1. Li Ka-shing was trapped in the fog by boat. Li Ka-shing went out with cadres on Sunday, and when he came back, he was at a loss. Keep walking, it's not safe; Don't go, the company has important things to deal with. Everyone put forward two plans: (1), regardless of the fog, set sail at risk. (2) Wait until the fog clears. Li Ka-shing felt that neither opinion was the best way. He told people to put down the motorboat and check the situation around it. Suddenly, he found that there was no fog at 1 m above the water. So he asked the motorboat to lead the way. Comments: an inertial way of thinking-taking risks and giving up; Be good at breaking the inertia thinking (exploring and starting thinking), never give up until you reach your goal, and never give up lightly. Negroponte, director of the multimedia laboratory at the Massachusetts Institute of Technology, said: "The real talent is not how much knowledge he has learned, but whether he can take risks or not." People with "piety and perseverance" finally built an immortal pyramid on the Egyptian plain. Second, the Disabled Persons' Federation sent hearing AIDS in 2000, the Disabled Persons' Federation organized a team to send hearing AIDS to some children with hearing disabilities. After a year's follow-up, it is found that most children have been trained and entered ordinary schools like normal children. And there is a child who has the best hearing, but because the hearing aid has no battery, parents only know how to make money and don't pay attention to cultivating their children's hearing, and the children are disabled from now on. Comments: The Group recruits cadres for training every month, which is actually to give everyone a pair of glasses-to look at themselves and provide a "trainer"-to improve themselves. The method given by the leader is like giving hearing AIDS and glasses that can correct one's "vision", depending on the attitude of everyone to accept and use them. 3. Elephants in the Zoo On Sunday, A Xing and a college student went to visit the zoo, watching them walk freely in their cages and hooked the food in front of them with their noses. A Xing asked the new employee, "If you were an elephant, would you like to live in the zoo or in the wild?" . Elephants in the zoo don't worry about food, and even when they are sick, they have doctors. The competition in the wild is very cruel, even if you can't catch food, you will starve to death. "The next day, the college student said to A Xing," It doesn't matter what you say. I can't even sleep at night thinking about it. Although there is food and drink in the zoo, I can't do it so hard. Even if I starve in the wild, I can train my catching ability. "Enjoyment is very comfortable, but it has shrunk its original potential; The competition is fierce, but it is a catalyst for the growing stimulating ability. I finally think about it, or go to the wild. " 1, enjoy-enjoy is very comfortable, but there will be no gain. 2. Competition-competition is like a ball game. Running is very tiring, but physical fitness is also included. Comments: It's comfortable to enjoy, but it wastes your ability. Although the competition is hard, it is conducive to improving one's ability. Under the same difficult conditions, those who rely on external material security only despair, while those who rely on internal ability still have hope of survival in their hearts when they are penniless. Fourth, the king is riding a horse. There was a king who wanted to ride a horse very much. After learning riding from the master for a while, one day the master told him that his equestrian was very good. So the king organized several competitions, and the king lost every time. The king said angrily, "Why did you lie to me about my good equestrian?" Are you saying this to please me? "The master said," I didn't lie to you. When I was running in front, you tried to kiss my ass. "When you run in front, you always look back. What you care about is whether I have surpassed you. Your goal is not to pay attention to others. You can't always be afraid that others will overtake you on the way forward. You should concentrate on your equestrian. " Comments: If there is always a fear in your heart, your energy will focus on preventing others from overtaking you. If all your goals are wrong, how can you succeed? Five, the stone of Rome Three people heard that there was a lot of gold in Rome and invited them to go to Rome to look for gold. When they arrived in Rome, all they saw was stones everywhere. Three people were disappointed and asked the local people why there was no gold. The local people said, "There is no gold here, but if you take these stones back, they will become treasures." So the first man happily filled a bag full; The second person is dubious; The third man said angrily, "It's really in vain." He didn't take anything. When they got home, the two men with stones opened the box and said, Aha! All diamonds. Truth: Curious people are easy to succeed, because they always want to see if what others