A 15-year-old girl from Lu Xian said that she had a quarrel with her parents because she was learning piano. The girl's mother said that she was depressed and just couldn't get over jumping off a building. Is this really inevitable? I don't think so. What does this show us? We should see more!

1. Nowadays, parents want their children to succeed. Compared with their own children, others' children learn piano, so do mine, otherwise they will fall behind others, and adults will not respect their children's opinions. Whether they want to learn is very bad and needs rectification.

It is not normal for girls to jump off a building because of quarreling. Jumping off buildings often happens, and parents and schools should pay attention to it. This is why children nowadays choose to die because of a little injustice. Obviously, there are many ways to choose. I think we should pay more attention to their mental health than their hobbies. When a child is admitted to a university, he will grow up happily and have a good personality.

3. If a girl jumps off a building because of depression, it means that some adults may suffer from depression, and children aged 15 have a pure and beautiful childhood, so why they suffer from depression is enough to arouse the vigilance of our parents and schools.

Therefore, from the incident of girls jumping off a building in Lu Xian County, I saw all kinds of problems in parents' education methods, and I saw the responsibility of school proofreaders for children's growth. Our school should pay more attention to students' psychological changes and arrange psychological course guidance. Parents should communicate with their children more, be friends, and listen to what their children are thinking and doing, instead of blindly following the arrangements you give her, which is not conducive to the healthy growth of their children.

Don't you think? How do you educate your children? Welcome to share with us.

"Goodbye, world ..." This is a farewell message left by a girl of 0/5 years old in Lu Xian County, Sichuan Province. From then on, the young girl jumped off the 25th floor and ended her life. His father died to save his children.

Children are not your spiritual slaves or your accessories. They have their own ideas and the right to choose. 15 years old is a flower season and a rebellious period. Children at this stage especially want to be respected and recognized. Their minds and thoughts are also maturing. If parents blindly ask their children to do something according to their own ideas, they will generally resist. As parents, we should try our best to listen to children's voices, keep a low profile and communicate with them equally.

It is reported that the child had a quarrel with his parents before jumping off the building because of whether he participated in the piano training class. I think this is just the last straw to crush children. The child's mother revealed that the child suffered from depression before his death. Then I want to ask, how did that carefree and happy girl get depression? What is the reason behind it? What makes you the most familiar strangers? Do you always talk about other people's children and compare your own children with others? Blind comparison will change the feelings between parents. Children will drift away from you. When the pressure is increasing, children will be depressed. When she couldn't bear it, she chose to end her life, because there was nothing lovely. This is the sorrow of the family and the misfortune of the society.

On May 22nd, junior high school students in Qingdao strangled their mother.1On August 6th, 6, Guangxi Huang killed his father and mother. Now, a 15-year-old girl in Lu Xian county committed suicide by jumping off a building, all of which reflect the same topic and the lack of family education.

1, when you are three years old or younger, you should cultivate good living habits for your children, especially moral education, and let them know what is the bottom line of life. Do something, do something.

2. Give children proper frustration education. Today's children have never suffered, nor have they suffered, and they have basically grown up in honeypots. I can't accept any injustice. At this time, frustration education is extremely important.

3. refuse to compare. This is what we parents should know. Every child is an angel, has his own mission and has his own value. We can't compare our children with others, learn and excel. As long as children are better than themselves in the past every day, growth is progress.

4. Listen to your child's voice. Slow down, squat down and listen to everything your child tells you quietly. Make friends with children, listen to their thoughts and opinions, and so on.

There are no parents in the world who don't love their children, but there is something wrong with the way they love. I hope that all parents in the world can take warning, care about the healthy growth of their children, and be a good example, teacher and guide for their children.

Finally, I hope that the child and her father will go well all the way, and I hope that her mother and brother will have a good life.

Sadly, the most terrible thing is that the girl also chose to jump backwards, that is, her back is forward when jumping, and then in the process of jumping. The head looks at the sky, not below, which means you can't see the ground getting closer and closer below, only the sky.

