The person who really turned prostitutes into special occupations in history was Guan Zhong, a politician in the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period. He is the founder of a brothel. If a young girl knows that the person she likes is looking for a prostitute, it is estimated that she will be ill for a long time, and the shadow in her heart may not go away for years.
And if the man you love tells you his experience of looking for a prostitute, there is no doubt that he is politely refusing you! His subtext is: I am dirty, not as good as you think, you can let go! If a woman is betrayed, she is looking for a prostitute. In addition to nausea, she also thought: Am I worse than a prostitute? Yes, sometimes, a good woman's seemingly happy and peaceful life is really not as good as a prostitute!
This is the bloody reality! Many good women revolve around their children and husbands all their lives. Nowadays, women should not only earn money to support their families, but also educate their husbands and children. After becoming a yellow-faced woman, she still suffers from mental torture of being rejected or abandoned.
How strong is a woman to face these storms of life? Heart, no desire is just. And those women in brothels, they rarely sell their feelings and souls, and their bodies are just a transaction. They see through men's ugly faces and shallowness prematurely. So they don't have much hope for love and marriage. This makes them emotionally hurt far less than good women.
Liu Lanzhi, "At the age of thirteen, I can weave, and at the age of fourteen, I can learn to tailor. Fifteen bullets and sixteen poems. " This woman is very talented, very talented. /kloc-After she married Jiao Zhongqing at the age of 0/7, she "often felt pain and sadness". Why does she feel bitter after getting married? Because Jiao Zhongqing is busy at work, "I stay empty, and we often meet less and less."
In other words, she often doesn't see her husband and lives alone all the year round. "When the cock crows into the plane, you can't rest every night." These two sentences describe that she is very hard at housework and can't rest every night! But my mother-in-law still thinks that she is not doing well. Finally, she was forced to commit suicide! In fact, any suicide is essentially homicide!
The era of Liu Lanzhi has passed, but in real life, the tragedy of Liu Lanzhi continues! 2065438+August 2008, a pregnant woman in Yulin City, Shaanxi Province repeatedly knelt down to her husband and asked for caesarean section, and then jumped off the fifth floor of the hospital to commit suicide. According to the data of suicide rate in western countries, men are three times as many as women.
However, the number of female suicides in China is about 20% higher than that of male suicides. Two thousand years of China culture, the shackles of Neo-Confucianism require women to lead an honest and clean life! But there has never been a theory that requires men to be content with the status quo, and Neo-Confucianism has never taught women how to protect themselves when they are physically and mentally injured.
Spiritual destruction is the most thorough destruction of a person, and mental torture will make people wish they were dead! In a patriarchal society, the fate of women at the bottom is mostly damaged and insulted. In feudal society, there are so many women's ghosts, crying silently in the fields, in the fields, between villages and hills.
In modern society, there are so many female ghosts crying sadly in hospitals, lakesides and tall buildings. Mr. Lu Xun once said in the article "About Women": In this society, women are squeezed into all kinds of slaves, and all kinds of crimes are put on her head. So, women with good families live a life that is worse than death and laugh at prostitution? Don't have the strength! Powerful women often have compassion and a high level. Naturally, they won't laugh at some women who have stumbled in their careers.
The report on young women's suicide in China also claims that women are more resilient than men when facing other social problems such as work and disasters. However, they are very vulnerable in marriage and family. On the contrary, what is life like for prostitutes who have never experienced marriage and family? Prostitutes in feudal society have high incomes, so they don't have to keep house locks or entangle the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Although some people lived a miserable life, compared with Liu Lanzhi in Qian Qian, they became the darling of the whole feudal society. Now the income of prostitutes is higher (except for some middle and low-level prostitutes, of course). They lie down, their legs are parted, and their income for half an hour may be higher than 200 yuan, making money efficiently!
Those who are good-looking, earn more than 50 thousand a month, earn enough money, have full faces and figures, go back to their hometown to open a shop or do some small business, and then get married and have children without anyone knowing. Men laugh at prostitutes? Come on, such a beautiful woman, how naive she is! Who is qualified to laugh? Men live like dogs themselves. Besides, if he didn't fall into the dust, would he sleep? So, just don't be laughed at.