How to see clearly your position in each other's hearts? Love is actually a matter for two people, not a one-man show. If you touch yourself blindly, it will only make your feelings stagnate. So, how do you view your position in each other's hearts?

How can I see my position in the other person's mind 1 1 and the speed of reply?

As the old saying goes, the second is true love.

Girls often say that they don't mind the clumsiness of boys, but care more about the sincerity of attitude.

The speed of reply is the most telling thing in chat.

The speed of her reply shows how important you are in her mind.

If her reply time is slow, it probably means that she is not interested in you.

If this happens only occasionally, it means that she may be busy.

Don't care too much at this time, after all, everyone is busy.

Even if I forget to reply to you, I will politely explain why, and I will explain to you in advance if I stop the conversation.

2, the number of words to reply

Many brothers will be at a loss when faced with girls' perfunctory "hmm", "oh" and "ah"

If this happens, it means that she is not interested in this topic, or her mind is not here.

Start a new topic again and see if the other person can take it.

If a girl often does this, it means that her window is not open, and we can change to a new target.

For a girl who has no interest in you at all, the more you talk, the more alienated you become.

3. Number of responses

If the girl you like replies to a series of messages, that's really good news for you.

In the chat, according to the important indicator of interest, the more replies, it means that she has a good impression on you.

When girls respond positively to you, you must strike while the iron is hot and invite them to meet.

Many brothers are indifferent to such an opportunity and waste a good opportunity.

4, the topic of adhesion

Topic cohesion refers to the closeness of the content when you chat.

If you bring up every topic, girls always respond positively and enthusiastically.

And it will be extended on this topic, indicating that her mind is on you.

On the contrary, if you insist on the topic all the time, it is suggested to pause the chat rhythm.

Loose chat can easily consume a person's interest and make the other person feel that "this person and I can't talk properly."

Here, I suggest that we can find some topics with strong adhesion, such as hobbies, childhood memories, emotional experiences and so on.

For example:

For example, when you were chatting, you talked about your recent emotional state. As a result, the other party replied, "Haha, I'm going to take a shower. I'll talk again when I'm free. "

You will find that every time, she likes to cut off the chat between you in this way.

This has actually explained everything, so I will not consider this person for the time being.

5. Provide a topic and be willing to share your feelings.

If a girl is willing to share some joys and sorrows with you, it means that you occupy an important position in her mind.

In love, it is often the details that determine success or failure, so pay attention to observation and carefully understand each other's reactions.

Give a simple conversation case to illustrate how to fill in details and feelings in a chat:

Recipient: What are you doing?

Me: At work.

This conversation is very dry.

If we want to make this conversation more emotional and erotic, we might as well add some details. For example, you can say:

"I'm working on a design and have been working overtime for several days. I hope I can find a job smoothly. Please pray for me quickly. "

Then this kind of dialogue will be much richer.

6. Will you ask many questions?

Every time I chat, I will mention a golden interest indicator in the chat-"Do you have a girlfriend?"

If a girl asks this question, it means that there is a play between you.

Therefore, in chatting, we must ponder the potential communication behind girls asking this question.

If you are not careful, these potential exchanges will slip away.

Many straight women don't beat around the bush. If she is interested in you, she will start "auditing"

Ask you, "What are you doing? Haven't finished the work yet? Are you tired today? "

All these show that she wants to know everything about you and walk into your world.

This constant demand for value shows that your attraction to her has reached a certain level, and you can consider upgrading your relationship.

Of course, these are very basic ways to distinguish, and more often, specific problems need to be analyzed.

How to see your position in the other person's mind 2. First, I am willing to listen to your opinion before making a decision. If he always refuses to listen or doesn't even bother to mention it, then you are insignificant in his mind. This decision ranges from buying a house to inviting friends to dinner at night. The habit of falling in love is very important, which is related to your life.

Second, after an accidental minor injury, such as falling on the air, or accidentally cutting his hand, if a man sees it, he will care very much. What matters is his performance in two or three days. Will he still comfort you and sympathize with you? If the injury doesn't heal and you are asked to help, then his love is more in words than in heart.

The third is the performance of the mobile phone before the battery is dead. If he didn't tell you where he was before the battery died, you can rest assured, or he never thought about you. You didn't sleep well all night. Then such a man is not worth loving!

The fourth is the attitude towards the ex-girlfriend. Saying she can in front of you only means that he thinks you are not as good as his ex-girlfriend.

The fifth is the attitude towards parents. If he sees your parents always keep a straight face, it means he doesn't like you. Just have a look. He likes you and loves you, from smiling at your parents to being caring and attentive, and more caring than his own parents.

Sixth, care about your health. If you meet every day, even ask a question "drink more water, be careful of catching a cold!" " "Without saying a word, it only means that he doesn't love you enough.

Seventh, it's ugly to see if he still likes you. That is to say, make yourself a little sloppy, say that you are ill once, and see if he is far away or taking care of him. Hehe, only when you are sick.

How to see your position in the other person's heart 3. Test your position in each other's hearts.

1. When I introduce you to new friends, I always hug your waist gently, instead of smoking on my waist, standing aside and pointing with my fingers.

Many men don't care about their girlfriends. They think their girlfriends are dispensable and don't value them. Therefore, when meeting some new friends, there is no idea to introduce to you at all, even if there is such an idea, it is casual. When meeting some new friends, women will be a little timid and afraid of leaving a bad impression on their friends. Therefore, at this time, the man who loves you will gently hug your waist, which will not only make you feel very safe, but also feel that you have integrated into his life and the world.

I think yours is the best.

At ordinary times, he will laugh at you for having no chest or ass, and he will point to foreign mm and say, Look at others, that's what you look like. When you feel depressed because of his words and think that women are trying to please themselves, you have the idea of plastic surgery. You seriously tell him that many people go for breast augmentation and you want to go. He will be very angry and say, Don't be silly, it's so good now. Congratulations, you have found a man who really loves you, and he puts you in a very important position in his heart. A man who really loves you will think that yours is the best. Even if you are not tall, thin or handsome, he is still crazy about you.

3. Eat all the food you cooked.

If a woman loves a man, she will risk becoming a yellow-faced woman, and will still go into the kitchen often for him, bringing out plates of famous works just to see a little smile on your face. However, some men ignore your hard work and sweat and belittle you every time they cook. The man who really cares about you, no matter what you cook, he says it's delicious. Occasionally: This is too salty. Still, I ate them all. Until one time a guest came to your house and you made a big table. The guest said, do you seldom cook? You finally understand: in fact, what you cook is not delicious.

Test that the other person likes you in one sentence.

1, take the initiative to tease and ask each other to see if they will answer.

If the other party picks up or picks up many times, it is still very interesting, and making an appointment is even more interesting. Don't feel good about yourself if you don't even return to WeChat.

2. Do you like my type?

If a person likes you, there will be a place for you in his heart. So you can find out each other's thoughts in a simple sentence. You can ask him directly, do you like my type? If the other person cares about you, he will answer directly. If the other person doesn't mean this, he will sincerely refuse you, or treat it as a joke.

3. Do you have someone you like?

Sometimes when you get along with others, you should pay attention to his expression and tone. If the other person loves you, his eyes will not lie. You can look at him affectionately and ask, "Do you have someone you like?" If he understands what you mean, he will definitely answer you politely. He looks at you affectionately and says yes. But if he doesn't like you, his eyes are erratic.