There is a "bird face" mother on the Internet. She gave birth to a baby regardless of heredity. Now the appearance of children has caused controversy: is it maternal love or selfishness?
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There is a video on the Internet that is particularly popular. There is a couple standing in this video. The husband is very handsome, very handsome, while the wife has a congenital defect and a "bird face". The so-called "bird face" means that a woman's face has congenital defects, and her facial features are deformed due to congenital defects, which looks like a "bird face", which is quite different from ordinary people.
The wife still has a child in her arms. The child also inherited her mother's birth defects. Like her mother, he has a bird face. He looks at the camera innocently, and looks like his mother's "bird face", which makes people feel very distressed.
Dad looked at the child with a distressed face. He touched the child's face with his hand. But my mother still smiled and looked at the camera confidently. The "bird-faced" mother gave birth to a baby regardless of congenital inheritance, and now the appearance of the child has caused controversy. Everyone has said that this woman is born with birth defects and does not consider heredity. Is this maternal love or selfishness?
1. Is it maternal love or selfishness for women with birth defects to have children without hesitation?
1, from maternal love
There are always many unexpected accidents in life. Many couples get pregnant unexpectedly after taking contraceptive measures. Although this woman has birth defects, the arrival of this baby may be an accident for her. Maybe she had expected that the baby would inherit her birth defects. However, the brilliance of maternal love is naturally brought by women. When the baby is in the mother's belly, it becomes a part that the mother can't give up.
Therefore, even if the baby will be born with birth defects, the mother will insist on giving birth to her because of maternal love. She knew very well that they would pay a great price for the arrival of the child, but she still couldn't bear to give up the child. This is a mother's love for her children.
2、? Also comes from selfishness
Women were born with birth defects, but they gave birth to children without hesitation. Although it also comes from maternal love, it also comes from selfishness. Giving birth to children is every woman's innate ability. Most women fantasize about being mothers, so women are born with maternal brilliance.
Although this woman had birth defects, she didn't want to lose the opportunity to be a mother, so she gave birth to the child without hesitation. Even if the child will inherit her birth defects, she is willing to face them together, which also comes from a little selfishness of a woman.
Women do not hesitate to give birth to children with birth defects, which is maternal love and selfishness. So, what conditions do women need to have if they want to give birth to a child with birth defects?
Second, what are the conditions for giving birth to a child with birth defects?
1, good living environment.
Because children are born with congenital defects, if the family is poor, children will live without food when they are born, and children will be more discriminated against.
Therefore, when a husband and wife give birth to a child with congenital defects, they should have a good living environment and let the child live a good life, so that the child will not be discriminated against too much, and the child will grow up in a good living environment and become more and more optimistic.
2. There are conditions for children to receive good treatment.
Since the child is born with congenital defects, if both husband and wife do not have the conditions for the child to receive good treatment, this will only make the child more unfortunate. The child is born with defects. If a couple decides to give birth to him, they must have the conditions for the child to receive good treatment.
For example, Faye Wong's daughter Li Yan was born with birth defects. She was a baby with cleft lips, and it took Faye Wong and his wife millions to cure her. The cost of treating a child with congenital defects is very high. Only when both husband and wife have the conditions for the child to receive good treatment can they decide to give birth to a child with birth defects.
abstract
The "bird face" mother gave birth to a baby regardless of heredity, and now the child's appearance is controversial. What she did was maternal love and selfishness. If a woman has congenital defects and insists on giving birth to a child with congenital defects, the above two conditions must be met in order to make the child grow up better.