Active settlement payment

This is definitely important, boys should be more atmospheric, and it is a virtue to take the initiative to pay the bill ~ You know, how can a capable sister paper only let you pay the bill yourself ~

Note 6: Take the initiative to send each other home.

Generally speaking, after the blind date, people must be sent home, so boys should work harder. Ask the woman for permission to drive her or take a taxi home nearby. You know, if the woman thinks she can continue, it must be a walk.

Note 7: Tell each other clearly whether you like it or not.

The last one is very important. Many people told me that I don't know if the blind date is interested in me. This reminds the vast number of blind date objects that they must clearly say whether they like each other after blind date ~ China and Italy don't have to continue to communicate, but this is only the premise of communication ~

Notes on men's blind date 2 1. What should boys pay attention to when they go on blind date?

1, dress appropriately

On the first blind date, boys should pay attention to their appearance, take a shower, cut their hair and put on appropriate clothes. When people are confident, their spiritual temperament will be different and they will leave a good impression on each other.

Step 2 behave appropriately

A girl cares about details, such as eating in a restaurant, helping her pull a chair, asking her to order or asking her more about her taste when ordering. These behaviors are reflected in every detail of life and can leave a good impression on each other.

3, chat topics should be relaxed

When we meet for the first time, in fact, two people don't have too many topics to chat freely from the beginning, so boys must take the initiative, don't look too old-fashioned, make people feel like running away, talk more about relaxed and pleasant topics, start with girls' hobbies and talk more about women's sexy interests.

4. The topic of discussion should not be private and sensitive.

Don't discuss too sensitive and personal topics without knowing each other. Don't ask each other about their past emotional state, and don't discuss sensitive topics such as religion without knowing each other, so as to avoid the embarrassing situation that what you hate is exactly what the other person likes.

Second, the details that boys should pay attention to on blind date

1, little tricks appear

You don't realize these little tricks. You usually get used to them, but the consequences will be serious. Don't change your sitting posture frequently when dating, don't shake your legs, shake your head and look around. These little moves are very easy to arouse others' disgust. Boys always fail in blind date, because boys make girls look immature and too many small moves give each other a bad impression. The first impression should be calm. After all, it is a blind date, and the age is naturally not small.

Step 2 act natural

Don't be nervous, just like facing an ordinary friend. The more nervous, the easier it is to make a fool of yourself. Speak naturally, listen more, and try to extract more information from the other person's less language, such as whether the other person likes you or not, and whether the other person is slow or introverted. Self-confidence is the most important thing. Many girls like confident boys, even if they have no car or house, their hearts are not empty.

Step 3 dress

Not long ago, there was a news that a man wore a pair of special shoes to go on a blind date and was hacked. Dressing is really important. Dress doesn't need to be too formal, you can be a little casual, don't wear fancy clothes, it's best to be clean and tidy. In fact, in this world of looking at appearance, we should pay more attention to our clothes and appearance and give ourselves extra points.

Third, matters needing attention in blind date

1, don't "audit" as soon as you come up.

A person's basic situation is stereotyped and can't be changed anyway. You'll know sooner or later anyway. There is no need to ask in a hurry. It will only disgust people and seriously destroy the chat atmosphere between two people. When the topic of "audit" is asked at the end, it will definitely usher in a very embarrassing chat atmosphere.

Deliberately avoiding asking about the basic situation will make the other person unable to hold back first, have a strong curiosity about you, and try to talk about interesting content and relaxed content.

2. Give the other person a chance to speak.

The weakness of human nature says:

"Talking is like passing a ball and catching it. It's never a one-way pass. If one of them misses the ball, there will be awkward silence until someone picks it up again and continues to pass the ball, and everything can return to normal. "

So don't just talk to yourself, try to let the other person talk more and don't interrupt, because after being interrupted by you, you will lose your previous enthusiasm and interest and the atmosphere will be destroyed.

Whether the other person likes it or not, just say what he wants to say, and don't give the other person a chance to speak. This is a big no-no.

3. Avoid arguments as much as possible.

If you don't agree with each other's views or can't understand each other's hobbies when chatting, don't argue. People are different, and there are differences, including differences in ideas, emotions and hobbies. Even if you can't accept them, learn to respect them.

