1. How to define plastic surgery?
Cosmetic surgery involves many items, from surgery to microneedles, which cannot be generalized, so people who don't accept it at all are very blind and ignorant.
Is double eyelid acceptable?
Is nose synthesis acceptable?
Is it acceptable to have a face-lifting needle?
Is it acceptable to play hyaluronic acid?
Is there a water needle acceptable?
Or is it unacceptable to "change the head", cut the bone and reshape all the parts?
On the surface, many men say that they can't accept plastic surgery, but they don't necessarily have resistance to artificial beauty.
If a beautiful woman like Angelababy wanted to marry you, would you refuse?
Zheng Shuang Fairy with a little pruning, tell me with my conscience, do you like it?
How much did Yang Mi's face value improve after bone cutting? Is the whole person immortal?
We have to admit that being good-looking will bring great convenience to our career and life. Who doesn't like beautiful women? And how many of the beautiful women you see, even the stars in the entertainment circle, are all natural and have not been polished at all?
Men and women have the same pursuit of beauty, and it is obviously very unreasonable to take this as the only criterion.
Of course, we are not advocating plastic surgery here. After all, cosmetic surgery is risky, so we should be cautious about cosmetic surgery.
2. Comprehensive consideration of marriage object
As mentioned above, if you take cosmetic surgery as the only criterion for choosing a spouse, it is very superficial and stupid.
Beauty is beauty, like beauty. This is human nature, and there is nothing to be ashamed of.
Marriage itself needs comprehensive consideration in many aspects. It doesn't mean that girls who love beauty must worship money, girls who have plastic surgery must lose, and girls who look good must cheat. These inexplicable labels are problematic, not because of the existence of a certain case, and no one is.
The students taught by the same teacher are still divided into high and low levels, some are excellent talents, some are criminals, not to mention different people.
If a girl is only fine-tuning within her own economic ability, she can also explain from the side that she is a girl who is strict with herself and has a pursuit of life. Who doesn't want to be beautiful all the time?
On the other hand, if you spend a lot of loans and owe a lot of money to satisfy your vanity, you just want to exchange your beauty for a rich husband to fill the money gap, or you want to completely change your destiny and reach the peak of your life through plastic surgery, then your values and consumption views are obviously inappropriate. This is not a question of plastic surgery.
From the point of view of reproduction, being good-looking can change the genes of some offspring and give birth to better-looking children, while plastic surgery can only change yourself. What kind of genes or genes can't be inherited is a biological characteristic.
As long as the girl with plastic surgery can treat each other honestly and communicate sincerely, these minor problems are acceptable. If it is deliberately concealed, it is not advisable to improve her social status through plastic surgery.
Comprehensive consideration is never a unilateral factor, and excellent personality should not be troubled by plastic surgery.
Plastic surgery is also a beauty. Let's see if this boy understands you. A hundred flowers blossom, a broken jar has its own cover, and everyone loves it.
Resolutely oppose it! If it is because of injury or physical defects, plastic surgery makes you beautiful, I agree with both hands! If my parents didn't give themselves an identical plastic surgery when they were born, I would resolutely oppose it and scoff! Nowadays, some girls spend a lot of money on plastic surgery, some are cheated and some are rotten, and they deserve it! This and that are not good birds!
Your marriage partner's plastic surgery is nobody else's business. In social interaction and life and work, people don't rely on appearance, they are unreliable. They rely on people's knowledge, diligence and working ability, morality and courtesy, and on people's innate temperament, integrity and courage. It is a private matter for men to choose a woman as their wife. It's up to them. One can dress up.
If you can accept that your marriage partner is a real vase, I can accept her plastic surgery. It's hard to imagine that a year after you married a beautiful girl, the child she gave birth to was so strange that you were afraid.
In fact, since we have reached the point of talking about marriage, it shows that the power and charm of love are still huge, and we are full of yearning for marriage and family life. As for your lover, you must have been willing to accept everything about her, including her height, looks, knowledge, personality and so on. But most importantly, it is very important for both sides to be honest with each other without reservation or concealment.
It is undeniable that looks will be valued by the other party when talking about friends, but with the longer contact time, personality, talent and temperament can often break through the bad feelings of looks and win the favor of the other party, so they are willing to walk into the marriage hall with you. However, problems have arisen. If your appearance is purely a fake face, and you cheat your boyfriend with plastic surgery, then unless you are outstanding, you can still keep his heart, otherwise, it is unacceptable to cheat alone. This two-person world will not go so smoothly and happily!
