If you want to save your boyfriend effectively, you must first improve yourself. Look at your relationship honestly and evaluate whether your actions have a negative impact on his feelings for you. If you can't get his trust and respect, you must first restore these basic relationship elements. To make him like you, you need to admit past mistakes, get rid of bad habits and rebuild trust in the relationship. You can try to assure him that you will continue to improve your words and deeds, and at the same time, you will open your heart and listen carefully to his thoughts, suggestions and feelings.

Communicate more and resolve ambiguity.

On the basis of honesty, fairness and equality, having many frank conversations with your boyfriend is helpful to solve the ambiguity between them, especially for the problems existing in your relationship. Sometimes ambiguity may be caused by inaccurate language or unconscious behavior. Communication can make you clear about each other's expectations and how to improve your contact information, so as to better understand each other's inner world and needs. It is suggested to use supportive, encouraging and understanding language in conversation to avoid possible conflicts and injuries.

Regain sweet memories and increase communication and interaction.

While rebuilding trust and increasing communication, we can also relive the sweet memories of the past and increase more exchanges and interactions. This will arouse a lot of good memories, enhance the feelings between you, and is also very effective in relieving tension. You can find another hobby with him, take part in interesting activities or make some small plans for them. It is a very good model to regain the romance of first love and let you feel each other's feelings again. In a word, being proactive and finding similarities through pleasant communication, interaction and spiritual harmony will help to save lost feelings.