The article is a bit long, from the initial understanding-seeing all kinds of comments-replying to comments to sort out the reasons-helpless to write an article-looking for information-stagnation-reflecting on writing-to complete. It takes almost a month (and of course there is time for preparing for the exam). At present, this is an article that I have spent the most effort on, so it will be very sad to see it after being stolen.
I am also ready to be scolded by two schools, so this article is not for anyone, and I am also a candidate when I want to write it. The purpose of my article at the beginning is to analyze the positions and angles of two people, but my purpose now is just to make people think from the perspective of two parties and other netizens who have been sprayed, and stop attacking others because of the pressure.
The following is what I started writing on July 9, 2020.
I'm really sorry, I can't help but take up my review time to write such an article.
Recently, I was screened by the bullying incident of AOA captain Shen Zhimin. I want to express my personal opinion. If you really want to scold me, please get out. I hope the rest of the readers can read my article carefully, thank you.
Before that, I'd better identify myself. I haven't been in contact with the Korean circle for a long time, it should be less than eight months. Please forgive me. I am a pure voice fan and have only seen some clips of variety shows. Sure, what do I want to say? I just want to say that there may be something I don't understand and the analysis is inappropriate. Please tell me maliciously. Please don't scold me. Thank you.
I have only known AOA for two or three months. After this incident, I got to know Min 'e and Zhi Min, who are members of our team who know each other very well. Of course, I don't know much about other members except them now.
Why do you explain that I am stripped of powder and wisdom? It's really not that I am in a hurry to get rid of the relationship, but that I am really afraid of being scolded. I know she has a bad personality, but is it wrong to like her work?
Well, then, let's get down to business. My article is analyzed from their perspective. It happens that I have experienced both of them (of course, I understand. If there are any mistakes, please point them out and I will correct them.
In terms of age, let's talk about Shen Zhimin first.
I really love her rap, the kind that I won't get tired of riding for months. I really, really like the song "If you were me" sung with Yu-Na Seo, and brushed "Travel Notes of Flowers" by the way.
Well, you can say that she has moral problems, that she is not very clever, and that she is childish, but she really has no intention. I can understand that some netizens say that her moral character is not good, but I can't understand that she has a plan. I didn't protect her, really, she was probably the most thoughtless person in the team.
Ok, assuming that Shen Zhimin is a scheming woman, there is no point in being a bad face on the show. In my impression, a scheming woman won't be easily found wrong, not to mention threatening to commit suicide with a knife in the presence of the company and everyone, and it doesn't look like a thoughtful and scheming woman.
Bullying in the team can only show that she suppressed precious moths as a captain, but it can't prove that a person has a heart.
The second problem is family. Obviously, Zhimin's family is much better than Min 'e's. Her mother tricked her into going to Shanghai to study for two years. I remember that she said that her Chinese was not good and she only knew some phrases. Two years can't be just a few words, unless someone communicates with her in other languages, and she can't speak Chinese in China. So I think it should be an international school. As we all know, the tuition fees of international schools are exorbitant, so Ji Min's family should be good. Then it must have formed a typical miss character who doesn't want consequences, and I think she should have a sense of superiority because of her family conditions in the team.
Of course, in the program, Ji Min introduced herself in fluent Chinese. Her poor Chinese may be just modesty.
If you are extremely patriotic, don't look. I think many people will scold me that the exemption amount is limited, but I am really speechless about this kind of thing. However, it did happen. Unlike the previous two feuds, hating and insulting China is purely a rumor, because this rumor almost stopped all her activities.
Qiu is from China, and China netizens can spread rumors and insult China?
I really don't understand the benefits of xxx insulting China. You're so willing to take down an artist?
Having said that, I remembered Shen Zhimin's "insulting China" incident. (First of all, I don't want to wash her white. After all, whoever washes her white is black. ) I think netizens in China are really sensitive, and they can see xxx's insulting remarks every day, as if being a foreigner would insult China? Haven't you spoken ill of other countries? Shen Zhimin first said it on a Korean program. This program has a very special place: this program was bought in Korea, and the entry of SNL Variety Baidu is written like this.