You know, we can never change another person, and the result can only be a bad breakup.

Precautions for male blind date 3 First, the clothes are neat and elegant.

Everyone likes beautiful things, and the first impression is very important. Clothes don't need to be heavy, just simple, and makeup doesn't need to be thick, just clean. The other parents like simple girls, not people who dress too fashionably. Smiling is very important in blind date. Smile gently, but don't smile with your mouth closed, and don't cover your mouth with your hand. This is a sign of politeness.

Second, equality and balance are required.

In the face of blind date, the mentality is very important, and your own requirements must be balanced. What do you want, what do you want and what are your requirements? You should treat them reasonably and don't ask too much. The first blind date is particularly important in the hearts of girls. Don't be too demanding and picky, you will miss a lot. Just find the feeling you want. Feelings can be cultivated slowly.

Third, don't just be quick.

Many people think that since blind date is aimed at marriage, we should make a quick decision, know all the information we should know when we meet for the first time, and decide whether to continue our relationship on the spot. It's really fast, but it can't be so fast. Still need to contact more and know more. If you want to do it quickly, it will give people a sense of oppression.

Fourth, the emotional experience should be obscure.

When two people get along, they will ask if you have talked. This must be answered. Don't tell all your emotional experiences, just say one or two, which is better for girls. Too many emotional experiences will make people think that you are promiscuous. Girls still have to hide something, which is better for themselves. Really loved several times, he won't understand, maybe you didn't continue to associate, but the impression in each other's hearts is still very good, don't destroy your image.

As long as you are a detail-oriented person at ordinary times, you'd better be generous when dating and let nature take its course! Blind date will encounter many embarrassing things, the details determine everything, and the impression is also very important. Girls born in 1980s, are you ready for blind date in the future? Have you thought about it?

Fifth, there is no need for utilitarianism and hypocrisy.

People are hypocritical, but when dating, there is no need to be hypocritical. Say what you have, don't exaggerate, and don't be arrogant. Honesty is very important in blind date. Exaggeration will only make the other person think that you are hypocritical and skilled. It is very important to talk in blind date, which is an important fuse for girls to consider whether it is necessary to develop. Perhaps exaggerating is just to make the other party pay attention to themselves, but it will not pay off and miss the opportunity.

Sixth, what topic to talk about?

Chatting is another topic. Chatting is really important. In the process of chatting, don't just care about your feelings, talk about topics you are interested in, and sometimes think from the other person's point of view. What kind of topics she likes, it is best to find the same topic, and all chatting is creating opportunities for herself. If the chat can go on smoothly, it means half the battle.

Seven, the requirements are slightly lower.

This is just the opposite of blind date. One is that there are no requirements, and the other is that the requirements are too high. Many boys are very demanding. In fact, this can be considered, and some flashy requirements can be removed. After all, few people can meet all the requirements. Boys should also pay attention to skills in blind date. Blind blind date will only hurt their self-confidence. Some people are right at first sight, and you don't need any conditions.

Eight, frequent blind date

Avoid frequent blind date, because the purpose of blind date is to find someone, quality is not quantity. After a long time, it is easy to regard blind date as an exam, and eventually it will be numb and even contradictory. Be selective, not blind.

In fact, as experts say, in terms of marriage and love, both men and women may wish to be free and easy and return to the truth. In other words, feelings are the foundation of marriage. Although wealth such as houses, cars and deposits is important, it is not necessarily the foundation of happiness. On the other hand, although the external value of appearance can attract a moment, over time, it depends on feelings and the sense of responsibility of both sides.

With an emotional foundation, an inclusive attitude and a sense of responsibility, it is not a problem to solve problems when you have a family. Wealth can be created by both sides, and all kinds of problems in life are like playing monsters in the game, and they become the strong ones in life. The combination of wealth and looks may not bring happiness.

For men and women, a happy marriage is what they pursue, not what they wait for. They can be more independent and active. Whether in urban or rural areas, single men and women can plan their future well. Make use of the Lunar New Year to make a plan, set a goal and get off to a good start. Even if it's a blind date, you should be the protagonist yourself, and don't go with the flow.