say is correct. They are willing to try another field or something they are not familiar with. In our life, many things are so ordinary that they can't be ordinary any more before they shine. Comments: Some people around us are often too familiar with him, and we often ignore what is worth cherishing in his words and deeds. Some people's suggestions are too simple for us to try, and some people ignore them because they are inconspicuous. In fact, extraordinary things often exist in familiarity, simplicity and obscurity. Six, two lions on the African grassland Two cubs, a male and a female, were born on the African grassland. The lion was bigger and stronger, and was sent to the zoo in China as a gift by the local people, while the lioness stayed on the grassland in Africa. The male lion in the zoo grew up. One day, he saw a female lion younger than himself flying on the grassland in Africa, clutching a rabbit and a sheep. He began to yearn for a free life on the grassland. When its proposal to catch game in a cage was rejected, it began to be negative: "Hum, I won't perform what you gave me to eat and drink." So it began to get lazy. After a long time, the number of tourists decreased, and the zoo could not afford it, so it had to be sent back to Africa. As soon as the lion saw the lioness, he admired her skill. The lioness said, "We envy you! I heard that you have three meals a day and a beautiful house in China. You don't know that sometimes we can't find anything to eat for a month. Our skills were trained in a harsh environment! " . After surviving, the lion thought he was a "human" and didn't want to eat the lioness's trophy, so he had to catch it himself. But unexpectedly, I couldn't catch up with a little rabbit, so I was hungry for a week. One day, the lioness asked her to catch a rhinoceros with her. In order to take care of her face, the lioness arranged for the lion to keep the tail and undertake the task of frontal attack. But when the lioness attacked in front, the rhinoceros was in a hurry and turned around and fled. Because the male lion had no catching skills, he was pierced by the rhinoceros horn and his front legs were bleeding profusely. Hunger, fear and pain, the dying lion sighed: It seems that the ability to survive is the greatest guarantee of his life. Comments: Excellent people and successful people are not because they experience fewer difficulties and pains than others, but because they have the blood of the strong. He can ask himself to try what others are afraid to do, and he can ask himself to say "let me do it" for what others are unwilling to do, so that he can do what others can't do. Everyone likes to enjoy, and everyone doesn't want to face the pain, but sometimes the result of enjoying makes us more ignorant and incompetent, and the result of bravely enduring the pain is that we are getting better and better. Seven, jilt Fei Biao there is a master darts with two disciples, to go through a place, need to guard against a secret passage. Under normal circumstances, it is enough to put two flying knives in the back of your ass. So, when I was ready, I set off. When the target appeared, the apprentice threw Fei Biao out from behind his ass in panic, but two of them flew out, which did not solve the problem. As soon as the apprentice touches the back of his ass, he has to run with it. When the master saw this, he immediately threw the flying knife at his waist and they won. It turns out that there are several Fei Biao around his waist. Comment: We need the ability to deal with emergencies. When you are uncertain, you might as well prepare several sets of plans. You are not a little goat, you are a little tiger. Once upon a time, a tigress was killed by a hunter, leaving a little tiger to be adopted by a group of goats. Little tiger and little goat play together. It doesn't know it is a tiger. It learns the movements and sounds of goats all day. But no matter how hard you try, this little tiger can't make a goat's Mei Mei sound. His companions laughed at him, and his performance was so rude. Little tiger feels terrible, but he doesn't know where he is wrong. One day, a roar came from outside the mountain and shook the world. The goats were scared away, and only the little tiger sat motionless on the hillside. Then came a big beast with brown sideburns and bright eyes. "Why here? Who are you? " Asked the beast. "I am a little goat." The little tiger buzzed to answer. You are a tiger. "no! I am a lamb. " "Come with me." The beast ordered. The little tiger came to the stream with the frightened beast. The little tiger found two identical animals in the water, but a big one and a small one. Little tiger asked curiously, "Who is in the water?" "The big one is me, the small one is yourself, and you are a little tiger. You should scream like I just did. " "No, no, I'm a lamb." The little goat groaned. The big tiger is angry: "you are a lamb, I want to eat you." Another earth-shattering roar. The big tiger ordered, "Come with me!" "Mei-"the lamb still