Focus: adult funny programs, political satire, popular stars, 19, no humor.
Whether there is a script or not, Shen Zhimin is Korean, not China. Korea is her home, and Shen Zhimin is a member of the Korean women's group. How much she loves China, she must eat first, and then eat. What's more, you can't guarantee that a foreigner especially likes or even loves a country.
For example, you went to a relative's house and your mother didn't. She asks you, "Which is better, xxx or xxx?" In order not to be beaten, I will say hello to my mother anyway.
I don't think it's very intuitive, but my ability is limited, which is probably what I mean. Anyway, I admit that I spoke ill of other countries, such as xxx country is too unsafe, xxx country's quality is not high, xxx country has been in danger and so on. Then can you say that I insulted xxx country?
To put it mildly, she is an artist. What's wrong with spitting a few words? Not a man of much influence. If a politician says so, it is a question of another nature.
Of course, I don't want these words to be regarded as unpatriotic. I'm just stating a fact. I love my motherland. There is only one country in my motherland, called China. Thank you.
In order to achieve the effect of the program, it is more likely to arrange the script.
And counting the time, Shen Zhimin started in the second grade of junior high school in China, about 14 years old. Ji Min was 199 1 year old, that is, he went there in 2005.
If the air quality is good, why should it be treated?
What's more, Shen Zhimin can even admit his mistakes in the program. What kind words can you expect her to say for her about foreign countries?
Why did Ji Min's mother choose to let Ji Min study in China? Of course, she let her daughter go because she thinks China is good.
Well, I believe that although Zhi Min can't say she loves China very much, there will be fans from China at the signing ceremony. She can communicate in Chinese, and there is a Chinese version of Heartbeat sung by aoa, which is also very nice. I don't think there is anything to wash, really.
As for what man to take back to the dormitory, I have nothing to say After all, I didn't see it. Jin' e did not leave any substantial evidence, nor was she a party.
I don't know if you have noticed that not only Min 'e, Zhi Min seems to be alienated from the whole team, or it can be said that the whole team is very exclusive to Zhi Min's personality, but why are they still close to each other? Because Zhi Min is the captain, in terms of identity, teammates hate Zhi Min and have to put up with activities with her. Well, it's hard for me to be with annoying people. Maybe the team members feel the same way.
From the strength and resources, it can be seen that Zhimin is very popular in the company, and she has devoted a lot of resources. It can't be said that she won it all by herself, but if she doesn't have the strength, will she get it? Her rap strength is obvious to all, and her looks are average, but how many people are attracted by her strength?
People always know what they want to know. No one will lift a finger for a person who is getting darker and darker. If you look it up, everyone says she is not good, then she is a bad person. If Zhi Min is bullied as an example, then all of you have become "Zhi Min".
Maybe I hit some people's truth, which may hurt people, but I like to speak with evidence. Besides, I don't think there is anything wrong with the sound powder. After all, it's not her that I powder, but her voice and strength. Of course, there is no problem with this sentence.
In order to protect bloggers from being scolded by private letters, I cut off all nicknames.
No matter whether Shen Zhimin is under the pressure of public opinion or something, he always apologizes. No matter what she thought, or under pressure, she formally forgave Ji Min.
There are also some rational fans and rational passers-by in Weibo and QQ music, but there are more than some stations, which is very strange, because according to common sense, Weibo should be more poisonous.
Well, it was written a few days ago and updated today ... I'm a little tired. Many people commented on me, and I was tired of explaining it.
Actually, I just want to be fair. I'm not a big fan of Shen Zhimin and Quan Min. I only became a big fan a few months ago. I don't know what they call me sound powder, but I still want to write this article because I was scolded (I have given up, after all, this matter will come to an end after the exam, but those people who call me cyber violence are still there ...)
Yes, but I heard that Ji Mincheng cleared up the depression and said that losing weight has nothing to do with depression.
