A few days ago, I was scared by the blind date request of my neighbor. When I looked at the location, it turned out to be a Shanghai girl!
Although she is 37 years old, her requirements for mate selection are very clear:
The man must be from Shanghai, have an urban hukou, have a wedding room 100 square meter (without mortgage), and be over 180 in height. The most important thing is that the man's parents should have pension and medical insurance!
Regardless of registered permanent residence and marriage room, it is estimated that 90% of men in China have defected, saying that their parents should have pension and medical insurance.
Even those Phoenix men and nouveau riche have decent jobs and decent incomes, but their parents may not have pensions and medical insurance!
With such a high demand, some netizens directly said something that makes people laugh and cry:
The more people who are not short of money, the more they put each other's financial ability first when dating!
That's true. Rich people should be very careful when they associate with their boyfriends/girlfriends, because they don't know if they are greedy for your money before they approach you. Unlike the poor, the poorer you are, the more people are willing to follow you and prove that you are true love!
Therefore, the "leftover women" of the rich are often easy to become super "leftover women"! Maybe that's why.
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However, for this, a netizen's message really made many post-90 s feel ashamed. She said:
Fortunately, I adjusted my mate selection criteria, otherwise I would be left behind. My husband earns less and I earn more, but my son is lovely and my family is warm. I caught the last tractor!
Seeing that her life is so happy and warm now, I can't help but have a lot of doubts about the blind date requirements after 8090.
What is the purpose of our marriage? Isn't it just for the happy life of two people?
But unfortunately, most people are blinded by money, thinking that they can live happily with a house and a car.
This idea may be naive!
The ancients said that money is a thing apart from the body!
You can earn when you have no money!
But two people together are talking. If their hearts are gone, how can they make up for it later?
Because marriage is based on feelings, not money!
We are past the age of not having enough to eat and not sleeping well, and there is no need to marry a man whom we don't like at all for the so-called money.
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Although many people advocate marriage, I still believe that there are always quite a few people in this world who are not suitable for marriage.
Because they belong to liberalism and romanticism, they attach great importance to the quality of life and the pursuit of life.
In the face of life choices, maybe they should pursue their own freedom instead of being bound by marriage!
what do you think?