First of all, since you are married, it means that you have known each other for a long time and believe that the other person is the person you want to protect in your life.
Second, for the question you asked, can we accept the cosmetic surgery of married people? I don't think whether we accept it or not has nothing to do with your situation It depends on whether you can accept it in your heart. If it is acceptable, it doesn't matter if you think it is. What if it's unacceptable? Then you need to find an opportunity to talk to her in depth, instead of asking if we can accept it here. I'm sure your date is not so stubborn. If it's a big deal, you and she should take a step back and make some adjustments without changing the original appearance. After all, everyone loves beauty. In addition, when we talk, we will advise you from many aspects, such as your parents, her relatives and friends, you and so on. After talking about marriage for so long, try to avoid quarreling over some unpleasant things.
Thirdly, from the questions you asked, we can see that you still have some concerns. At this time, you will find an opportunity to talk.
Fourth, a happy life is hard to come by. Have a good communication and wish you happiness. Have a baby with your wife early and grow old together.
It's acceptable.
Micro-shaping is acceptable. For example, cutting double eyelids and adjusting the corners of the eyes.
Forget it. Such as breast augmentation, sharpening chin and so on.
If they are all made before marriage, don't talk about these useless things. Why did you go early? How could you leave?
What happened to plastic surgery? Just to please you men, men always look at their faces. If that girl looks like a dinosaur, will she get married? Nowadays, many men like to go to the night show, not only because the girls there are beautiful, but also because some girls don't have the whole night show.
Think about it: during the day, after a boring day's work, when I come home, a wife as cute as Zhao or as sexy as Zhao smiles sweetly and tells you that dinner is ready. Let's eat. Do you still have the mind to ask here if you want to accept the cosmetic surgery of the object? Many stars and online celebrities became popular only after plastic surgery, such as kiku. Although everyone knows that she is a beautiful woman with a new avatar, it is undeniable that she has attracted the support of a large number of fans.
Therefore, what men can't accept is ugliness, not plastic surgery.
Do you like beautiful women?
I must like it. And plastic surgery is also because I like beauty.
Are you dissatisfied with any part of yourself?
A lot of people who do plastic surgery are because of this. They may feel inferior about it. Now they have a chance to change. Why did they refuse?
Of course, some people are simply obsessed with plastic surgery, and their five senses have been dismantled and reorganized. After all, this kind of person is a minority, which can be seen at a glance.
If you don't like such people, don't touch them
There is no need to discriminate. It is human nature to love beauty, and there is nothing wrong with pursuing beauty with your own money.
The person who loves you will tell you her past, her changes, and it's up to you to accept or not.
Share a short story here:
A friend of mine is born with a garlic nose and beautiful facial features. But because of this garlic nose, I felt inferior for 20 years One day I suggested that she have a plastic surgery to get rid of this trouble. At first, she also looked back and forth, fearing that her parents would disagree, that her boyfriend would not understand, and that her colleagues and friends would joke. But after finishing, my boyfriend joked that he was not good enough for her just like changing his girlfriend. Colleagues and friends are more excited and want my contact information.
If you really love someone, you should be generous and support her decision, not obstruct it. It is everyone's right to be beautiful, and we should not bear too many doubts and accusations.
See if you really love each other, their looks or their talents? If it is micro-plastic surgery, it is acceptable, such as cutting double eyelids and wearing braces. Make a semi-permanent eyebrow tattoo. It's easier to accept face-lifting needles or something. If it is that kind of rectification, it is unlikely to be accepted. I don't like that big face either. Actually, I can still see it Generally, people who like large-scale plastic surgery have a persistent psychology of becoming beautiful. And possessed. Very easy to get addicted to plastic surgery. Because a person is very insecure about his appearance, he will go to a large-scale plastic surgery. After the big plastic surgery, I just adapted to my expectations of my face. But it can only last for three or five years. Because people's aesthetics are changing. Double eyelids may be popular this year, and single eyelids may be next year. Then, in order to pursue fashion and cater to aesthetic needs, we have been pursuing charm. Maybe it's despair. I've had plastic surgery. And this is a kind of crazy behavior.
But if it's just micro-cutting double eyelids, wear a braces, this small micro-cutting. This small miniature lineup is still acceptable, and everyone has a love of beauty. You can honestly tell your partner about plastic surgery. It is acceptable for micro-integers.