I just want to say that she clarified that everyone believes in depression. Why do those people have to deny the apology? I'm not saying that bullying has no real hammer. I mean, since Min-e has accepted the apology, why can't she let go of this topic?
I don't understand why so many people scold this rational comment. What does it have to do with the real hammer? That comment didn't say it wasn't a real hammer!
Yes, if those netizens really sympathize with Min 'e, why don't they support Min 'e's TV evidence or comfort her where she can see it (Tips: it's illegal to climb over the wall, but it shouldn't matter as long as it doesn't involve sensitive content, but I dare not do so).
Scold others in the name of Bao E where Bao E can't see them?
Passers-by stand at the highest point and scold others, but have you ever thought that those passers-by don't spend a penny to support them, but they can spray more than anyone else when something goes wrong, and some of them are taken out of context, even if they find an opportunity to vent, it is understandable, but it is a bully.
Although I'm not a big fan since my debut, at least I paid for the album and filled in the vip for Ji Min's songs. Of course, it's not for the sake of support, because the vip of that song is so nice.
Quite a lot, right? Interested readers can go to various platforms to see for themselves. I won't show them one by one, and I get angry when I look at them.
Next, I want to give an example of myself, from the perspective of Zhi Min.
When I first entered junior high school, a female classmate sitting at my front desk was my first friend in junior high school. Classmate B is a beautiful girl. But since A met B, she ignored me, because there were no other students in this school and I was introverted, so I was basically a loner in these three years. I am sad. Why did he ignore me? I thought we could be good friends. (Of course, A and I are still friends now, and B is basically the kind of person who lies quietly on the list and falls into the dust. )
My mother saw the photos of B military training and praised her for looking good. In fact, my primary school has always been well received and achieved good results. The teacher likes it, too, but I have been taking hormone medicine because I was sick in the sixth grade. I have gained a lot of weight and feel inferior. I want to know other stories, and I will tell them later. Because of this condition, there is no one in the circle of friends. This girl is praised by a group of people, and I feel very uncomfortable. I feel why I am not as good as her.
As we all know, people of that age are a little naive, and what they think is normal may be regrettable at that time. What's more, Korean trainees who are under great pressure are young, immature and easily distorted. Like Min 'e, they cut so many knives on their wrists.
Although the authenticity of scars can be forged and easily forged, is it really necessary? Regardless of whether there is such a thing in Korea (skin wax cream should be the name, I forgot) and Min 'e's eyes can tell, but even though Min 'e is an actress, she is still young. If she is not, how can she show her true feelings?
To tell the truth, when I look into her eyes, I feel scared. Weakness and emptiness look really terrible. (Well, it's 12:3 1am now. It's all dark around, and it looks even more horrible. )
As for my classmate B, I stay away from her because of that and other things. I never liked her very much. Although I desperately think about her advantages (she has many advantages in her studies, and I respect her very much), I still stay away from her.
Xi 'e belongs to the good-looking type in the team (I don't know much about other players, but I felt good at first sight). This is a personal aesthetic, which means nothing. The following contents are the key points.
Zhi Min's appearance aside, her personality is definitely rigid, not as soft and delicate as Min 'e, but because she is the captain, it's hard to say anything. What if she's not the captain? Apart from being a captain that the players respect, does Ji Min scare the players?
As we all know, Min 'e has a passable relationship with other members except Zhi Min. I remember once Min 'e was in a mood swing, and other members came forward to comfort her. Zhi Min sat alone. If we take our attention away from Min-e first, will Zhi-min be excluded?
I haven't seen all the AOA tour guides. I just entered the Korean circle. There must be something wrong. If it is wrong, everyone must point it out! It is convenient for me to modify. Thank you! 7.9 The article I wrote was a little emotional and anxious about the exam. Sorry; It's 7.28 now, and my mood is relatively stable after the exam, so it should be more objective.
Of course, I'm not saying this because I want to clean up the mess for Ji Min or what's happening. After all, Ji Min didn't pay me. I just want to feel isolated when I see this.
As for Min 'e's fear when she sees or hears something related to Zhi Min, I have a deep understanding of it.
