A fallen city, a fallen group, a fallen social circle and a bad friend will turn a beautiful adult into an inexplicable and even morally degraded person. Children are not affected by society for the time being, so the family environment is very important to them. A family with problems is likely to raise children with psychological problems. When children grow up, it is likely to cause a vicious circle of problem families.
Living in an abalone shop for a long time can't feel its smell, and living in a Lan Zhi room for a long time can't feel its fragrance. Children with families should choose their own city, community and friends. Those who approach ink are black, and those who approach Zhu Zhechi are known to the ancients. Meng Mu moved three times, which is the most powerful evidence.
There is a movie "Goodbye, Our Kindergarten" in Japan that describes the friendship between children, but the influence of family environment is also reflected in the movie. Today, I watched the Japanese children's film Goodbye, Our Kindergarten again, but I was still moved by the pure friendship between the children, especially the scene where Connor and Wu Yang practiced the garden style together, which made me cry again. Through the distinctive personality characteristics of six children in the film, we can see some clues about the influence of family environment on children's personality.
As the protagonist of this film, Connor is not afraid of hardship, hunger, fear and long distance. Finally, with the help of her peers and teachers, she was the only one who saw her sick good friend Yang Wu. She is a kind, optimistic, caring, brave, strong and willing to share. The performance is that stray cats dare to stand up and protect small animals after being picked up by beggars; When her companion is tired and wants to give up, she uses beautiful songs to adjust the atmosphere, inspire everyone to move forward and share candy with her companion. In the ward, she always smiled and turned Yang Wudang into a normal classmate, keeping the agreement between peers and not crying in front of Wu Yang. Her kindness and strength infected the teachers present, Wu Yang's mother and others. But in fact, she is also a child who loves to brag, play and dream little.
Of the five people who went to Wu Yang together, Friendship was the first to resign. She is the president's daughter and has a good family environment. But when she took out money to help everyone, Tuoshi said that Youyi's business was obscene. Judging from her sad expression, she longed for the respect and recognition of her peers, and she was sad that she could not visit Wu Yang with her peers.
Jun Jun, a chubby little boy, loves to eat (his eyes light up at the sight of food), is curious (children of this age are curious about everything, and there is no distinction between right and wrong, so they will be fascinated by the mini pants he has never seen before), naughty (putting bugs in Tuoshi's nose) and stubborn (when Tuoshi said that he could not realize his dream of being a football player, he got into a fight with Tuoshi and stubbornly ran away.
Meiqin, a timid and principled little girl, is smart at the same time (the poster looking for you appeared four times in the film, which finally made her call home in panic to tell her current whereabouts after hearing the news that the child was abducted; Don't pick up other people's food casually, even if you are hungry, pick up Jun Jun's garbage with plastic bags, don't eavesdrop on other people's conversations, confess when running a red light in the suburbs, and don't let Connor pick up crayons on the tracks, all of which show that Meiqin is a person with strong principles.
Tuoshi is a melancholy, independent, sacrificial and somewhat unsociable older child, and he is also the little guide of this adventure. Due to the disharmony between parents, Tuoshi is more precocious than children of the same age. He has no dreams and thinks that other people's dreams are just illusions. He will bury all his thoughts about his mother in his heart, and can clearly tell the exact number and steps of spices and raw materials used by his mother to make cakes. But these can't hide that he helped his companions escape beggars, and finally exposed himself, sacrificing himself for Connor's smooth escape from the police and seeing foreign weapons.
Yang Wu, a painting genius who was dying since childhood, is eager to go out to play with friends and attend the graduation ceremony together. But at the same time, he is a very sensible child. He knew it would bring trouble to everyone. Even though he knew he was seriously ill, he didn't cry. In the face of death, he is braver and stronger than we thought.
From the above description of the six characters in the film, it is not difficult to see that Connor, the protagonist, grew up in a relaxed, enlightened and loving family. Yukichi is a spoiled or even spoiled child because of his good family, so he is vulnerable to setbacks; Jun Jun is the most heartless child; Meiqin is a child who grew up in a very strict family discipline environment and has strong principles; Due to family disharmony, Tuoshi's young mind suffered things that he could not bear at his age prematurely. Wu Yang also grew up in a family that attached great importance to children's cultural quality.
In the film, both the mother and the teacher lied about Wu Yang's terminal illness because they were afraid of their children's painful memories. Wu Yang's mother was in a trance when Wu Yang's condition deteriorated, but in fact they knew everything, so adults should let them know and bear something with an equal and relaxed attitude, instead of hiding something. Moreover, in the film, Tuoshi despises the best business, because that's what mom said; Connor "stepped forward" and said that he was a mistress; Connor and Meiqin talk about contact lenses, lipstick, plastic surgery and so on. Meiqin's mother frightened her by abducting children ... these words from the children's mouths deserve our deep thought. Parents think they are just children and don't know anything, so they throw some of their ideas and values to their children without thinking.
Yin Jianli, a famous education expert, once said that a person's growth is more determined by the "microenvironment", that is, the teachers and parents who are in contact with him every day, and the latter is the main factor that constitutes the "microenvironment" and plays a decisive role. Every time parents educate their children correctly or wrongly, they will leave traces on their children. As the saying goes, "As you sow, you reap". Because education is a very personalized thing, the general environment rarely affects a person's instinct and talent.
