Straight ball love
It means that everything you do in love is expressed directly, without beating around the bush or doubting each other, otherwise both parties in love will be very tired. Life is too stressful now. If two people always communicate through hints and guesses in the process of falling in love, they will feel tired and internal friction after a long time, especially for girls who have too many worries, they may be sad, anxious and insomnia. This is not good. Love itself is a very happy and happy thing, so why not talk about a straight ball love? Four skills of straight ball love: the core point: describe the facts+my feelings+what I hope you do. This formula is really unique and will always convince ta.
1. Speak out if you don't understand each other's behavior, express your feelings and needs, but don't blame.
Why did you ignore me today? Can you tell me what you are busy with? I miss you very much. Consider the baby's feelings when eating. I'm a little sad that you didn't ask me what to eat today. Why don't you hold my hand when shopping? I'm a little sad. I want you to hold my hand and watch your circle of friends go out to play, but why don't you invite me? Playing black games with teammates of the opposite sex again I don't spend that much time with my teammates. True love is not a game, but an inner communication between two people. We should communicate more and understand more.
2. Express your needs and ideas directly.
I'm not feeling well today. Can you stay with me? Honey, I'm in a bad mood today. Can you give me a hug? Honey, I've been very busy at work recently. Can you help me? Honey, I'm so hungry. Can I eat hot pot today? People who really love you will understand your anxiety, share it for you and try their best to satisfy you.
3. More direct expression of love will make two people more loving.
Dear, I feel very happy to be with you every day. You cook delicious food. I am very happy every time I eat your cooking. Every day when we eat together, it is my happiest moment. Honey, you are really great. It's very thoughtful of you to help me buy girls' products. It's good to have you.
4. If you want the other person to change and become better, you should actively communicate, pay attention to the way you speak and avoid accusations.
Honey, I saw a straight ball support for love. I feel good. Let's do the same in the future. Honey, you played games for half a day today and didn't accompany me. I want to stay with you for a while. I hope we will be healthier in the future. Honey, you should stay up less, pay attention to hygiene and have a good meal, okay? People who love you will naturally change for you, but it is not forced, but to make both of them feel comfortable.
Many people's love is gradually eroded by consumption. Don't consume love and heart in suspicion and imagination, and start a straight-ball love affair with the person you love.