Stars are a normal social phenomenon. Idolatry is a reflection of the physiological and psychological process in which teenagers grow from children to adults. Idolization is also the psychological needs and emotional catharsis of the majority of teenagers. Adolescence is an important transition period of physiology and psychology, and idolatry is the result of social induction. Some "star" merchants and brokers use various means to package "stars" in order to pursue the best interests. These "stars" were pushed down from above to meet the psychological needs of teenagers. Some children can't stand the temptation and have various deviations. Idol worship is the experience of teenagers' pursuit of life and an important process of life. Teenagers in every era have their own ideals, goals and idols in their hearts, and so does idolization at present. Therefore, idolization and idolatry should not be completely opposed, and the problem should not be allowed to drift, but should be actively guided and rationalized. Many opponents think that idolization is a kind of blind and childish performance, which will waste time and life, increase the burden on families and cause unnecessary contradictions, so it is meaningless. They even went to a negative extreme, leading to illegal crimes, and all these reasons are just ridiculous reasons such as handsome or beautiful stars, so they opposed idolization. Supporters believe that idolization is beneficial, which can effectively motivate themselves, set lofty goals, set an example for learning, and also learn the importance of paying from the uneven growth path of stars. They also have qualities worth learning and developing, so they choose to support idolization. For us students, learning is naturally the first priority, but in it, we can really set a bright example for ourselves and make ourselves more motivated. What kind of star we choose as an example will determine whether it is beneficial or not. Let us worship not only the beautiful appearance, but also the inner temperament and quality. Only in this way can we motivate our middle school students not to deviate, not to be discouraged, and to advance faster and better. Idyllization can be seen everywhere in our lives. As long as there are stars, there are groupies. In fact, idolization is a very normal phenomenon. Everyone has different views on idolatry. Some people think idolatry is a boring behavior; Some people think that idolization can cultivate their own interests, set lofty goals and motivate themselves. Both views are too absolute. Idyllization will play a positive role if it is appropriate, but it will only be counterproductive if it is not appropriate. There are many examples of idolatry in life: Juan Lin, a 28-year-old woman from Lanzhou City, Gansu Province, is infatuated with Andy Lau, which leads to her ruin. In order for Juan Lin to meet his idol in Hongkong on April 18, Lin's father has been trying to pay for his daughter's trip recently. Father Lin went to a hospital in Lanzhou the day before yesterday to discuss selling kidneys with doctors. The doctor pointed out that it is illegal to buy and sell human organs privately, so the old man had to give up. As the Lins are still unable to make up the travel expenses, Juan Lin may be forced to cancel his plan to go to Hong Kong. I have been chasing Andy Lau blindly since 16 years old. Juan Lin, who neglected his studies and began to be silent from 12, told CCTV reporters: "My situation is not the same as that of ordinary groupies, because my love for Andy Lau is not just obsession and persistence, but at the expense of youth." Juan Lin's behavior is a typical blind worship. A British study shows that celebrity worship may play an important role in personal growth. Researchers believe that those teenage groupies can usually adjust their emotions well and have a good popularity, because their interest in celebrities can have a positive impact on the growth and communication of their teenagers. Therefore, idolatry also has two sides. It's good for us to catch up with the right one, while chasing the wrong one is tantamount to wasting time, money, feelings and life. So we need to choose idols worthy of our worship, and we can't blindly worship them. No one is perfect, so don't think that a star is worthy of being regarded as a god because of its advantages; There must be a teacher for a threesome, and there are actually many people around us who deserve our worship. We don't have to learn from others by idolizing. In a word, we should accept everything critically and don't take idolization too absolutely. Among contemporary middle school students, the phenomenon of "groupies" is widespread, and most movie stars and singers are idols in students' minds. Idyllization has also become a fashion for boys and girls, forming a huge idol team. The year before last, civilian idols rose. Super Girl and My Program are the most popular talent show and the favorite programs of students. Some boys and girls voted for it through short messages, to the point of blind worship and fanaticism. Every day, I am full of stars. During the break after school, I have been talking to my classmates about those stars. I fantasize that I can be friends with my favorite star. Often insomnia, psychological imbalance, not listening carefully in class. This will greatly affect my normal study and life, and sometimes even lead to the serious consequences of idolized teenagers committing suicide. Now there are some "groupies" who imitate their idols and the way they talk and walk. Some students spend their parents' pocket money on the same clothes and shoes as the stars and pay too much attention to the stars. Faced with this situation, some parents simply reprimand and beat and scold, without giving their children better psychological persuasion education. In fact, idolization is not all bad. We set them as our idols because they have something we can