Saki Liu
Liu Ting is a boy, but he wants to be a girl. The doctor said that his illness was a congenital heterosexual disease. His mother encouraged him to be his truest self. In fact, this scene in the ward is similar to that of seven years ago. Only then did Liu Ting and her mother switch places.
Mother was lying in a hospital bed because of uremia, and Liu Ting held her mother's hand and accompanied her. At that time, he was a college student. Not worrying about his mother's illness, he went to college behind her back. Liu Ting's actions touched everyone. What happened to Liu Ting?
Mother was seriously ill and needed money, and father abandoned his wife and children.
"Sorry, the number you dialed is busy ..." The cold mechanical sound hurt Liu Ting, a young man from Zhejiang.
Liu Ting is taking her mother's blood pressure.
The number he called was his real father's. A week ago, my father said he would go out to work. But since my father left, I have never been able to contact him again. Liu Ting knew that Dad felt that this family was dragging him down. Dad might be better off without him and his mother. But now, he doesn't deserve this "dad".
Liu Ting's father left on the pretext of earning money by working. And making money is to raise medical expenses for mother. Now, his mother is ill in bed. But this family should have been dull and happy.
Liu Ting took a photo with his mother when he was a child.
Liu Ting's parents are both working-class, and the economic conditions at home are more than enough. After he was born, his parents gave her all their love. They will meet all the needs of Liu Ting's life and spend as much time as possible with Liu Ting after their busy work. As a child, Liu Ting always thought that parents were the whole of a child's happy life.
Liu Ting's mother said, "My son has been very clever since he was a child and never does anything naughty. He is quiet, sometimes as quiet as a little girl. He likes reading very much, and his grades have always been good. Anyway, his father and I didn't care much about him. "
Liu Ting is still a child.
After school, Liu Ting became the kind of "other people's children" in his parents' mouth. He studies hard and is smart. You can be among the best in every exam. On the wall at home, Liu Ting's awards are all hung up. Every year, Liu Ting, a model student and a good student, must be on the list.
But when Liu Ting 13 years old, all the happiness came to an abrupt end. One day, his mother suddenly told her family that she was not feeling well. She can't tell how uncomfortable she is, just that she has a stomachache. Liu Ting's father thought that his wife was suffering from acute gastroenteritis and didn't care much. But two days later, my mother's condition got worse.
Liu Ting took a photo with his mother when he was a child.
At this point, Liu Ting's father sent his mother to the hospital. The results of the doctor's examination plunged the family into an ice cave. "After examination, the patient is uremia. At present, there are two treatments, one is kidney transplantation. But the cost is high and the kidney source is hard to find. The other is conservative treatment and dialysis. "
At present, my mother can only choose dialysis. But the cost of dialysis is not low, thousands at a time. Soon, the family's property was looted. But mom's illness is like a bottomless pit, and she needs to keep putting money into it. Dad borrowed money everywhere, and in the end everyone wanted to hide when they saw it.
Liu Ting is taking care of her mother.
It's probably the end of the road. Dad offered to go out to work to make money. At that time, Liu Ting still didn't understand why her mother's eyes were so sad. Dad went to make money. Isn't that a good thing? It's not like you're not coming back. Why are you so serious? But he didn't expect that dad really didn't come back. Maybe the mother at that time already knew what dad meant.
Take the responsibility of family care and get excellent academic performance.
At a young age, Liu Ting took on the responsibility of taking care of her mother. He left his mother at his grandmother's house, and she usually took care of him in class. He went directly to grandma's house after school and took over to take care of his mother.
Saki Liu
My mother was in a bad temper at that time. Maybe she can't accept that she has become a cripple and a drag on her son. Her husband's departure was also a great blow to her. But no matter how she lost her temper, Liu Ting accepted all the orders. He will carefully wipe his mother's body and cook nutritious meals for her. He will patiently appease his mother's anxiety and give her a warm hug.
Liu Ting has time to do his homework when his mother sleeps at night. Burning the midnight oil has become the norm in his life. On a cold night, no mother brought him a cup of hot milk. Liu Ting is a child, and he will feel uncomfortable. But he only dared to hide under the quilt and secretly cry.
Liu Ting is studying.
Usually in class, he concentrates on his studies. On weekends and holidays, he finds all kinds of part-time jobs. Although the reward is not much, at least I can buy two more boxes of medicine for my mother. Nothing can beat Liu Ting except his mother's illness.
Grandma can't bear to watch him work so hard. Grandma asked him, "Why don't grandma take care of your mother?" You are under great pressure to study now. How can you have so much time to take care of people? You just have to study hard and try to get into a good high school and a good university. When you start working, we will leave. "
Saki Liu
"No grandma, I can. You are old, just take care of yourself. I appreciate you taking care of my mother for me. As for the rest, I can bear it. "
The child is independent and sensible, and grandma can't help but wipe her tears when she looks at him. Dad's departure has always been a blow to Liu Ting. He must take good care of his mother and cure her illness. He wants to prove to his father that his mother is not a burden and this family is not a burden. Therefore, he has been holding his breath in his life.