This kind of ceiling can only say that the girl has fear and panic in her heart. She doesn't want to see below. She just wanted to jump up and look at the sky, and watch it go away from her. When she fell to the ground, her father picked her up tightly with both hands, because it was too fast for her to catch. Both of them directly fell to the ground and died.

Alas, the little girl is too headstrong. I don't know what pressure she has experienced in recent months and how she got depression, so I'm still curious.

The little girl landed on the back of her head and her face should not have blossomed yet, but because she fell from the 25th floor, she really couldn't donate an organ transplant. After all, how painful it is to fall from such a high place, the girl's body organs are broken.

So parents should not put too much pressure on girls. They don't need to study hard. They just need to learn ordinary things. They can rest assured that girls are in no hurry to get married. They can get married even if they are not excellent.

So the little girl's parents still don't give her pressure, but it's no use talking. They can only sigh, sigh her father's greatness. There are 25 floors. How brave it is to accept it.

Poor man, it is a pity that there is no afterlife, so we must cherish this life.

Lu Xian county 15-year-old girl falls off a building. Teacher Cat saw sadness and despair, and saw the greatness of father's love.

If it were you, what kind of psychology would you have when you saw your daughter standing on the 25th floor ready to jump to end her life?

Needless to say, that moment is the end of the world for you. Fear, panic, helplessness, sadness, discomfort, despair, confusion.

There must be regrets at that moment. I regret that I only paid attention to making money at the beginning and neglected the care, companionship and education for my children, so that today's children are suffering from depression and their mental health has reached the point where they can't live.

But there is no regret medicine. Children are not machines, they are flesh and blood, have thoughts and feelings, and have honor and disgrace. On the way forward, they need guidance, guidance, and someone to shelter them from the wind and rain and answer questions.

15-year-old girl fell from the building, and I also saw the greatness of fatherly love. When my daughter jumped, my father stretched out his hands and opened his arms to her, trying to make one last useless effort with his own flesh and blood.

Sometimes, family ties do burst into extraordinary power. A thin mother can lift the car to save the child under the wheel.

However, the miracle didn't happen to this 42-year-old man. He took his daughter to heaven.

At this moment, the sad and desperate father completed a self-redemption with his own life, making up for all the love he had lost for his daughter before. However, the price of this kind of love is too high for everyone to bear.

The dead are gone, and the living are alert. Although no one wants to see such a tragedy, it happened in our life regardless of human will. How to learn from others' lessons and reduce the occurrence of tragedies is a problem that each of us should think about.

/kloc-A 0/5-year-old girl jumped off the 25th floor and stayed in the air for only 4 seconds. How many people have sighed in just 4 seconds, heart to heart?

/kloc-what did you see when a 0/5-year-old girl fell from a building? 0 1, I saw a great father's love, as high as a mountain. For my daughter's life, even if it is only one in a million, I will fight for my life! 02, I saw the horror of depression. Depression is exactly the same as normal people when it doesn't attack, which also leads many people to simply regard depression as a bad mood, just relax and spend more time with them. In fact, if you have depression, you must receive professional treatment and even take medicine on time every day. You must not take it lightly.

03, I saw the fragility of life. In just 4 seconds, two vivid lives drifted away, and life and death were in an instant. A family of four, there are only two people left in the blink of an eye ... Those who leave may be relieved, but those who are alive, how long will it take to get out of their sadness?

We don't know what kind of mental journey this 15-year-old girl has experienced and whether she suffers from depression. We just hope that everyone will pay attention to depression and treat it as a serious illness. I hope it won't happen again in the future ... In Lu Xian County 15-year-old girl falling from a building, I saw her father's love instinct and an anxious mother. The girl jumped from the 25th floor and her father lifted her up with his bare hands. Not a narrow escape, but ten deaths and no life.

Newton was hit on the head by an apple falling from a tree and found gravity. If he is hit by an apple falling from above, the direction of the story will be completely changed. Not only can he not find gravity, but he may also become dementia.