I'm afraid of my mother. I usually fall asleep inadvertently, and I wake up instantly when I hear her footsteps. I'm afraid of her. Whenever my name is called, I instinctively shrink inside and subconsciously look at her with a straight face, and I feel uneasy. ...
Min-e must feel the same way. My mother used to bully me as an elder, and so did my other elders. (Of course, I haven't been beaten too much, and being beaten is just a slap. I think no matter how smart Min is, at least he won't be stupid enough to hit Min 'e. I think it's more of a personal and spiritual insult. To put it bluntly, it is swearing, cursing people's hearts and poking people's weaknesses. )
First of all, Captain Ji Min's status is almost an "elder" to other North Korean members. You can be silent behind your back but you can't deny it directly. If other members don't feel wronged for Min E, don't blame them for it.
If I am too sensitive, my two dogs, for example, will instinctively shrink back when they hear my mother's voice rising, although it is not for them. This is a biological instinct, and not everyone wants to do it. Just change your role to Min 'e or Ji Min, and you can actually think of it. Why not just think about it and scold both sides and other teammates?
Of course, it's not that you don't know the whole story, but please put yourself in. Sometimes my comments are too radical. Maybe it's because I'm young and I can't control myself better, but I want to think more about what the person I'm commenting on is like, in case he needs comfort, or what kind of person he is. It's not because of my mother, it's because I was scolded by the internet and attacked by violence. Even the photos were turned out (the strongest one), and only I said: the clothes of the role of xxx are not very beautiful ... (I will talk about this in more detail later). When I am sick or sad, I need comfort most. I was afraid to open the comment area at that time. Some people may say, in this case, why can't we not talk? I just want to say ... can you mind your fingers or your mouth first? Seeing the comments that scold you, no matter how good the mentality is, it will be even sadder.
Therefore, when spray Min 'e is green tea or spray Shen Zhimin is a sister, or scold an artist's appearance and figure, you don't need to know the whole process of this matter (of course, we won't know that it is not the party after all), but please think about it when you are scolded.
Although we are sometimes under great pressure, please don't take it out on others.
In fact, it was selfish of me to write Zhi Min first. After all, I wrote Min E first, and maybe no one read it all. I don't want to wash Zhi Min's hammer, but I hope everyone can think from many angles and think about why Zhi Min bullied Min 'e for ten years.
I think deliberately bullying a person for ten years is a long and painful thing for both the abuser and the victim. Why do you say that, the perpetrator will feel very long?
Ji Min said that she didn't remember those interesting things. There are two possibilities:
1. Ji Min said this on purpose, trying to put aside his doubts. This should be the idea of most people.
2. Ji Min really didn't know that her previous behavior had caused Min E's injury, or that Ji Min didn't take her behavior to hurt her as one thing at all. This view is what I think, and it is also the general meaning of Zhi Min's own words, and it is also the one that makes Min 'e speechless.
Since I wrote the first point myself, it proves that I doubted it, but I overturned it.
1. This matter, whether Min 'e said it unilaterally or not, is actually a final decision, not a fact that Zhi Min can overturn in one sentence.
I need to talk more about Ji Min's attitude of apologizing to Min 'e.
First, Ji Min came in angrily.
Don't you think it's strange? Is she angry with people who have hurt others? Is there really no remorse?
I think Ji Min should think like this:
1. She didn't understand why Min 'e had left the group for some time and why such news broke out at this critical period. What she thought was that Min 'e suddenly hurt her and the regiment like crazy for no reason.
Ji Min doesn't think he did anything wrong, and thinks that even if some behaviors are inappropriate, it's because Ji Min is trying to fulfill his duties as a captain.
If this logic is used, Ji Min really didn't think that Min E's sudden emotional breakdown was caused by her.
But as for the person who really hammered this matter, and Xi 'e have reached the point of anger, which can be said to be because of these two words-"novel".
When Min 'e published the first paragraph of her experience, Min 'e sent another ins with only two words "novel" on it.
