Whether from Guangzhou to Shenzhen, or new first-tier cities such as Wuhan and Zhengzhou, life pressure is relatively high. Working in the city, the monthly salary is fixed, except the daily rent and expenses, there is basically no money left. It also costs a lot of money to go home. When I get home, I need to buy a lot of gifts and clothes. I can't get it without a few thousand dollars. There are also lucky money, human feelings and so on, which are increasing every year. When I finally go home, my savings of tens of thousands of dollars a year will be spent. I dare not think about it, so I still don't go back.

Second: can't stand comparison.

Nowadays, the wind of keeping up with the joneses prevails in rural areas, which is the most unbearable. Even if you have no money, you will gnash your teeth and stomp home for the New Year, and you will have to endure spending more money. However, meeting these people who love to compare with others will make you lose face. Say hello to people in the village, for example. The cigarettes that others take out are all Chinese or something. You still have a box of cigarettes with more than ten dollars. Isn't it a little embarrassing? Besides, I will compare my house, my job and my money with yours. On the surface, I seem to be joking, but in fact, the situation is already very embarrassing. You say, what's the point of going home for the New Year?

Third: get married as soon as you get home.

There are more and more young people who are not in a hurry to get married and have children now. They pay more attention to exploring themselves, pursuing personal values, being loyal to their original intentions, and paying little attention to the eyes of the outside world. However, in the parents' generation, most parents don't think so. Therefore, for those young people who are not married, the most common nagging during the Chinese New Year is to get married early, while for young couples without children, the most common nagging is to urge them to give birth to the next generation early. Therefore, it is precisely because of this reason that many young people have resistance to going home for the New Year and don't want to go home for the New Year because they don't want to hear these nagging and urging.

Fourth: Chinese New Year is tasteless.

With the young people after 80s and 90s gradually becoming the mainstream of society, these only children themselves lack the feeling of a big family of brothers and sisters. In addition, the concept of commodity economy is deeply rooted in people's hearts, human feelings are indifferent, and relatives are less and less. Chinese New Year will naturally not have the taste of childhood.