learn from. For example, we can learn from the stars their pursuit of art and serious attitude towards their work, not just how brilliant they are on the stage. The bitterness behind the stars is unacceptable to us ordinary people. If we put some qualities worth learning in their studies, there would not be so many star suicides. Some teenagers' lack of judgment leads to fanatical idolatry, but what parents and teachers should do is to care about teenagers' mental health, strive to cultivate their psychological quality and guide them to idolatry healthily. For idolization, there must be ideological differences between the two generations. The psychological situation of adolescent children is often very complicated. On the one hand, they are eager for peer recognition, on the other hand, they need to form self-confirmation, and idolization can meet the psychological requirements of children in these two aspects. Idolatry is a transitional demand and symbolic behavior of adolescence. To some extent, idolization is meaningful for children's growth. Parents should understand that there is no need to strictly prohibit idolization as a "heinous" bad thing. Adolescent children need guidance, especially in idolatry. Zhang Xiaobo, a consultant from Suzhou University School of Management, believes that children should be respected and understood. In the process of understanding idols with children, the role of idols should be tapped, so that the power of idols can inspire children to grow and progress. As parents, they can guide their children to grow up healthily in idolization. As a groupie, you must be self-disciplined first. It is right to like an actor, but it should be limited and not too extreme. Liking stars is just an ornament in a long life, not the whole of life. We should learn some excellent qualities from stars. We should face life more healthily and rationally and let ourselves know that there are still many things to do in life. Learning is very important for students. In order to realize his daughter's idol dream, Yang gave up everything and wrote a suicide note of 12 pages before jumping into the sea to commit suicide. The content accuses Andy Lau of being heartless, and he can't spend less time meeting his idol daughter alone for 12 years and get her signature. Finally, he even protested directly with death. "It was you Andy Lau who forced me to die and forced this family to have an accident, which caused the tragedy." There were many media reports last year that the father was willing to sell his kidney to fulfill his daughter's dream of seeing Andy Lau. Now we have the results. However, this result is too surprising and regrettable: when the fans saw Andy Lau, the father threatened to jump into the sea to commit suicide because Andy Lau didn't arrange enough time to see his daughter privately, and died unfortunately-is there a worse result? If there is a trace of romance in the early media coverage of this incident, then this ending is enough to be called a tragedy. Things didn't develop as we imagined: spoony fans finally met their idols and spent the rest of their lives happily. Idolization drives away people's lives, and it is the idolized father who dies. This extreme behavior makes people feel heavy. There seems to be no reason to put any responsibility on Andy Lau. He is just a passive receiver, a superstar packaged by business and media, or he is just an entertainment product, and the degree of being chased determines his value. Stars always want to welcome more applause and flowers, but I'm afraid they will also be afraid of this 28-year-old infatuated woman who has been idolized 12 years. Many responsible stars will remind their fans to pay attention to safety when they hold concerts, meetings and may cause confusion. Andy Lau has always been a model in this respect, and she is also conscientious to this female fan. So, who is the cause of death of the female fan father? Father committed suicide because Andy Lau didn't arrange enough private time to meet his daughter. Can't say this request is unreasonable. After all, my daughter likes Andy Lau for so long. After all, it takes twelve years to realize her wish. A few minutes or hours with her idol is not only her happiness, but also her father's comfort. This is a kind of love that only her father can have. It is also difficult to find enough support for this requirement. How much private time is enough, where is the bottom line and scale, how to make those fanatical and excessive emotions safely consume and find a stable platform. The key to the problem lies not in the outside world, but in how the parties grasp their own mentality. It was my father who finally lost his balance. He ruined the story ending that should have ended happily with such an extreme gesture. Instead of accusing Andy Lau, he accused his daughter of endless nightmares for 12 years, which brought torture to the whole family, sold her house, lost her job, and kept the center of her life on a popular idol and the dream lover of countless women. This meaningless persistence eventually led to this human tragedy. I am sad and angry about his misfortune. I hope this tragedy is only a case and will never happen again. Most people have the psychology of celebrity and star worship, which is normal. The success of celebrities and stars in a certain field can encourage people, especially teenagers, to learn from them. To some extent, idolization is also a kind of motivation to motivate yourself to make progress. But unrestrained idolatry is a dangerous behavior, and it is easy for people to indulge in fantasy. Today, with the explosion of entertainment information, entertainment figures have become the most noticeable objects. Society and related industries should think about the entertainment phenomenon and people's entertainment psychology, and don't let idolization become a disease.

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