At first, I didn't expect the word "novel" to cause such a big contradiction.
This will be analyzed from Min 'e's point of view.
Min 'e should have written her first article with a relatively negative attitude at that time, but it was not until Zhi Min wrote the word "novel" that her mood was relatively calm.
Min 'e can't accept that her bullying in the past ten years is described as a novel by her abuser, but why is Zhi Min a novel? After all, Min 'e didn't mention Zhi Min's name, but everything obviously refers to Zhi Min.
Some people say, does Min-e have to endure those eleven years? Won't she cancel the contract with the company?
Emmm…… ........... From the first paragraph of Min 'e's first post, we can know that Min 'e's family condition is not good.
The two people in the middle of the photo are Ji Min and Ji Min. On one occasion, Ji Min also wanted to make friends with Ji Min. She is very attached to her sister and wants to be attached to her sister Ji Min. ...
I really love her. Precious moths are really kind. Seeing her again and again doubting that her heart was really going to be broken, Jane always wondered if she had done something wrong, if she had done something wrong. ...
If there is no bullying, they should be good friends, and there may even be Shuangmin who calls AOA to cp …
How can I put it? I don't know much about Ji Min's idea, but Ji Min really wants to "please" Ji Min.
My use of "please" is not accurate, but
Well, I just watched my girl's mv, and I think it may be the next AOA, so I will definitely be scolded. Of course, as a sound powder, I think OMG's songs are really beautiful, even as good as those of big companies.
Of course, OMG has been discovered now, and the future can be expected. I mean, OMG was buried before.
In fact, I didn't have any views on small companies at first, and I also had some misunderstandings about small companies in South Korea. OMG changed my mind, the songs of small companies can be good. I also know that Korean artists who made their debut are also excellent.
Actually, these paragraphs were not written in my plan. I just saw the mv and suddenly thought of it. OMG and AOA have many similarities.
AOA and OMG can be said to be uneven distribution of resources. In fact, this is problematic. After all, many resources are found by investors.
Of course, big companies may be squeezed out of the team, but they will not be too radical, which is why the probability of hidden rules of big companies is smaller than that of small companies: one is that too many people are concerned and may be photographed by fans or paparazzi; Second, if it gets too big, it will be talked to by the leaders. Unlike some small companies, big companies often take over some groups to promote them. Originally, Korean netizens were harsh on artists, and it was inevitable that they would find some, so it was even harder to show them. And everyone's resources are not much different. The debut of the three groups is the highlight. No matter how hard a small company tries, I don't know if it will be discovered. Of course, there are many groups of potential small companies now.
And not every group will be as lucky as OMG to be recommended by seniors like IU.
It is necessary to talk about Min-e here. Min' e is weak in the team. Originally, she is the kind of cowardly character. Of course, such a character won't steal the camera, nor does she dare. This is a vicious circle. First of all, if you don't steal the camera, you won't be known to the audience, others will think that she is dispensable, and then her resources will be gone, so that Zhi Min will hate her even more, and she will feel more inferior and afraid to show herself next time.
In fact, is it really that she has no strength? I think it just doesn't suit her. She is more suitable to be an actress than to love beans. She has also made several TV plays in recent years. And if you become an actor, your status and money will be improved. I also hope that Min 'e's acting skills can be praised in the future, because since she can't prove that she loves beans, acting is her strength.
I was weak in junior high school. I was not good at art, so I could learn it without being taught. Of course, I also know that I can only scratch the surface. I really can't compare this with Min 'e, because I think Min 'e may be a big boss to me. hahaha.
My grades are poor. I am at the bottom of that school almost every day. I was entangled in the second day of the first grade, but I felt that I was not that material in the third grade, so I gave up on myself. what can I say? That school is the best in the city and its students are sharp. My score is pure scratch.
My grades are not good, no one wants to be with me, and one or two friends who are close to me are always pried away. Besides, I didn't study well at that time, and I was fat. The girls in our class are not fat.