Although it is tiring to take care of her mother, Liu Ting has never neglected her study. In 2005, he was admitted to Zhejiang Agriculture and Forestry University. But the moment he got the admission notice, he hesitated.
zhejiang a & f university
There are two reasons for hesitation, mom and money. My mother's condition has been good and bad over the years. She cannot live without people. What should she do if she goes out to college by herself? Moreover, the family's economic conditions are also relatively tight. In order to treat my mother, all the money was invested. Liu Ting is really unable to pay her tuition any more.
His entanglement, mother see in the eye. One night during the summer vacation, his mother talked to him. "Do you want to go to school? Do you long for college? "
"I ... of course. Knowledge changes fate, of course I want to go. But mom, you should know what I think. To be honest, I would rather give up this dream and I will take good care of our family. "
Saki Liu
"If you really give up for me, then mom will really drag you down. As a mother, I don't want to see this happen. I hope you can pursue your dreams and live a good life. "
Going to school behind my mother's back touched the people of China.
After a struggle, Liu Ting finally decided to go to college. Zhejiang A&F University also learned about Liu Ting's special family situation. The school decided to reduce tuition fees for Liu Ting. Moreover, he will be given a scholarship every month. In this way, the problem of money was finally solved. Liu Ting is very grateful to the school for its kindness.
Liu Ting carried her mother upstairs.
Where's mom? Liu Ting must be uneasy about leaving her alone at home. On second thought, Liu Ting decided to go to school behind his mother's back. He rented a small house outside the school, and the environment was not so good. After all, the economic capacity is limited, and it is good to have a place to live.
He also applied to the school to bring his mother into the classroom. Unlike junior high schools, universities have no fixed classrooms. This means that Liu Ting has to carry his mother to many places a day. In class, he has to study and take care of his mother's illness. After class, he must carry his mother home without stopping. Mother is a patient and needs to rest.
Liu Ting and mom.
The so-called home is a small house outside their school. It's very humid here, and there are often rats, cockroaches and the like. The bad living environment is not conducive to mother's illness. Liu Ting gets up in the middle of the night every day to massage her mother's joints that are sore because of dampness. If he can't afford a dehumidifier, he can only dehumidify it manually. Clean up the backlog of water stains and change sheets and bedding more diligently. ...
What worries Liu Ting more is her mother's psychological condition. A mother thinks that she is lame, which will seriously affect her son's normal life. So her heart is becoming more and more closed and her attitude towards life is becoming more and more negative. Even, she had suicidal thoughts. The thought of giving up on herself made her feel relieved.
Liu Ting was interviewed.
But for Liu Ting, his mother is his spiritual pillar. He can't bear the pain of losing his mother, even if he thinks it will hurt. Therefore, he spends time enlightening his mother every day. He will tell his mother frankly how much you mean to me, how much I love you and how sad I will be without you. Thanks to Liu Ting's patient guidance, my mother's mental state has finally improved.
The living conditions of Liu Ting and her mother have also been seen by more people. The photo of him going to school behind his mother's back was taken by some media. This photo spread quickly on the Internet, which aroused everyone's sympathy. Now that we know that someone is suffering, our compatriots can't sit idly by. So caring people lend a helping hand to improve the living environment of Liu Ting and her mother.
Liu Ting (right)
The affiliated hospital of Fudan University also contacted Liu Ting and said that he could operate on his mother for free. With the hope of survival, Liu Ting will naturally not give up. Under the contact of the hospital, Liu Ting and his mother came to Shanghai and were admitted to the hospital. The hospital specially set up an expert group for his mother and found the kidney source for them.
Everything is ready for the operation. Before entering the operating room, Liu Ting's mother worried that she couldn't get out. Liu Ting held his mother's hand and said over and over again, "Mom, remember, I'm waiting for you. Remember that you have a son, and you are my only family. Think of me, you will be able to get through it. "
The picture comes from the internet.
Thankfully, the operation was a great success. Liu Ting and mom finally got rid of the disease.
In 2007, Liu Ting was also named "National Moral Model". He is a dutiful son in the new era, and his behavior has touched countless people. For a time, the talk of "having children like Liu Ting" exploded the media platform.
Inner tangled gender, mother gently enlighten.
After her mother's illness was cured, Liu Ting finally had time to think about her own affairs. He has always had a trouble since he was a child. He always felt that he should be a girl. But society told him that he was a boy. Why can't you become a girl? In Liu Ting's heart, there has always been a little princess.
Liu Ting (second from left)
In fact, he found himself different when he was very young. Other boys like Altman and cars. Liu Ting likes high heels, skirts and lipsticks. Other little girls will steal their mother's high heels. Liu Ting is a boy, but he did such a thing.
