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Accidentally injured by a knife. Does it hurt?

Burn yourself. Does it hurt?

Does it hurt to do surgery without anesthesia?

Compared with the birth of a child, these pains are powerless.

The pain of having a baby is beyond your imagination!

I especially remember the time when I was pregnant with Bauer. Every time I was in labor pains, I trembled with pain and sweated all the time, so I was too scared to cry. The pain lasts two minutes at a time, and then stops for one minute.

The whole abdomen and waist are full of intense pain, which seems to radiate to the whole body, reminding me of the ancient "waist cutting". And because it really hurts, I have to hold on to the railing of the bed desperately. When the nurse told me that there were still three or four hours before my fingers were fully opened, I felt that I had collapsed. I don't even know how I got through that night

On the second day after the baby was born, I saw all the small blood spots on my hands caused by the rupture of capillaries due to excessive force.

So how painful it is to have children, let's listen to what mothers who have given birth to children say.

@ Shanghai Maternity Liang Xianxian:

"My first child was born naturally, and it hurt for a day and a night, especially when the contractions were the most severe and I was about to give birth. I really don't know how to describe the pain. The baby was too big, so I was cut sideways and had almost 20 stitches. I want to die. "

@ Hangzhou Maternal Wang Xianglan:

"When Miyaguchi is almost fully open, I kneel on the ground and cry every time I feel pain. My husband came to help me, and my hand gripped him tightly. I unconsciously scratched the skin on his hand and lost a lot of blood. No way, it hurts too much. "

@ Nanning Maternity Party:

"I was born naturally, and the process of pulling the child out was very painful. My nails were broken and my hands were full of blood and I didn't feel it. Compared with contractions, contractions are nothing.

These are the real feelings of natural mothers.

Let's take a look at the voices of caesarean section mothers.

@ Ms. Peng Xiaoying from Jiangxi:

"I turned the profile control, the worst! After more than ten hours of labor pains, the palace mouth was fully opened, the child was born in the middle, and his head was stuck. He can't get out. He can only have a caesarean section immediately. I have experienced the pain of childbirth and cesarean section and can't bear to look back. I don't know how I survived. "

@ Ms. Hao Yun, Gansu:

"I am a second child, and the first child has a terrible pain during childbirth. My second child's fetal position is not correct, so I have to have a caesarean section. After the child came out, the doctor was afraid of intrauterine adhesions and kicked me out of bed six hours after the operation. Coupled with the contraction caused by breastfeeding, the contraction will implicate the knife edge, making me doubt my life every step. "

@ Suzhou Zero Lady Xiaofen:

"I am also a second child. The first child is delivered by caesarean section, and the second child is cut. The cesarean section incision was re-opened on the original incision. I have severe scars on my uterus and pelvic adhesions. After several hours of surgery, I couldn't say anything and passed out directly. "

Ms. Zhao Zishan from Changsha:

"I don't want to think about having children. When I have a baby, I intend to have a natural birth. Seeing that the seams are all open and the baby is coming out soon, the doctor suddenly said that there is no fetal heart. We have to take it out immediately. There's no time for anesthesia. In order to save the child, it was cut directly without anesthesia, and the blade was more than 20 centimeters long. "

No wonder everyone says that mothers are the greatest, because they have to bear not only the pain of pregnancy in October, but also the pain of childbirth and the hardship of feeding their children.

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I saw a hot news in Weibo the other day. It's about a documentary program called "One Born Every Minute" on British Radio 4. His wife Amy cried in pain because of childbirth. The husband who should be responsible for accompanying and encouraging his wife suddenly fainted to the ground and vomited after waking up.

Later, the tattooed gentleman smiled and said to his wife, "You have turned me into a weak person."

Although the real man eased the tense atmosphere with a humorous remark, I think his wife's painful experience of giving birth to a child may never be forgotten in her life. Not to mention the bloody scene of giving birth, his wife just scared him out by shouting pain.

You may laugh at this tattooed husband for being timid, but it is definitely not the case. The pain of a woman giving birth to a child is beyond imagination! Impressive!

And this kind of pain can only be experienced by women.

According to the Internet, the human body can only bear 45 (units) of pain at most. But in childbirth, a woman suffers as much as 57 (units), which is equivalent to 20 broken bones at the same time! On the pain scale of 12 in medical classification, the pain of giving birth is the twelfth.

In fact, the pain of giving birth to a child is not pain, but the heartache after giving birth is even more terrible.

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Yesterday, someone took a photo of "Flower Belly" in the Weibo. Many girls said it was terrible after reading it, and they didn't want to have children in the future. In the third trimester of pregnancy, the baby mother who was pregnant with twins burst her stomach because the fetus was too big, and the whole stomach was spent like watermelon skin.

When we say "flower belly", the medical term is "stretch marks".

Its formation is due to the gradual enlargement of pregnant uterus, the increase of glucocorticoid secreted by adrenal cortex during pregnancy, the decomposition of elastin, the denaturation of elastin, the increase of skin tension of pregnant women's abdominal wall, the rupture of elastic fiber layer of skin, showing a large number of purple or reddish irregular parallel and slightly concave stripes.

And if you have stretch marks when you are pregnant, it will be difficult to disappear for a lifetime, because it will only change from purple or reddish to white.

Dr. Wu from the Obstetrics and Gynecology Department of a hospital in Hangzhou said that she has been engaged in obstetrics and gynecology for 12 years and has never seen many pregnant women without stretch marks.

We say that giving birth to a child not only bears the pain of childbirth, but also bears the ugly consequences.

Many men steal food outside because women become ugly after giving birth, and this kind of pain is even more heartbreaking.

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The documentary "The Birth Gate" can be said to be a painful history of women's birth in China. Many people lose their desire to have children after watching it.

Because it's too painful for a woman to give birth.

This film tells the story of four parturients.

Xia Jinju, one of the parturients, is 33 years old. She was pregnant six times and gave birth twice. In the third caesarean section, the baby was born prematurely and had to have the uterus removed.

The father signed the letter trembling, and Xia Jinju repeatedly begged the doctor after being pushed down from the operating room: "Can you not cut the uterus?" I'm only 33 years old. Please work harder and I will stick to it. "

In the end, the doctor respected Xia Jinju for not removing her uterus. Later, she miraculously survived, but the amount of bleeding reached seven or eight thousand, which was equivalent to changing the whole body blood twice. The heart stopped beating for the first time and stopped beating for the second time. ...

Her husband didn't show up during the operation. Someone asked him why he didn't see him. Her family said he was in Guangdong and was busy with business.

In the matter of giving birth to a child, a woman's pain is not necessarily how painful she is physically when giving birth. Sometimes it is more painful that men regard women as tools for giving birth to children, but when women risk their lives to open the door to a new life, men ignore this pain.

Mingmen said, "We don't know how we will leave this world, but we should know how we came into this world."

What do you think about having children? Please leave a message and tell me ~