barked, and it said timidly, "I don't want it!" "You will!" "Ow ..." "That's right! Speak louder, "the tiger trained by the beast finally made an earth-shattering roar." Comments: We are usually bound by the surrounding environment and sometimes lose ourselves. Only through strong and favorable training can we tap ourselves. So I am also great! ! ! Losing makes sense. A young man was fishing on the shore, and an old man was sitting next to him, also fishing. The two sat very close. Strangely, the old man has been fishing, but the young man has not harvested all day. He finally lost his temper and asked the old man, "We have the same bait and the same place. Why do you catch fish easily, but I get nothing? " The old man calmly replied, "when I was fishing, I only thought about my own skills and didn't know there were fish;" Not only did my hands not move, my eyes didn't blink, but my heart seemed so quiet that even the fish didn't know I existed and bit my bait; And your heart has been thinking, did the fish eat your bait? You keep your eyes on the fish. When you see a fish hooked, your heart is impatient, your mood is constantly changing, and your mood is irritable. It's strange that fish won't scare you away. How can you catch a fish? "Comments: Some people feel that their conditions are the same as others, even better than others. Why do they always fall behind others in evaluation? If a person can know his own shortcomings, he can win more; I only see the achievements of others, but I don't know the reasons behind my success. I have lost half; If you don't know how to review at this time and only know jealousy or self-pity, then you will lose! In the gold medal sprint team, people came to ask Xiao Zhang about his experience in winning the gold medal. He said, "Just like taking an exam, you can only think about how to do your homework well, not how many points you want to get. When the homework is finished, the scores will naturally come. People who are afraid of not getting high marks often fail. The same is true for long-distance running. As long as we are athletes, we need to study hard and try to run further. Run faster, you have the ability to run 1000 meters, so how difficult is it to win a gold medal in1000 meters? Let alone the 50-meter gold medal. Comments: In fact, the same is true for work. You have the ability to deal with difficult problems, the determination to work hard and the consciousness of taking the initiative to improve. Why not be reused? Any enterprise needs people with strong abilities. Eleven, the Swiss sense of rules 1, can not throw things: the Swiss sense of rules is like being taken out of the womb. There is a China who works in the United Nations. His children grew up in Switzerland. On one occasion, the China delegation and I went boating on Lake Geneva. After drinking coke, a member of the delegation threw the bottle into the lake, which is very common in China. However, the China child who grew up in Switzerland turned pale and told his mother that it seemed that the person who threw the coke bottle had committed a big crime. His awareness of rules is deeply rooted in different environments. 2. Have a sense of responsibility since childhood: the sense of rules comes from a sense of responsibility, which is actually the embodiment of a person's moral level. Once, an China working in Switzerland was walking in the park. When he went to the toilet, he found a boy of seven or eight years old, Dingdang. When China came out, he found his mother waiting outside. She said: "My child didn't come out for a long time after going in. Can you please go and have a look? " People in China went in and saw that the toilet was broken and could not be flushed. The child was in a hurry and had to flush the water out. He knows that he must flush with water when going to the toilet, otherwise he can't explain it to the people behind him. People with this high sense of social responsibility often consciously fulfill the rules, so it is easy for such people to establish mutual trust with others. Comments: In some public places, the higher the level, the more considerate people will be when it comes to littering and going to the toilet. For example, you can't eat buffet, and you can't wait to fill your stomach with food several times. When going to the toilet, I am afraid that others will get dirty, so I will squat on the toilet to facilitate myself and bring inconvenience to others. Such a selfish person can reveal that his quality is inconsistent with social morality in many other ways. 12. When the terrible Japanese National Asian Games ended in Hiroshima, Japan, there was not a piece of waste paper in the venue of 60,000 people. Newspapers all over the world published articles exclaiming "terrible Japanese nation!" It is precisely because there is no waste paper that the whole world is surprised. Comments: If a team can be responsible for its own actions, the strength of this team is infinite. 