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There are many such cases in the recovery of breaking up:

When two people first started together, the other side took care of me in every way, obedient, and spoiled me as a princess or a prince. In each other's eyes, everything I did was right.

The other party has never said no in front of me. As long as I make up my mind, the other party will try its best to finish it.

I can show myself in front of each other. No matter what I look like, each other looks at me with glowing eyes.

I ate each other to death and felt that I was the only one in each other's world.

But later, the other side began to give me the cold shoulder. I don't know what the problem is. So I began to restrain my nature, care about each other's feelings and stop bossing me around.

But it's no use. The other person drifted away from me, and finally I knelt down and licked each other. Even after breaking up, I am still so humble, kneeling and licking, praying to save each other.

Why did this happen?

One: Overestimate your own value.

You overestimate your position in love and always feel that the other person must be you.

Therefore, no matter what happens, you want to control each other and hope that the other party can be obedient to yourself. If the other person is rebellious, you will start to lose your temper and start to work, hoping to win the other person's attention and demand more value.

When you first started dating, including when he first started chasing you, it was very understandable and understandable that the other party made such concessions. After all, the other person wants to take you for himself, so he will definitely obey you.

However, if every time you do it, the other person obeys your wishes, and you think it is really useful, even if you try it a hundred times, you will still be touched by the other person's bottom line again and again, then you are wrong.

To a certain extent, the other party will suddenly erupt this dissatisfaction.

In fact, the other person's tolerance for you is based on a kind of love for you. The deeper the love, the greater the tolerance.

But you always take each other's tolerance for granted. Once the other party reaches the limit, they will choose to turn against you or even leave you. At this time, it is you who are dumbfounded.

A person who used to be so kind to me, why doesn't he pay attention to my little emotions now?

Why didn't he take care of me and coax me like before when I said cruel words?

This strong sense of difference in your heart began to work, and you began to make various guarantees and promises. You suddenly fell from heaven to hell, from the high position in love to the low position.

Two: underestimate your own value

At the beginning, the reason why the other party chased you fiercely and obeyed you was nothing more than hoping to catch up with you as soon as possible, and there must be something in you that attracted him and made him so crazy about you.

But because you overestimate your position in love at some time, the other party will gradually be dissatisfied with you in some places, and contradictions will arise over time.

When this happens, you start to pay attention to each other again. Every word said by the other party, even every move of the other party, you always feel that there must be something wrong with yourself, so the other party will have such a problem with itself, which will lead to his attitude towards himself falling from heaven to hell.

So whenever the other party is not satisfied with what he said, he will increase his horsepower to change it.

No matter what the other person said is right or wrong, in short, in this case, you have lost the most basic degree of self-identity. You accept all the bad things he says and change them.

The other party said I was fat. Well, I didn't eat at night to lose weight.

The other party said that my hair is not good-looking, okay, just change my hairstyle.

The other party said that my eyes are not good-looking, okay, I'll go for plastic surgery.

. . . . . .

You hope to change yourself and satisfy the other party in this way, and you hope to make the other party change their minds and return to the original mode of getting along with each other through this blind way.

Because at this time, you are very dependent on each other's mentality. Everything the other person has done to you, in your opinion, is your goal.

You rely on the other person's kindness to you, you rely on the other person's begging for you, and you rely on the feeling of being above yourself.

This feeling of being held by others is certainly good.

So in order to get this feeling back, you will do whatever it takes to let the other person know your determination to change now.

I always feel that my efforts will be rewarded, but the greater your expectations, the greater your disappointment.

Honey, where's your confidence?

Honey, where's your self-awareness?

Honey, what's your basic bottom line?

Do we all have to be in front of each other? Do you just want someone to come back to you?

I don't know that the more you do this, the lower your status and the smaller your right to speak. You are too humble. You probably look down on yourself. Why can the other person respect you?

So at this time, you estimate your position in love too low.

You had a good hand, but now you have broken it. What you should do now is to increase your chips and let the other side attract you again. That's what you have to do now.

You don't even have confidence in yourself Why do you let the other person have confidence in you?

Therefore, to establish your own values and core self-confidence, the most basic concept of right and wrong, the most basic self-awareness ability must not be lost, and the most basic judgment must not be dominated by the other party at this time.

Don't listen to him.

Your position in this love is not so humble, okay?

Why don't you straighten up and save it? It's really better not to recover on your knees.

Saving lives is really useless. Getting your ex to like you again is your ultimate goal, isn't it?

Hello, everyone, our team is: save your love. I am Hailing, the mentor who saves love.

Love is only once, and missing it is a lifetime. Don't give up easily. Give up, the scenery will still be there in the future, but you once loved him the most. I hope my love recovery team can help you find your him. There are many articles on cases and recovery skills for your reference, and you can also communicate with the author directly (nianrendexiaoyao250).