Coincidentally, in 20 18, a little girl of 1 1 years old in Shenzhen was playful and threw an apple from the 24th floor. The result was fair, just hitting a baby girl in a lady's arms on the first floor.

Although the baby girl recovered her life after being rescued, she was identified as a 10-level disability due to severe head injury, and the guardian of the girl aged1/was compensated 1.85 million. Many brain injuries are irreversible, and it is foreseeable how many sequelae the baby girl will leave.

Back to Sichuan 15-year-old girl jumping off a building, a 15-year-old girl weighs at least 80 kilograms, and an apple is only about 4 Liang. In contrast, the impact of falling can be imagined.

As an adult, the girl's father will not be ignorant of the consequences. But it happened suddenly, and there was nothing to cushion. Seeing his daughter fall from the 25th floor without picking her up and letting her die in front of him, he may feel guilty all his life.

Picking it up with your bare hands is tantamount to using yourself as a human cushion. The father wants to change his life and strive for one in ten thousand chances of survival for his daughter. I think he was scared when his father reached for it. But he has a more important mission than fear of death, and that is to protect his daughter.

Of course, returning to the essence of the incident, the daughter jumped off the building because of this incident, and the death of the middle father was the result, because it was the result.

The girl's mother claimed that her daughter was depressed and jumped off the building because she was forced to take piano lessons. Knowing that my daughter is depressed, why force her to take another piano lesson? Is it necessary just for the exam? In the final analysis, it is still the mother's psychology of looking forward to her daughter's phoenix nirvana.

Behind the mother's anxiety is the fear that the child will lose at the starting line, that the child has no skills, and that the child cannot adapt to the highly competitive society. In fact, this is normal, but I hope that parents must combine their interests with their children's interests when cultivating their children's skills. The tragedy has been caused. I hope the girl's mother can get out of the shadows.

I see the lack of spiritual strength when material conditions are abundant.

According to the girl's mother, the girl suffers from depression, and a fifteen-year-old girl is depressed. I really don't understand. No pressure of mortgage, no anxiety of survival, no social concerns. Why are 15-year-old children depressed? And it was so serious that he jumped off the 25th floor and took his own life. I can't help asking, what's wrong with this child?

One is not afraid of material poverty, but of spiritual poverty. A person is not afraid of academic backwardness, and he is afraid that his ideal will be stifled. Nowadays, people, including children, need spiritual strength, which can not be satisfied by grades, nor can it be ignored by games. It is an inner strength, a driving force and a pursuit, which can ignite the fire of life and keep it moving forward.

With computers, mobile phones, famous brands and seafood, everything is perfect, but people are empty and bored. Why? Children's ideological education is based on the guidance of schools and parents. We can't just focus on money, and we can't just focus on grades. While paying attention to the results, we should also try our best to improve the process. While giving, we should also understand the real needs of children. It should be a simple age, don't force the child's maturity, it should be a simple age, don't convey the complexity of life, give the child the best scenery and give the child the expression of positive energy. It is much more effective to let children unlock the future by themselves than to force them to instill it.

Emptiness, lack of pursuit, laziness, hopelessness and unsociable are the most common symptoms of depression. Therefore, as a child, we must always keep her curiosity, let curiosity guide her curiosity, rather than mandatory notification. Pressure is static, thinking is dynamic, don't let static matter imprison dynamic matter. Therefore, don't put too much pressure on children, and don't impose social hardships on children. You can try to let go of her hand, but you must try to be close to her heart.

At the age of fifteen, he chose to die, but the great father loved his life and still didn't keep his daughter. This is a human tragedy. I hope that similar things will never happen again.

Son, it doesn't matter whether you succeed or not. Didn't it work?

Healthy and happy adults will do.

The future road is his own, and his parents can't plan for him all his life!

So I always say: don't push the children!

This age itself is in a rebellious period, maybe you will regret it.

Therefore, the school teacher also told parents to pay attention to discretion when communicating with children.