13. Opportunity to have a computer technician specializing in technology. One of his bosses will do whatever he is assigned to do. He is willing to do anything that others are unwilling to do. He will do what he can't do and take the initiative to do what he can. Just like a bullet leaving the chamber, he did it with great enthusiasm and the fastest speed. His enthusiasm greatly promoted the work of the company. He has been under great pressure, but because of his hard work, his ability can be described as "rapid progress". Two years later, he became a senior management cadre. A national gymnast returned to her hometown after retiring, and a children's activity center invited her to be a gymnastics coach in her spare time. She went there twice, but found it too time-consuming. She also thinks that such unconditional payment is "impossible" and "fall in price". Five years later, her gymnastics ability declined. One year, a sports school in the province recruited a gymnastics coach, and she failed to apply. To her surprise, a junior colleague she knew in the original transportation team was hired. She has not only learned gymnastics now, but also added some events that she didn't know before. The teacher has been an amateur coach for seven years, and has not received any real income in these seven years, but she has the opportunity to exercise her gymnastics function and practice her superb skills. Comment: We usually do things in a "race". The more things you do, the harder you work and the faster you run, but running too fast is tiring, so many people don't want to. Doing more things requires not only intelligence but also physical strength, but our physical strength and ability are fully trained. It means "can't be changed", but let your intelligence and physical strength get exercise. One year's progress is equivalent to the previous years' harvest. This is to prolong your life for several years, but such treatment can only be enjoyed by hardworking people. I'll tell you another story: a man was walking in the forest and suddenly met a hungry tiger. The tiger roared and jumped up. He immediately ran away with the greatest strength and fastest speed in his life, but the tiger followed him. He kept running and running, and finally he was pushed to the edge of the cliff by the tiger. Standing on the edge of the cliff, he thought, "It's better to jump into the cliff than to be caught by a tiger and dismembered alive. Maybe there is still a chance." He jumped into the cliff and was very lucky to get stuck in a tree, which was a plum tree growing on the edge of the cliff and full of plums. Just as he was happy, he heard a huge roar from the depths of the cliff, and he looked down at the bottom of the cliff. It turned out that a fierce lion was looking up at him. The lion's voice made him tremble, but then he thought, "The lion and the tiger are both the same beasts, and they eat the same things." No sooner had he put down his mind than he heard another voice. He looked carefully and saw that two mice, one black and one white, were biting the trunk of the plum tree. He panicked at first, but he was relieved immediately. He thought, "it's better to be killed by a mouse than by a lion." He felt a little hungry after he calmed down. When he saw that the plums were just right, he picked some and began to eat. He felt that he had never eaten such delicious plums in his life, so he found a triangular branch to rest. He thought, "since you will die sooner or later, you might as well have a good sleep before you die!" " "He fell asleep in the tree. When he woke up, he found that the black and white mouse was gone, and so were the tiger and lion. He climbed the cliff carefully along the branches and finally got out of danger. It turned out that while he was sleeping, the hungry tiger couldn't help it and finally roared and jumped off the cliff. When the black and white mouse heard the tiger's roar, it ran away in panic. The tiger who jumped off the cliff and the lion under the cliff fought fiercely, and both of them escaped with injuries. From the moment we were born, suffering was like a hungry tiger, chasing us until we died, like a fierce lion, waiting at the end of the cliff, alternating day and night, like a black and white mouse, constantly biting the tree of life where we temporarily lived, and one day it will fall into the lion's mouth. Now that we know that the worst scene in life is death, the only way is to enjoy the sweet fruit on the tree safely, and then sleep peacefully and enjoy every minute of life. If you have just fallen out with your partner or family because of sesame and mung beans, and you are still smoking, please look at the clear sky and misty white clouds. In fact, you missed another beautiful day! Although some friends don't contact you often, they will occasionally send you an email, which may be some jokes, warm sketches or small games, indicating that they have been caring about you, and they cherish your friendship. So, always be kind! Put your feet on the road! Do good deeds and cherish fate, and you will be blessed.