I'm not discriminating against fat people. I think fat people are cute, but as a slightly fat person, I feel disgusting, ugly and stupid when I look at other people's slim figure and my own fat, and I hate myself because of my fat ass caused by sitting for a long time.
At that time, I felt that I was not studying well, so I went to other places to find my own existence. I have developed: art (hand-drawn and finger painting), writing, art design, comics, singing and rap, video editing, composition (arrangement? ), lyrics, women's group dance, simple choreography ...
Of course, these are superficial things. No one taught me, and I dare not tell anyone, but I brought it on myself and I don't regret it very much. At least I have done everything, but at the end of the senior high school entrance examination, I suddenly lost interest in everything, not because of guilt and regret, but because I really like it. And I find that doing these things is not very popular. After all, everyone is busy preparing for the exam. ...
Of course, I succeeded in losing weight because of dancing, which is why I like k-pop very much, because it brought me short-term self-confidence and success in losing weight anyway. But as long as I sit with those top student, I feel tired. I even felt numb to the score, and I thought I should take it for granted even if I didn't do well in the exam ... At that time, I was really inferior, but I was afraid of pain, and I thought about suicide. What I think most about every day is how to die without pain. Every day, my brain is making up pictures of all kinds of death moments. ...
The precious moth didn't dare to die. She had a mother to feed. I was so cowardly, but I don't care about the world anymore (it's hard to see that this was me a few days ago, maybe because of genetic problems, I was actually a little meticulous and autistic. At first, I thought everyone was like this) because I felt that everyone was dragged down by me. Without me, they wouldn't be so tired ... At that time, their emotions were in a state of collapse every day. In fact, all I needed was that.
In fact, in far away places, those children who commit suicide are worried about their loved ones in the end. Min 'e's hope is her mother and her concern. Unlike her, I can treat the isolation outside as nothing, but I really can't accept the cold face of my family.
Everyone likes strong people. ...
Later, I asked a classmate who had a good relationship with me, and I was quite right with her. During that time, she always accompanied me, of course, just to fetch water and so on, but it was warmer than those two years when she worked alone. I am also afraid that I will affect her study, so the time near the senior high school entrance examination is quite painful and stressful. Of course, I can only blame myself for not getting through earlier.
I told her I was fat and ugly before, and then she said I was plump in her eyes. Ha ha ha ha said the proportion is good. Although I don't know if she really thinks so, I think she is probably comforting me. Because what has been determined, how can it be easily changed?
Anyway, I think the difference between Min E and Ji Min is communication. I didn't say anything at first, and I came to this day.
Come, look at our confident Bao E, and hope Bao E will get better soon!
As for the words sent by Min 'e, they were mistaken for green tea. ...
I need to explain. First of all, there are inevitably some deviations in translation, because the simple name of brother and sister in Korea may sound left to us, but it is a common phenomenon in other countries, and so do boys.
I don't know whether Ji Min took the man back to the dormitory, or whether Ji Min really did it or whether Ji Min 'e misunderstood angry words, but in the face of such environment and pressure, I dare not take photos to collect evidence.
After Ji Min apologized, Min 'e said she wouldn't continue to send it, but she sent another one ... This is really strange to others, and I have nothing to explain. I won't do it, but I think she should think so.
First of all, she was afraid of Ji Min. As she said, Zhi Min came in angrily.
Second, she may have reluctantly accepted the apology. Later, after careful consideration, I felt that it was not right, and I was reluctant to say something.
At this point, no amount of explanation will be very weak. There is no real empathy in this world. All I can do is try to figure out something casually, and I don't know if it's right. I just want everyone to look at it from a comprehensive perspective. What would you do in this environment?
That's it. The article ended hastily and dragged on for a long time. I want to finish this article completely today, because I'm afraid that in a few days, I don't want to write at all, and nearly 10 thousand words will be written in vain.
I hope everyone's understanding and support!
August 6, after the shift change.
After that, it may be fine-tuned and rectified according to comments and other information.
I hope Min 'e's little cutie can get out of the shadow of being bullied, and Zhi Min can reflect on herself. If possible, talk to Min 'e and be a better self.
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