Finally, I want to say that Wan Li's love for these children has finally been affirmed by everyone. While I am happy for her, I also hope that more families and teachers can treat them with an equal attitude and understand them from the perspective of children. ——————
Chapter two: Farewell to kindergarten.
Time gives us the beginning of memory, but it doesn't remind us of its end.
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A fresh movie, a childlike story. I have always liked fresh movies, which are plain and calm, but easily touch the softest place in my heart. Goodbye, our kindergarten is very simple, warm and touching. Five children, three girls and two boys bravely traveled long distances to overcome all difficulties for their good friends in kindergarten.
Wu Yang is the good friend the children are looking for. Yang Wu is terminally ill. He is about to graduate from kindergarten, but he can only live in the hospital. In fact, he is afraid that his friend will forget him and ask the nurse. Do you remember your friends in kindergarten? The mother pretends very hard, and the bright eyes of the child can tell at a glance that he will go to a place called Van Gogh sooner or later. Wu Yang is very wise.
You Yi, the most beautiful little girl, is the daughter of Japanese custom-made industry. She has a little pride of ten thousand yen. One minute, she was angry because she was ridiculed by Tuoshi for her family's small self-esteem, and the next second, she calmly comforted each other. Friendship is quiet and cold. She missed the train because she went to get the map, but quietly watched her good friend leave. That calmness surprised me.
Jun Jun, he should be the most suitable role for kindergarten boys in the play. Brave, impulsive, naughty, naive, will fight because of a good friend's indifference, brave, simple. A heartless silly boy with a football dream. When I was taken away by the police, I shouted "Don't come here" to other children, with an expression of dying, but I went back to the guard room and ate noodles wheezing, as if I had forgotten my fear a few seconds ago. It was so cute.
Meiqin, the most disciplined and obedient boy among the five. She is very good at seeing red lights and not crossing the road. She always thought it was wrong to leave home like this, which would worry adults. Along the way, I was scared to see a poster of a lost and kidnapped girl posted in the window, but I persisted for a long time in order to see my good friend Yang Wu. When I was a little girl, I loved beauty very much. My dream is that one day I can take off my heavy glasses frame and put on contact lenses to show my beautiful big eyes.
Tuoshi, a cool-looking boy, knows a lot of knowledge and is the most experienced of the five children. Under the cold appearance, there is actually a broken heart hidden. His mother's departure made him suffer too much pressure and pain at an early age. Everyone is familiar with the way to make cakes by carrying his mother's back, because he misses his mother. Knowing that clouds are steam, knowing that stars need plastic surgery, knowing that athletes need good quality, and fearing that their mothers will leave themselves behind. Finally, my mother and sister came to attend the graduation ceremony, and the cold appearance finally burst into tears. No matter how out of step with the actual age, the child's heart still has the simplicity and innocence of the child.
Connor, the unique heroine in the play, Mana Ashida has a very skillful acting since she was a child, and she is a well-deserved strength school. Connor was the only child who walked to the end and saw Yang Wu. She is kind and timid, but in order to save the kitten, she still got up the courage to talk to the tramp. She is very trustworthy. Although she knew that Wu Yang was very ill, she assured Wu Yang that she wouldn't cry, so she had to hold back. She is so simple that she thinks she is stealing strawberries, and when she hears the siren, she thinks she is catching strawberries. She is cute, especially when she smiles. I couldn't help raising my mouth with her when she laughed. She carefully and carefully collected the blue crayons left by Yang Wu, recalled the charming places in the beautiful "starry night" that Yang Wu told her, took out the candy in her bag, and gave it to everyone who escaped, except Yang Wu who was still in the hospital bed.
Finally, Connor gave Yang Wuju a simple graduation ceremony, hanging a water bottle to make a wheat rack, and the two of them shook their heads and sang graduation songs together in the hospital bed, so serious and so cute.
After watching this movie, I have been trying to remember my kindergarten, but my memory is so vague that it never seems to have happened. I only remember that I didn't like going to kindergarten at that time, and I cried with my mother every time. Although my kindergarten is not as brave and thrilling as Connor and others, I especially remember those good friends in kindergarten. At that time, a small toy could make me happy for a long time.
We grew up and gradually forgot our childhood. We won't collect every piece of colored candy paper and play with dolls, but we still prefer colored candy paper candy. Even if we don't play with the doll, we will let our mother lock it up so that no one can touch it, because it is our youngest and purest memory.
Since when do adults tell you not to trust the friendship around you easily? The teacher told you to study hard and become a machine. The caution of adults has more become the chief culprit in hurting children. Teachers' views on tasks have become more and more restrictive factors for growth. Since when, we have changed our original appearance, and slowly forgotten how to smile, how to be sincere, and how we really feel.
We used to cry loudly and seldom shed tears. We used to scream when we were afraid, and there was nothing we could do. Once we agreed, our eyes were real and our thoughts were few. Once, when we broke up, we were helpless and calm.
Let's go back to the beginning and our own kindergarten. Take a look at the old place and think about starting.
Did you cry on the first day of kindergarten?