When he was in elementary school, he asked his classmates to give him a skirt. Mother told him that boys should wear pants. When he is alone, he is intoxicated with himself in a skirt. Later, when he grew up, he also realized this abnormal psychological state. But he always thought, "If I were a girl, my life would be better."
It turned out that Liu Ting was secretly hiding this idea. But after becoming a moral model, he became a public figure. He is particularly afraid that others will know his abnormality and that he will bring bad influence to others. The more I think about it, the worse it gets. Liu Ting almost suffered from anxiety.
Knowing that his son looks like his mother, his state was quickly noticed by his mother. Mom found him and wanted to talk openly. Maybe mom's tone is too gentle. In a word, Liu Ting soon told the whole story and didn't want to hide it. The next day, his mother took him to the psychological clinic.
Saki Liu
The doctor said that this disease is a congenital heterosexual disease. This mental illness is almost incurable.
"Doctor, I am his mother. So, what should I do? "
"In fact, I suggest you do nothing. Respect his inner thoughts and his attitude towards life. Encourage him if you can. It is better to live happily according to your own ideas than to be scared. "
Saki Liu
After the doctor's advice, Liu Ting's mother probably knows what to do. Although she still can't accept it, the child's happiness is more important than anything else. So when she got home, she said to Liu Ting, "Son, do what you want. If you think being a girl will be more comfortable, then mom will never stop you. Anyway, I will be a daughter. "
Mother's words gave Liu Ting great encouragement. In fact, on the surface, he is worried that people will criticize him, but in fact, what he is most worried about is that his mother is disappointed with her. Now that his mother supports him, his biggest worry has disappeared. With the strength given by his family, he has the confidence to live in the way he wants.
Saki Liu
So, he told his mother, "I decided to have sex-change surgery." Growing up, I actually thought it would be better to be a girl. Mom, I want to achieve this small goal. "
Successful transsexual surgery, live a wonderful self.
On October 20 14, Liu Ting contacted the plastic surgery hospital and planned to have sex-change surgery. After the attending doctor confirmed the time, Liu Ting held a press conference before this date.
Saki Liu
At the press conference, Liu Ting said: "The reason why this meeting is held today is because I think I still have to give you an explanation. Thanks to your care, my mother and I are on the right track. Now, I have time to think about myself. To tell the truth, I'm sick, too. My illness is a mental illness with gender cognitive impairment. In other words, everyone sees that I am a boy, but I think I should be a girl. "
As soon as this was said, the reporters below were boiling. After everyone's initial shock passed, Liu Ting continued to speak: "As a public figure, it is necessary to explain my major decisions. I decided to follow my heart and be a girl. That may be the ultimate destination of my soul. "
Liu Ting had a sex change operation.
Harisu, a transsexual beauty from South Korea, also attended the conference in person to show her support. After the press conference, the online platform became noisy. Some people think Liu Ting is brave and support him, live high. Some people think that Liu Ting is a pervert and has a brain problem. No matter what others think, Liu Ting has been lying on the operating table.
Since 20 14, Liu Ting has undergone many operations. A year later, his gender transformation project was finally completed. "He" became "She" and gave himself a new name, Liu Ting.
Comparison before and after degeneration
Liu Ting is a beautiful and confident girl with strong personality charm. She can put on her favorite skirt and high heels, and learn makeup techniques aboveboard. She also signed up for a beauty contest and won a very impressive ranking. As a girl, Liu Ting became a role model for everyone.
While loving life, Liu Ting has not forgotten public welfare. At that time, my mother's treatment was supported by so many people. Now, she has also passed on this great love. She will donate money and materials, and she will be a volunteer on holidays. Her life is full and she does many meaningful things every day.
Liu Ting and mom.
Liu Ting's mother also fully accepted the child's change. If she is still a little uncomfortable at first, the longer it takes, the more she feels that the child is doing the right thing. In Liu Ting, she saw the brilliance that Liu Ting had never had. This, she thought, is the beauty of living herself.
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/kloc-children aged 0/3 should enjoy the love of their parents and the sunshine on campus. But 13-year-old Liu Ting has to take care of her mother with her thin shoulders. He is very strong, supporting his and his mother's home alone. While taking care of my mother, I can also be admitted to an ideal university. His filial piety has not been let down. Mom is well and can stay with him for a long time.
Saki Liu
Liu Ting can become Liu Ting, which shows his (or her) great courage. After experiencing some inner struggles, she bravely accepted her true self. Liu Ting also wrote a book "My Beauty", in which Liu Ting elaborated his transsexual mental journey.
Transsexuality is not terrible, the most terrible thing is that you can't face your true self. She also hopes to encourage more people with gender cognitive impairment through her own cases. Don't be afraid of worldly eyes, don't be afraid of gossip. Even if there are thorns all the way, Rose Boy can still produce beautiful flowers.