A person's every move is actually related to his personality. Even if he tells a lie or does something he doesn't want to do, he will still reveal his true personality.
A truly outstanding person is not that he is superior to others and has special abilities, but that he can see his own habits clearly and change his bad habits. Extreme self-discipline can shape a person's more perfect image and make him more promising.
Some people are extroverted by nature, while others are introverted. People who are honest and self-abased are often introverted, not good at communicating with others, and even afraid of being bullied by acquaintances, so they just "bear it again" and remain silent.
If you are an honest person with low self-esteem, I suggest you do these four things well and become more and more confident.
"There is a golden house in the book, and there is Yan Ruyu in the book." No matter when you study hard, there is nothing wrong with it. A person is very inferior. In fact, he is not smart enough. He is not sure about doing it, nor is he capable of doing it. Even if he went out for a ride, he felt that he would miss the train and was not sure whether he could have a pleasant journey.
One should try to read books in any field he wants to develop. Don't deal with others when reading, but you can turn other people's wisdom into your own ability, which is dealing with others in disguise. When you know a certain field like the back of your hand and start working in a certain field, you will feel like a duck to water and have a sense of deja vu.
An honest man, if he wants to change his destiny, reading is very important. When others bully you, you secretly cheer. When you have accumulated enough strength, you can choose to jump out of the existing life circle and work circle, and your life will be "impressed" by others.
If you are honest and have low self-esteem, it is also an effective way to change your destiny and enhance your self-confidence by reading. Everything is "Practice makes perfect". The stronger your ability to grasp your destiny, the more you can get rid of the status quo.
"Mashan was ridden and people were bullied." Be an honest man, if you dare not speak, others will bully you. For example, at work, everything others do is paid. If you do it honestly, it will always be yours. If you do something wrong, others will put the blame on you. Others can get off work on time, but you work overtime every day. In the end, you are still the most useless person in the unit.
Smart and honest people will strive to overcome their inner inferiority and have a sharp edge physically. Sometimes, being a man is just being a hedgehog. If others come near, give them some color to see see. Some people, it doesn't matter whether you refuse them or scold them. For example, a person with a kind face and a black face is polite to you on the surface, but he is calculating interests behind it; If you give a "punch" to a person who violates the law and discipline, you actually saved him.
Honest and self-abased people should learn to refuse. They should not be too honest. They should politely refuse unreasonable demands from others. For a while, others will make friends with you. After a long time, you will live more freely. Do your job well, help others appropriately, and don't do "substitute" things.
Everyone has his own advantages. Honest and self-abased people also have advantages, but they don't give full play to them. Learn to "foster strengths and avoid weaknesses", and a person will be more brilliant. There are some shortcomings that you can't change no matter how hard you try. It is better to take the initiative to avoid and make a detour. For example, if a cripple can't change all his life, then don't try to "plastic", but try to find his own position.
My classmate Li Zilai is very honest when he studies. Even if a female classmate hits him, he doesn't dare to make a sound. He is obviously a man, but he often cries while hiding and is heartbroken. It's really "hate iron and not produce".
Li Zilai is now a technician in a shoe factory with an annual salary of more than 200,000. I asked him, "How did you succeed in your counterattack?" He said: "When I was in college, I went to several shoe factories to do summer jobs. After graduating from college, I volunteered to go to the shoe factory to do technical work, and later I succeeded. "
If Gigi Lai comes, is it a simple and successful way? He can't tell for sure. Careful analysis shows that he is introverted and honest, but only found a "stage" in technical posts. Doing technical work, rarely dealing with others, is also very fulfilling.
Honest and self-abased people are suitable for technical, scientific research and psychological analysis. A good stage can make you stronger. Good grades can make you confident.
"In this society, few people want you to live well, but your parents and lovers definitely want you to live better." No matter how you get along, you will feel much better if you communicate with your family and gain everyone's trust and understanding.
Many people come home glumly every day, but they still don't say a word when they get home. As a result, the family atmosphere was awkward and the family could not understand each other. When they started talking, they just quarreled.
If you are honest and have low self-esteem, then you can fully trust your family and open your heart to everyone. The encouragement of your family is a ray of sunshine in your heart, which makes you live with confidence. Especially when you fail in life, you will not be more pessimistic when you hear encouragement.
There is a Spanish proverb: "Self-knowledge is the beginning of self-improvement." Know your own strength, choose the right direction, then study hard, improve your own ability, develop your own advantages and get the support of your family, and you will become a good person.
No one is perfect and no one will be perfect. People who can achieve great things never do it overnight, but start from changing their living habits and starting from small things.
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