Besides, who says you can't succeed if you don't study well?

Speaking of the bosses now, many of them are really top student-level figures.

They can have a wealth of knowledge and connections, and they will get better and better in the future, unless they show off in an ostentatious manner.

But in reality, there are also some people who are not very knowledgeable but have great achievements!

You said that many people in Deyun Society are "illiterate" according to the current academic standards.

But people are very thoughtful and eloquent, which is better than many 985s.

So success or failure depends on your own efforts, future opportunities and talents.

If you don't have these, don't twist them

What bothers me most is that the chicken soup is half filled. It's so cheat people!

The most famous sentence goes like this:

This has become the theoretical basis for encouraging students and parents to work hard, but the person who said this sentence has the second half!

Say half and leave half. This is not cheating. What is this?

Drinking half a mouthful of chicken soup is harmful!

If you don't have that talent, don't force yourself to learn skills that you can't learn!

Not everyone can be Lang Lang!

Modern parents are forcing their children to learn this and that every day for fear that they will lose at the starting line.

The problem is that your child has already lost to you, which is 108,000 miles away from the starting line. How can we make children work hard?

Contact with poetry, painting and music is to make children's hearts full of interest. These tastes will support children for life.

In this way, even in the harshest winter, he will not forget the fragrance of roses.

Isn't it against this principle to force children to study?

Don't be so utilitarian and realistic, and don't force children any more!

Help the child!

What did you see in the 15-year-old girl falling from a building?

What I see is a father's selfless love for his children. He would rather give his life for the sake of his children.

/kloc-The survival rate of a 0/5-year-old girl who falls from the 25th floor and tries to catch it with her bare hands is almost zero. As the father of 15-year-old girl, she didn't think too much. As long as there is hope to catch it, she has put her life safety behind her. Unfortunately, both her father and daughter died. My father didn't expect such a result. It's really heartbreaking to see this situation.

I don't know what children think now. If we don't agree, we can't overcome it. Is there something wrong with parents or children? These values deserve our deep thought.

In recent years, children have had more and more accidents and left home. What makes children like this?

Parents feel great pressure, it is not easy to make money, and they have been paying for their children. But who can understand the feelings of children? They should learn all kinds of specialties from an early age, but the age when they should play is full of learning. Parents think that the pressure on children is no less than that on us adults. I hope I can give them more space in the future, let them play freely and live a happy life.

Personally, I think the piano must also carry this pot. Luzhou 15-year-old girl jumped off a building. The child's mother said that she jumped off the building because of depression, but she had been hospitalized before and had been taking drugs. Why did she go to the top floor of the 25th floor after the piano lesson?

My personal guess is that she played a melancholy tune in the piano class, which triggered the outbreak of her depression.

Is such a tragedy really inevitable? I don't think so. We can still see a lot from this matter.

First, the expectation of long-term success. Children nowadays are under too much pressure. Summer classes, summer homework, various remedial classes and interest classes, except classes, are all on the way to class, living for homework and living for grades.

Some parents think it is helpful for their children to learn more things in the future. Nobody cares if children love this kind of life. Schools put pressure on parents, parents put pressure on children, and it is top-down pressure. No one taught him how to face, how to overcome, how to love himself and how to love life.

Second, the greatness of a father's love is self-aware. At the moment when her daughter jumped off the building, she knew that she could not bear it, and even she would be killed. But she did not hesitate to open her arms and exchange her body for buffer to keep herself alive with a trace of fantasy. This is the most selfless fatherly love of the great father in the world.

I think if parents don't go out to work, they will stay at home with their children and let them experience the love at home and the beauty in the world. I believe that depression will not be so serious.

3. Depression is a terrible disease, which is difficult to cure. Some people, such as Leslie Cheung, a Hong Kong movie star, and Suriel, a Korean actress, find it hard to get out even if they take medicine.

If you have depression, you must go to the hospital for diagnosis and medication, and if necessary, you must have some psychological assistance. I hope everyone can have more understanding and care for people with depression.