"She dares to do things that others can't imagine, and she has the courage to face her family and society. In this way, she can no longer be simply regarded as a woman who has crossed the river of men. Maybe she should become a symbol. Her poisonous tongue is a little crazy, but no one dares to call her crazy.

This person is Venus. Today, she has multiple identities: a famous dancer in China, a permanent guest or mentor of various variety shows, and the host of the famous talk show "Venus Show" ...

In the program, she has a clear love and hate, sharp words and rich life experience. These characteristics make her a controversial topic in the entertainment circle.

Venus's parents were introduced to get married and gave birth to Venus on 1967. He was a boy then.

Before she was three years old, Venus followed her mother to take a bath in the women's bathhouse. She feels natural and has no shyness. But when he was five or six years old, his father began to take him to the men's bathhouse to take a bath, but Venus felt very uncomfortable.

In primary school, Venus was selected by the school as a literary propaganda team. There are 20 children in the team, 18 are little girls, and only two are boys. Venus is one of them. Every time they perform, they need a lot of makeup. Venus feels very happy and doesn't mind the nickname "Kannika nimtragol" given to him by others.

At this time, Venus really wanted to be a girl, but at that time, he was still young and couldn't think of such a thing as "transsexuality" for the time being. He just often imagines that when it rains, a bolt of lightning hits him, and then suddenly becomes what he wants like on TV.

Because of his lovely personality and high dancing talent, when the army art troupe came to choose a candidate, it picked him at once.

Venus was only 9 years old that year, and the average age of the students in the group was 12 years old. Venus is the smallest among them, and its height is only 1 m 3. The army gave him the smallest military uniform, and his pants could be pulled to his neck.

After studying in the league for three years, Venus couldn't wait for the opportunity to perform on stage. Once, the hero of a play in the group was ill. The captain chose three substitutes, Venus and two other girls, and told them who could dance well and leave in two weeks.

After some practice, Venus' overall action is the strongest, but when she comes out, she straightens her hind legs. Compared with the two girls, Venus has no advantage in flexibility. In this regard, the captain said, give Venus a week, if he can pull his legs up, let him do it.

I didn't expect Venus to really do it, and finally succeeded in getting this performance opportunity. He finally stepped onto the stage of dreams.

Later, the teachers thought that Venus was of good quality and should go to school for further study, so they recommended him to go to the PLA Art College.

1984, graduated from Venus School. In the second year after graduation, she won the first prize in the first China Dance "Peach and Plum Cup" youth group, created a unique men's toe dance, and went to France to perform. Since then, Venus's acting career can be said to be a rising tide. After studying modern dance in new york for a period of time, Venus became the first China dancer in Chinese mainland to win a scholarship from the American Academy of Arts.

Venus met a classmate Eric when she was learning dance. The rent in new york is very expensive. Eric's girlfriend, Ken Bolin, asked to live with Venus, which could reduce the pressure on rent.

In this regard, Venus and Kemberlin said:

"Why don't we get married? You have a free place to live and I can get a green card. Isn't this the best of both worlds? "

Two days later, Venus and Kembolin registered, and Kembolin's boyfriend Eric became their witness.

"Bride" Kembolin completely regards "groom" Venus as her sister, and has never been close to men or women. For Venus, that marriage has only legal effect and has no meaning.

From 65438 to 0994, Venus gained a lot abroad. At this time, he resolutely returned to China for development.

His knowledge and experience in the west enabled him to convince himself not to care too much about the worldly vision, to follow his heart and become the person he wanted to be.

So Venus changed from "he" to "she" after making full preparations.

Even now, there are still many people who can't understand transsexuality, let alone more than 20 years ago. In addition, the medical conditions at that time were far from what they are now. Even so, Venus had to have an operation. He said:

"I gave my life to God. I have the final say! "

In order to completely remove male characteristics, Venus suffered a lot.

When removing the beard, it is necessary to cut the flesh from the mouth line and then remove the hair follicles one by one. This process cannot be anesthetized, because if anesthetized, the lips will swell up and affect the suture.

The operation lasted for four or five hours, after which Venus seemed to feel no pain.

During the third operation, Venus was numb in her left calf because of a medical accident, and this numbness lasted for two years.

For an excellent dancer, this news is undoubtedly a bolt from the blue. In this regard, Venus's mother cried and said:

"Venus dance is not good. She dances very well. Dance is her life. How can she stand such a blow! "

Later, through the unremitting efforts of her and the doctor, Venus's leg finally recovered and re-entered the stage with a new look.

After so many disasters, Venus thought:

"With so many deaths, I look down on many things. After regeneration, I suddenly found that it is a good thing for people to go to the hospital. Although there will definitely be pain, this kind of pain will naturally make you slow down the pace of life, think calmly and stop being tired. "

In 2000, when Venus was performing in Thailand, she suddenly received a phone call from her "wife" Ken Bolin, asking for a divorce from Venus. Because she was pregnant with her boyfriend's child and wanted to formally marry her real sweetheart.

After the divorce procedure, Venus stood alone on the road and laughed for a long time.

This time, she really bid farewell to her former male self.

On the plane, Venus met her "the only thrill" Hans.

Sometimes fate is so wonderful. Hans is a thrifty man. He usually travels in business class. Unfortunately, the business class of that plane has been sold out. In desperation, Hans made an exception and bought a first-class ticket. It was on this plane that he had a romantic encounter with Venus.

After getting off the plane, Hans couldn't restrain his love for Venus and took the initiative to contact her. They fell in love in this way, and then walked into the marriage hall.

Venus is really a great person. She has the courage to be reborn from nirvana that ordinary people can't imagine.

Bless her and Hans, and the three children they adopted together.